Compassion can not only prosper the family, but also become virtuous

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Mother and father are also very strict with our brothers and sisters. That is to say, our brothers and sisters have good food and delicious food, and we must give it to our uncles and aunts first. I remember once we went to Jiangtai Township and saw a newly built nursing home. ah! It was grand and beautiful. I came back and said to my parents, and I said, "Oops! Such a good nursing home, if you want your uncle and aunt to go, it would be good." Unexpectedly, I was beaten by my mother with this sentence, and I was beaten to the skin and flesh, and I didn't know what the reason was. My mother hit me and said, "Tell you to say such unfilial words again, and tell you to say such disrespectful things again." "My mother was very respectful to my uncle and aunt, but very strict with us. If my uncle and aunt didn't move the chopsticks when we ate, if we moved the chopsticks, we would be severely punished. In our family, my experience, my mother played the most important role in the implementation of my grandmother's last words in this family.

When my aunt died, there was a very difficult process of dying, I couldn't swallow it in one breath, I went and came back, walked and came back. At this time, someone reminded her that she was waiting for Guo Wenbin's mother? My mom was busy in the kitchen because there were many relatives who came to visit. At this time my mother washed her hands and went to the head of my aunt's bed, grabbed my aunt's hand, and my aunt seemed to say something to her, but did not say it, but swallowed it. I kept imagining what my aunt wanted to say to her sister-in-law at that moment. There may be too much to say.

There are many images in my memory, in the courtyard of a sun-drenched fort, my aunt sitting on a stool, and my mother combing her hair. My aunt is a three-inch golden lotus, and after a while, my mother will wash my aunt's feet. That foot binding was long, and that smelled bad. Whenever my mother washed her feet, we would hide away. But I didn't see my mother feel a little disgusted, so she took a pair of scissors and cut and washed there.

After my aunt died, the work of caring for my uncle fell to my mother. My mother really did "winter is warm, summer is cold, morning is provincial, and dusk is fixed." I remember that every winter she sewed cotton jackets for my uncle early in the morning, sewed cotton pants for my uncle early, let my uncle wear warmth and warmth, and asked my uncle what he wanted to eat at every meal. In the summer, my uncle made singles. I kept wondering, my grandmother, that she might not have thought of what this sentence she had left behind meant for the rest of my mother's life. But if we were to speak from the point of view of the energy we talked about earlier, my mother lived in a state of no-self, a state without ego, but her old age was particularly happy. My lover treats my mom the same way my mom treats my aunt. I often say that my mother-in-law did not enjoy the filial piety of my lover, but my mother enjoyed it, and my mother kissed mother and daughter in the relationship with my lover.

Once, when our family was celebrating the New Year, we took a family portrait. I hugged my father, my lover hugged my mother, and after the photo was washed out, I felt embarrassed. Why? My dad and I looked like strangers, and my lover was like a mother and daughter to my mom. It is that kind of kiss, you can imagine that their hearts are not hindered. My mother exchanged her life's hardships for the happiness of her later years, and in her later years we took her to live in Yinchuan and spent the last part of her life with us. Looking back on that time, I also feel more comforted.

I used to say to my father half-jokingly, and I said, "Dad, when you beat my mother, my mother should take revenge on you." My mom was right there laughing. It often happens in my memory that my father thought that my mother seemed to have the wrong tone for my uncle and aunt, and he punched and kicked. Another thing that makes me very happy is that my mother's death process is very elegant and peaceful! Joked and left this world. Compared with my aunt, it is very obvious. My aunt walked with a lot of trouble, and my mother walked with great ease.

In the history of our family, there may be a problem that is placed in the whole country and rarely seen in history. After the death of my uncle and aunt, according to the "constitution" of the people, an important part was to go out and sue. To people's surprise, in the son's column, my father actually wrote me and my brother all about it. Many people have reminded that this is not okay, either you will pass on alone, or you will be a nephew. Otherwise, when you come to that life you will fight for your children, it will be restless. Unexpectedly, my mother said a word, saying: When I was alive, I didn't fight, and when I died, I didn't fight for anything. In the history of our family, there is a fact that may not be understood and accepted by any family, that is, in the minds of my parents, this family has lived together, and the children are also everyone's. The same is true in our conception of brother and sister, not realizing which one is the uncle and which one is the father, they are all the same, they are all the same, they are all the same. In the sense of "brotherly Friends, Brothers, Brothers, Brothers, filial piety in the middle", the Guo family in "Forever Fort" may have achieved a certain model, which can be described as a model.

compere:

In the previous section, Mr. Guo Wenbin, with his parents, especially his own mother, with rare words and deeds, told us the story of respecting his brother and sister-in-law that He Dao could not only prosper his family, but also become virtuous. Zhou Yi Yun: "There is heaven and earth and then there are all things, there are all things and then there are men and women, there are men and women and then there are couples, there are couples and then there are fathers and sons." If you continue, there will be brothers and sisters when there is a father and a son. Sibling relationships are the most important human relationships besides parents and children, husbands and wives.

China's cultural traditions and historical experience of more than 5,000 years tell us that "brotherhood, brotherhood, brotherhood" is a compulsory course for the "Qi family", and the Qi family is a compulsory course for governing the country and the world. Then Guo Wenbin explained to us through the principle of resonance that "brotherhood and brotherhood" is one of the best ways to increase the energy in our life energy pool. Whether it is an individual, a family, or a nation to be strong, it is inseparable from the improvement of overall performance. Therefore, compassion and the spirit of compassion can bring about family harmony, social tranquility, national peace, and people's happiness.

Mr. Guo Wenbin:

Now our brothers and sisters have also inherited this tradition. In our impression, it seems that there is no distinction between who and who is the family, whether it is wealth or feelings, which continues this tradition of the father's generation. This also makes our old people feel very comforted. This is a story that my family, my own personal experience, I want to talk about the meaning of "brotherhood, filial piety in the middle". I think my grandmother must have felt comforted in the Spirit of Heaven. Because she saw that her last words had been thoroughly carried out by her father and mother, she must have felt comforted.

This article is excerpted from "Guo Wenbin's Interpretation"

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