■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
■ Original works, plagiarism must be investigated
01, people, it is inevitable that there will be times of discouragement.
People, it is inevitable that there will be times of discouragement. This is an indisputable fact, it does not matter if a person is down, as long as he does not give up on himself, as long as he knows how to learn a lesson, then, "thirty years of Hedong, thirty years of Hexi", relying on our efforts, we will inevitably achieve our goal of making a comeback in life. Therefore, it is very important to correctly look at your own downfall, or even the encounter of the victim.
If a person falls down and collapses, what awaits us must be the sadness of "mud can't support the wall". However, if a person is downcast, how to treat his interpersonal relationships correctly? I think that when you are down, when you are down, try not to meet these people, not inferiority but helplessness. So, if a person is downcast, who should he try to contact as little as possible?
02, when you are down, try not to meet with fox friends.
First of all, when you are down, try not to meet with fox friends. Because when we are beautiful, we will inevitably have the psychology of showing off, saying that "the rich and noble do not return to their hometown, such as the night of clothing", in fact, this is the meaning. Therefore, when we are beautiful, we are often surrounded by many people. And in this feeling of hugging back and forth, we are always blindfolded.
So, surrounded by these fox friends, we enjoy the taste of being touted and served. When the wine has passed three rounds of dishes and five flavors, these friends around us always want to "taoyuan three knots" with us, and will always pat their chests to insert knives into our two ribs. In fact, we will understand afterwards that these people are just playing a trick. And once we are down, or even in distress, when we go to find these friends who once had to insert knives in our ribs, we find that these people are running faster than anyone. Some even sneer at us.
Therefore, when we are down, we try not to meet with these fox friends, these fox friends are very realistic people. First, they will certainly not help us, and second, they are very realistic people, and for us who are downcast, they will definitely find ways to avoid, and even mock us. We still have to be self-aware and take the initiative to stay away.
03, when you are down, try not to go to Bo Qing's relatives.
Secondly, when we are down, we should not go to those relatives who are thin-hearted. In fact, kinship is a very important relationship, and human beings also feel that life is more beautiful because they have family affection and kinship, and they also have a kind of family affection. However, not all relatives will become an important force in our lives.
Perhaps, when we are beautiful, we will often carry large bags of things to relatives' homes to visit the New Year. And these relatives will also treat us with courtesy because we have some personal resources attached to them. And once we are down, or even in distress, some relatives are afraid of our situation and will bring them trouble. Therefore, they will choose to stay away.
People all have such a mentality of "seeking advantage and avoiding harm", and we must learn to understand. Although such an understanding is very helpless. But that's the reality, that's the society, and that's the deep estrangement that exists between us and these thin relatives. "The hustle and bustle of the world is for profit, and the world is all for profit", many people are unsympathetic in the face of interests, including these relatives of thin affection. Therefore, when we are down, we try not to go to these thin relatives, which is not an inferiority, but a helplessness.
04, when you are down, try not to go near the desperate people.
Third, when we are down, we must know how to keep our bottom line and try not to get close to those who like to take risks. Why? Because around us, some people who like to take risks have gained some benefits by relying on their illegal and criminal behavior. However, these people often have a lot of intentions, they like to hide behind their backs, direct and manipulate some people to fight for their lives.
Naturally, these people will also give these pawns some money and benefits. If we are discouraged and we go to these desperate people, then these people will take advantage of the urgency of our need for money, the need for help, to throw an olive branch of interests to us and let us do things for them. In fact, such a thing, many times, is a kind of illegal crime, such a thing, once the East Window incident, the first to suffer, often is ourselves.
Because, we have become the opposing side's shield. Once we are deeply imprisoned, then we will spend the rest of our lives no matter how hard we work, and it is estimated that it will be difficult to recover. Therefore, when we are down, we try not to get close to those who are desperate to take risks, which is not an inferiority, but a helplessness, but also a kind of self-protection.
05, when you are down, try not to influence your former predecessor.
Fourth, when we are down, we try not to influence our former predecessors. People will always encounter their own love. However, not all love will have good results. Some loves, even when they are about to enter the palace of marriage, will suffer a sudden blow. Some, it is the parents' sticks to beat the mandarin ducks, some, it is the horizontal knife of others to seize love, and some, or the other party's ruthless departure.
Now, after many years, each other has their own families and lives, and there is basically no contact between each other. However, the unforgettable love of that year will often rise in their hearts in the dead of night. When a person is down, this kind of thinking will be more profound. Many people who are downcast often encounter their own emotional and even marital crises, and when they are alone and fall into a depressed situation, they will have a feeling of deep missing their predecessors.
At this time, if we go to the ex again, many exs will still help us, and some will even rekindle old feelings. In this way, we will bring ruin to each other's families, and then our sins will be great. Therefore, when we are down, we try not to influence our former exs, which is not an inferiority complex, but the best way to protect each other.
06, when the fall, must remember the comeback.
Friends, everyone, may encounter their own time of despair. After all, it is too difficult for a person to have a smooth life. Many people have made great efforts and have just lived ordinary days. But this is the reality, this is life, because "life is not satisfactory in all probabilities", we live, we have to learn to accept and bear these sudden encounters.
However, when we are down, we must know how to "calm" our hearts, and then rely on our efforts to make a comeback. Because only by truly realizing our own comeback can we truly grow, we can become a truly mature individual, and our life will be more exciting because of this. Friends, you say, is that right? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you.
【About the author】:Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories and emotional beauty writing, has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful texts and stories. Major self-media platforms original plus V authors, major platforms have accumulated millions of fan authors, and major platforms have accumulated more than 500 million clicks. Uncle Nanshan aims to give everyone more small stories of positive energy through simple words, tell everyone some truths about being a person, and feel some beautiful little luck in life.