After the end of "The Rest of Your Life, Please Give More Advice", it is still a bit unfinished, although Gu Wei and Lin Zhi's school spent seven years of itching, and the child Gu Lin was also born smoothly, and the two lived happily together.
As a small sweet drama, the sweet love story of Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue makes the audience can't help but send out "aunt laughs", but looking back at their acquaintance to marriage, from this sweet little couple, everyone can learn three love lessons.
The first lesson: don't cower during the ambiguous period, like to bravely take the first step
Before Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei formally established their relationship, there was a period of ambiguity. What is the ambiguous period? In fact, they have a good feeling for each other, but they have not yet been confirmed as boyfriend and girlfriend.
The feelings during this period are the most fragile, it is easy to be insecure, and if there is a little wind and grass, it is likely to lead to the breakdown of the relationship. The caution of both parties in dealing with feelings, the careful temptation of each other, and the sugar hidden in the dark are the most true portrayals of the ambiguous period.
Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue are like this, before they are not sure whether the other party likes themselves, both of them are in a very normal exchange, they will secretly protect each other, care for each other, favor each other, and regard each other as a unique existence.
Because I didn't break through that layer of paper, I would feel insecure and not know what kind of identity I was going to face the other person.
Therefore, Lin Zhixue mistakenly thought that Gao Huan and Gu Wei were a couple, and both of them had to talk about marriage; Gu Wei thought that Lin Zhixue liked Shao Jiang, causing him to withdraw and want to quit. In the end, the two misunderstood a lot and almost didn't get together.
So when you feel that the other party is different from you, and you like each other, it is better to take the first step bravely, seize the opportunity to make a brave confession, and do not cower, otherwise it will be you who will regret it.
The second lesson: when encountering difficulties and setbacks, we must face them together, and do not conceal and make up our own minds
Even if Lin Zhixue was with Gu Wei, it was not smooth sailing. In the process of their interaction, they still encountered many problems. It is sweet and sweet on weekdays, but when I encounter difficulties, I panic.
Gu Wei was hindered by the slander of the hospital because of the matter, worried that he could not give Lin Zhixue a good future, and messed up the party to see his parents. Later, he had a very cold attitude towards Lin Zhixue, and he shut down and went out to think about life.
Lin Zhixue, who did not know the truth, was in a deep state of self-blame and sadness, and always felt that he had done something wrong. Concealing the facts and not telling the other party the truth, without the honesty of the two people facing together, is bound to hurt the other party.
Both sides of the relationship are to be honest with each other, and since the decision is to go hand in hand to the end, even if they encounter difficulties and setbacks, they must face them together. In the plot of "The Rest of Your Life, Please Give More Advice", Gu Wei also realized this problem later, and in the conversation with Lin Zhixiao, he also said his mistake.
Therefore, when encountering difficulties and setbacks, do not think that for the good of the other party, you can hide from the other party, do not think that you can solve it on your own initiative, the other party also has the right to know, and it is the best choice to face it together.
The third lesson: feelings are paid by both parties, not blindly by one party
Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue finally entered the palace of marriage, and did everyone feel very touched by their marriage vows? That was because the oath that Lin Zhixue had originally prepared was lost. When the oath of Lin Zhixue was found in the back, and Gu Wei saw it and read it, it suddenly made people feel speechless.
From this oath, it can be seen that Lin Zhixue completely stands in his own perspective and says that his marriage to Gu Wei is a kind of "charity" with a posture of "being on high".
This may be the effect of the TV series, for not getting on the table is very fortunate, as a marriage oath, in the case of the man's parents are present, to say such a wedding vow, it is really a little impolite.
Feelings are mutual, not one party blindly demanding, nor is it the other party's compromise. The love experience between Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue, I have to say that every time Gu Wei goes forward, he rarely sees lin Zhixue's efforts.
Even on such an important occasion as the wedding, the wedding vows written by Lin Zhixue were so unconsidered about Gu Wei, so childish, to be honest, it was really a bit disappointing.
Marriage is a two-love agreement, a lifelong agreement, not a grievance to get married. Fortunately, the original wedding vow was lost, the wedding was very successful, Lin Zhixiao and Gu Wei spent seven years of itching, married and had children living happily together.
Judging from the love experience of Gu Wei and Lin Zhi School, I hope that everyone can learn a lesson, be with your beloved, less quarrelsome, more sweet!