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There are many kinds of people, there is a kind of person, always a very good person, no matter when, they are all being true to themselves, but there is one kind of person who is not like this.
They will hide their true selves, but be a false person, in front of you, they may be very kind, very concerned about your feelings, but deep down, they do not necessarily think so.
They don't show their true selves, and for them, such a performance is not good for themselves, so a lot of times, they will hide themselves.
The important thing is that such people, when they get along with you, give you the feeling that they are very kind, they are very good, and they are always smiling.
Give people a good feeling about them, give people a feeling that they are very kind, so that you have no defense against them at all, no concerns about them.
But when you are really defenseless, you will find that they will hurt you when you don't know, and when you don't know, make you miserable and make you uncomfortable.
Such people are often people with good faces and black hearts, and they should stay away when they meet them, especially the following three.
The first type of person: people who are different before and after people
The first kind of people with good faces and black hearts is that the front of the person and the back of the person are completely different, when they are in front of the person, they have a good heart, always think of others, but the back of the person is not like this, always hurt us where we do not know.
Such a person, very sinister, is not worthy of our association.
There used to be a friend like this, every time we were together, no matter who it was, she could always think for everyone, think of ways for everyone, comfort everyone, and because of this, we all felt that she was very good and worth getting along with, so we were willing to be with her.
But slowly we find out that she is not like this, but hurts us behind our backs and says bad things about us.
Once a friend Xiaoting said about her family, and then she was very concerned about Xiaoting, constantly comforting Xiaoting, and trying to find a way to give Xiaoting advice, and finally Xiaoting was very grateful to her and thought that she was a good person.
I thought she was a friend who could make deep friends, but afterwards, Xiaoting found that almost many people knew about it, and it was very difficult to hear.
Xiaoting was very disappointed after hearing it, what was important was that during that time, everyone looked at Xiaoting with colored glasses, which made Xiaoting unacceptable.
In the end, Xiaoting understood that the people who said this behind her were all friends who thought they were very good, and in the face of such a friend, Xiaoting was very broken, and she did not know why the other party was such a good person, but behind it was like this.
In fact, in reality, there is such a kind of person, who is very good to you in front of people, so that you mistakenly think that they are very good people, but behind the scenes, it is not like this, but behind your back to do something to hurt you, or to say something that hurts you.
The second type of person: the person who always seems to be smiling
The second kind of people, and the most defenseless people, such people, always seem to be smiling, let us mistakenly think that they are very good people, very kind people, but in fact their smiles are limited to the face.
Their hearts are not good, not a kind person, but a person who is very fierce to people, a person with a very poisonous heart, such a person, once they meet, they must be careful.
Some time ago, I saw a netizen sharing on the Internet, netizens said that they had such a friend, very vicious, before their own has not been found, but also always thought that the other party is a very good person, is a very worthy of contact with people, but slowly found out that the other party is not like this.
Netizens said that when they first knew each other, the other person was very good, always smiling, facing each other's laughter, they were relieved at the beginning, felt that the other party was a very good person, and then slowly got along, and became very good friends with each other.
I always have something to tell each other, and when I am unhappy, I also like to tell each other that for myself, the other party is sometimes a friend, sometimes like a big sister.
I thought that I could get along for a lifetime, and I could be friends for a lifetime, but I slowly found that the other party was not such a person.
She had a boyfriend, but also let the boyfriend know her, at the beginning they added WeChat, they did not think much, but slowly found that it was not right, she was very good to the boyfriend, sometimes buy things for the boyfriend.
Later, my boyfriend told me that she came to her one day and said that she was very unhappy, that I was not good to him, that she was disappointed, and then cried and said to her boyfriend that she was going to her boyfriend's house.
Looking at her like this, the boyfriend felt that she was wrong and rejected her, and she has been in front of her boyfriend since then, pretending to be wronged.
In the face of her boyfriend also showing herself what she said, I was shocked at that moment, and I didn't think that she was such a person.
I have to say that some people always look smiling and give people the feeling that they are very good, but in fact, they are not such people behind them, so when you meet such people, pay more attention.
The third kind of person: the person who seems to be good to everyone
The third kind of person is a person who seems to be very good to everyone, and such a person seems to be very good to everyone, but in fact, it is not.
They just act nice to everyone, not behind the scenes, but don't like or dislike.
Such people, but to hide their feelings, pretend to be good to everyone, pretend to be a good person, they are just hiding their true selves in this way.
Such a person, once you meet it, pay attention to it.
For a real person, there is no need to hide, only those who are not good enough in their hearts need to hide, because they are not good enough, not really good, to use the good side to disguise themselves.
Such a person is not worth your relationship with, once you have a relationship, when the other party hurts you, you don't know, when you did something sorry for you, you don't know.
In fact, in our life, there are many people who are like this, not behind your back, or hurt you behind your back, they seem to be very good people, but in fact, these are all pretended, they are not really good, but pretend to be good to you, such people, once met, they must stay away.
There are many kinds of people, some people are very real, what the heart is, is what kind of, such a person is worth your interaction, but there is a kind of person is not like this, they pretend to be good to people, pretend to be a good person, such a person's heart is often not good, such a person, once you meet it, you have to stay away.
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