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Some people say that a person who loves you can't hide it, no matter how the other party hides it, it will be discovered by us, and the important thing is that such concealment is useless.
Because although you don't say it in your mouth, your behavior and eyes have betrayed his love, so when = when you love someone, don't hide it, because your concealment can't change anything, and it can't be hidden.
In fact, the world of feelings is like this, very straightforward, but also obvious.
But even so, when a person loves us, without telling us directly, it is difficult for us to be sure, and even if we are sure, we are not embarrassed to take the initiative to say it, because we always hope that the other party will take the initiative to say it, but many people will not take the initiative to say it so easily.
What are we going to do at this point? In fact, the best way is to pretend to be stupid.
When the other party makes 4 behaviors, pretend to be stupid and do not understand, so that the other party may slowly take the initiative to say their feelings.
Pretend to be stupid and don't understand his love
Some people always think that when they love you, they always think that they don't say it, and you also know their love, so many times, we will find that such a person, they will not tell you his love.
He thinks that this is mutual acquiescence, you know, and slowly together, but in fact, this way, will make you very confused, will wonder whether the other party really loves you?
So at such a time, you have to learn to pretend to be stupid, that is, pretend to be stupid and not understand his love, pretend to be stupid and not know how he feels about you, and every time the other party says something that seems to have a deep meaning and a meaning, you pretend not to know.
Just like in the TV series "The Rest of Your Life, Please Give More Advice", when Gu Wei said to Lin Zhixiao, Lin Zhixiao did not understand.
Once Gu Wei explained to Lin Zhixue that he and Dr. Gao were not that kind of relationship, he and Dr. Gao were college classmates, and their parents also knew, so they would be more familiar, Lin Zhixue was very confused, why Gu Wei said this to herself, although she was not really pretending to be stupid, but when we met a person who said this, we can learn Lin Zhixue, really pretend to be stupid.
Colonel Lin said, "What are you telling me about this?" Oh, I understand that you are afraid that I will gossip, you put it down, my dad will be discharged immediately, I will not say it casually. ”
Hearing Lin Zhixue's words, Gu Wei was devastated.
In fact, when a person does not explicitly say love to you, some hints, hints like you, you have to learn to pretend to be stupid.
Pretend to be stupid and don't understand what he says
When a person won't explicitly show his love for you, you also have to learn to pretend to be stupid and not understand what he's saying.
For example, after the other party tells you what kind of time you want in the future, you pretend not to understand, pretend not to know what the other party is saying to you.
Also pretend not to understand what the other party is saying, at this time, the other party will feel very helpless, very speechless, and no matter what it is, we must know, after you show to understand?
The other person still won't explicitly say themselves, what matters is whether the other person is ready to really be with you or not is still two different things.
Some people don't tell you, it's implicit, it's embarrassing, some people are hesitating, facing a hesitant person, what you have to do is not to take the initiative to understand, but to pretend not to understand, to leave yourself some leeway.
Just like in the TV series "The Rest of Your Life, Please Give More Advice", Gu Wei said that he had a habit of cleanliness, but he did not have a cleaning habit, in fact, Gu Wei's meaning was obvious, that is, for himself, Lin Zhi School was a special existence, a different existence, and at this time, we understand it truthfully, what can you do?
Can feelings go further? No, instead of that, it's better to pretend to be stupid.
Just like lin school, when Gu Wei said that he didn't have a lin school, Lin school said, "It doesn't matter, I'm fine." ”
In fact, when a man does not tell you that he loves, you must learn to pretend to be stupid, pretend to be stupid and not understand what the other party is saying, so that the other party will be worried, anxious, and will take the initiative to confess to you.
Pretend to be stupid and don't understand what he means
Sometimes, in a relationship, if the other party does not explicitly say that they love, you have to learn to pretend to be stupid and can't understand what he is saying, if you don't know how to pretend to be stupid, misunderstood?
Isn't it very embarrassing, the important thing is that such embarrassment, in addition to making yourself uncomfortable, you can't change it, instead of this, it is better to learn to pretend to be stupid, so that you will not be embarrassed.
Friend Xiaoxiao once experienced an embarrassing thing, when Xiaoxiao was with a male friend, Xiaoxiao felt that the other party loved himself, because the other party said something to himself, he could see that he cared about himself and loved himself, so Xiaoxiao was very active.
Once the other party said that he didn't like to eat spicy food, but Xiao Xiao said, it's okay, you will like it later.
The other party heard the little words, stunned, not quite understood.
Later, Xiao Xiao thought that he had made it very clear, and the other party must know that he would also be in love, so Xiao Xiao waited for the other party's initiative to contact, but after that, the other party never contacted Xiao Xiao again.
At that moment, Xiao Xiao was extremely embarrassed, and only then did he realize that the other party did not love himself and did not care about himself.
In fact, in the world of feelings, if you are too active, sometimes instead of letting love continue, you will put yourself in an embarrassing situation, rather than this, it is better to learn to pretend to be stupid and not understand what the other party is saying.
Pretending to be stupid and not taking care of yourself
Want to know whether a person really loves you, in fact, it is very simple, look at whether the other party is a relationship you understand, when a person really loves you, is concerned about your feelings, but also care about you, more willing to take care of you.
At this point, you can pretend that you don't know how to take care of yourself and see if the other person will take care of you.
For example, if you are unwell, you will say that you are very uncomfortable, but you do not know what medicine to drink, and you do not know what to do, at this time, you have to see the other party's reaction, if the other party loves you, then do not think, must love you, must care about you.
But if the other party does not have any reaction, then you don't have to think about it, the other party must not love you, and it does not care about you.
Because I don't love you enough, I don't care about you enough, so I don't care about you, even if you are uncomfortable, I don't care about your feelings.
In fact, if you want to know if a person really loves you, the best way is to pretend to be stupid, when you pretend to be stupid, the other party cares about you, is to value you, then you have to know that the other party loves you.
But if after you pretend to be stupid, the other party does not have any reaction, then don't think about it, the other party must not love you.
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