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There are many kinds of names that girls call boys, some of which are directly called names, but some titles are not like this, but some nicknames or directly call brothers.
In the face of girls' titles, sometimes we don't understand each other's meaning, and we can't figure out why the other party is called this way, especially when called "brother".
In fact, the title "brother" has many different meanings, and everyone shouts has different intentions.
"Brother" itself is a title between relatives, a title for brothers, but the relationship is not brother and sister, but it is still called brother.
In general, in this case, girls call you brother, most likely the following three meanings.
Treat you like a real brother
You are not a brother and sister, but the girl calls you a brother, in this case, it is likely to really treat you as a brother, after all, only if you are really a brother, will you be called like this.
In her heart, you are like your brother, for them, there is a feeling of brother and brother, and this feeling can make them feel a feeling of being cared for, a feeling of being cared for.
So in their eyes, you are like a brother, so they are willing to call you a brother.
A friend has an older brother of the opposite sex when he is young, and this brother is not a brother, nor does he have any kinship, but he knows him at work.
After knowing each other, the other party has always taken good care of Xiaoxiao, and in xiaoxiao's eyes, he is the same as his brother, so Xiaoxiao always calls him brother.
Whether it is going out together or partying, Xiao Xiao always calls each other, Brother Cheng.
At first, listening to such intimate titles, we all misunderstood their relationship, but Xiao Xiao said that they were not a male-female relationship, whether the other party took good care of themselves and made themselves feel like brothers.
There is a relationship, that is, there is no blood relationship between the other two, but the other is like their own brother, so in their eyes, this person is their brother.
And they would call such people brothers.
Have feelings for you
There is a relationship where girls have feelings for boys, but they don't know how to say it, so they will use the title to hint at each other.
For example, they like a boy, but they can't speak, so they will call each other brothers, no matter when, they will call each other brothers.
For them, brother is the best title, but also on behalf of their lover.
I was chatting with a reader before, and the reader and I shared their own story with a person I liked.
Readers said that when they met, they were all in college, and then the two slowly met, and began to contact, after contact, they were very fond of each other, but did not know how to say.
So with each other like friends in the same way, sometimes the other party will ask themselves to go to dinner, sometimes the other party will ask themselves to go shopping.
I thought that the other party would confess to himself, but the other party has not been, do not know what the other party is thinking, whether he really likes himself, but he likes it, because he likes the other party, but he does not dare to confess.
I am afraid that after confessing, the other party will not like it, nor will he be willing to be with himself, and finally there will be no friendship.
So once when they were chatting, they inadvertently said that they saw a TV in which the female protagonist called the male protagonist's brother, so he said to the boy, I will also call your brother in the future!
And the other party agreed, and then she kept calling the other brother, calling the other brother, but never dared to confess to the other party.
In fact, in reality, there are many people like this, obviously like a person, but afraid that their confession will make the relationship between the two deteriorate, so they call each other's brothers to express their love, but also want to see each other's meaning.
Therefore, when a woman looks at your eyes with obvious love, you must know that the other party calling your brother actually loves you, in fact, he likes you, don't understand.
Loved the feeling of being taken care of by you
In fact, many people in the post-90s generation are only children, either only daughters or only children.
Especially the only daughter, they are looking forward to having a brother, once there is a boy who takes good care of her, let her have a feeling of being taken care of.
So they will like to call such a person as a brother, in their view, calling the brother is really to treat the other person as a brother, just the other party takes care of themselves, so that they have a feeling of being cared for.
It feels like a big brother to a little sister, so they like to be with such people and like to call each other brothers.
From a psychological point of view, such a feeling is actually a kind of psychological compensation, that is, when they lack something when they are young and grow up, they just have such a feeling, so they will call it like this.
For example, when they were young, they liked those who had brothers, and they never had them, so when they grew up, they wanted to have a brother, and it just so happened that they met such a person and met a person who took care of them like an older brother, so they cared about each other very much, and really regarded each other as brothers.
So, when you are with a girl, if the other party calls your brother, then you must understand that the other party really regards you as a brother and really cares about you.
In fact, between men and women, some people call your brother, sometimes because they care about you, because they love you, and some people call your brother, they really like you, really value you, and really treat you as a brother.
Therefore, when a woman calls your brother, do not make a decision easily, but first learn to observe, that is, to look at the eyes of the other party, whether to be a brother, or to care about you, or to love you.
If the other person looks at you and loves you and cares about you, then you must know that this person loves you, likes you, and you can be together when you feel this way.
Between men and women, once a woman calls you an older brother, there are generally several meanings, and when you meet, you must learn to distinguish and then make appropriate decisions.
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