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In the world of feelings, it seems that when we love someone, it is difficult to control the feeling of caring and loving, and we unconsciously want to be with a person, unconsciously want to cling to a person.
Unconsciously, we will also observe a person's movements and what a person is doing, as if this will make our hearts feel better and the love in our hearts will be relieved.
In fact, no matter what age people are, this is the case, once they are emotional about a person, they can't control their feelings, and they can't hide the kind of love in their hearts.
Especially middle-aged women, once this is done, it is easy to get out of control of several uncontrollable, must be understood.
The first loss of control: always wanting to see each other
Middle-aged women are emotional about a person, that is, they really care, they like a person, care about a person, value a person, for the sake of a person.
At this time, they want to see each other all the time, always be with each other, once the other party is not in front of their eyes, they are worried, they can't control their thoughts.
At such times, they will find a way to contact each other, or know each other's news.
At this time, if they are with each other, they will take the initiative to contact each other and want to meet each other, and if they are not together, they will not take the initiative to contact each other, nor will they be with each other, but they will find a way to know each other's news and can inadvertently meet each other.
A few days ago, a reader shared her feelings with me, saying that she is 39 years old and has fallen in love with a colleague.
But because both of them have families, they can't say or be together, so they don't say anything to each other, and they don't know if the other person knows that they like him.
So she did not dare to take the initiative to contact each other, for a period of time, found that he did not come to work for several days, and she missed it very much, wanted to see each other all the time, and could not take the initiative to contact, so she pretended to chat with colleagues inadvertently.
And then after knowing his place, I went to meet him.
In fact, once a middle-aged woman is emotional, she will be so, she will uncontrollably want to see each other, she will not be able to control her desire to be with each other, and once she can't see them, she will find a way to create opportunities to meet.
The second loss of control: when you see each other, you are happy
When a middle-aged woman is emotional about a man, once she sees each other, she will be very happy, once she sees each other, she will be very happy, they like to be with each other, they like to be able to see each other.
When this person is not there, they will feel empty in their hearts, as if something is missing, what they do is listless, what they do is very boring, as long as they can't see each other, they are not in a state, and they look completely stateless.
But if you can see each other, you will find that their whole state is different, their mood is very good, and they are happy in everything they do.
Even if they don't talk to each other, as long as they can see each other, they will be very content and happy.
And this kind of happiness cannot be hidden, it cannot be hidden, and even if they want to hide their good mood, they cannot control it.
Because once you have a heart for a person, you will find that many times, you can't control your heart, and you can't control your heart.
The third out-of-control: as long as the other person is in the place, it's like getting together
When a middle-aged woman is emotional with a man, she will find that as long as the other party is there, she wants to get together, wants to talk to each other, and wants to be with each other.
Whether it is talking or in a crowded situation, it is better to feel that the other party is closer, as long as the other party is there and can stay with the other party, they are happy and excited.
There was a colleague who was like this before, she divorced her husband, and then she fell in love with a male colleague at the company.
And every time as long as the other party is in the occasion, she wants to get together, she said, every time she sees the other party is there, she is very curious, wants to know what the other party is doing, and is very interested in each other's things.
So, each time they would uncontrollably get together, and each time they pretended to inadvertently get next to each other and listen to the problems they were discussing.
Colleagues said that in fact, they do not insist on being together, that is, every time they see him, they feel very moved and feel very happy, and every time they see him, they want to get closer to him.
In fact, when a woman is emotional, it is like this, they want to be close to each other, they want to be by each other's side, they want to be with each other at all times, as long as it is the occasion where the other party is, they want to get together, they want to be by each other's side.
The fourth out-of-control: at night, I can't help but make contact
I don't know if you have such a feeling, when you like a person, it is fine during the day, but at night, that kind of thought will occupy your heart, making you uncontrollably want to contact the other party.
Because during the day, we have work, there are things to do, always busy, no time to think too much, but at night it is different, at night, after a person sleeps, they will unconsciously think of each other and want to contact each other.
At this time, I am thinking in my heart, what is the other party doing, is the other party thinking about himself at this time? So they will look at each other's circle of friends, and even uncontrollably contact each other.
But a lot of times, it's not that you can't control it, but a lot of times, you have to know that even if you want to control it, you can't control it.
This kind of thought is like a seed, it is always sprouting and growing, and I can't help but contact each other.
In fact, a woman's life after middle age is like this, after they are emotional about a person, they can't control themselves, they can't control their love.
So they will appear these few uncontrollable loss of control, perhaps some people say that they do not know how to control themselves, but in fact, in the world of feelings, once they fall in love with a person and are emotional about a person, you know that you cannot control yourself, you have no way to control your feelings and your own behavior.
You can't help but contact each other, can't help but want to be with each other, can't help but want to get close to each other, in fact, this is a very normal phenomenon.
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