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"A wise man will have a thousand worries and a loss, and a fool will have a thousand worries and a gain."
No matter how powerful a person is, he cannot do everything, and there are always times when he is not well considered and unable to do so.
When people reach middle age, if they rely on their own strength, they look very backbone, but in fact, they are too stubborn and easy to fall into the point of isolation and helplessness.
If you want to get mixed up, don't be reckless, you must learn to borrow power. Push the boat along the water, go with the wind, Pepsi can win.
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With the help of the forces of nature, you can save time and effort.
In the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Zhou Yu harassed Zhuge Liang and asked him to make 100,000 arrows in ten days. Zhuge Liang summoned several grass boats and went to Shout in front of Cao Jun for a while, causing Cao Jun to shoot arrows fiercely, and then quickly left by the wind, and the arrows were "built".
In addition, there is an allusion to "everything is ready, only the east wind is owed", which also shows the power of the wind.
In real life, windmills, water wheels, etc., turn the power of wind and water into electricity, etc., and can also be used to drive rice mills. By damming the river, water can be introduced into the farmland for irrigation.
When people reach middle age, do you seriously think about it, what kind of power around you can help you succeed?
A friend of mine, who has been working in Dongguan for many years, returned to his hometown last summer, repaired the old house, and sorted out a small waterfall behind the house, which attracted many people in the city to come and play, and his home became an inn.
The unique environment is actually an important place for entrepreneurship, which contains great potential.
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With the help of others, you can grow quickly.
During the Jin Dynasty, there was a writer named Zuo Si who wrote a "Three Capitals". He took out the article and showed it to others, hoping to get guidance and praise, but he was ridiculed.
There is a writer named Zhang Hua, after reading it, he thinks that the article is very good, but he needs to be reviewed by a famous artist in order to get more people's recognition. Therefore, he suggested that the article be taken to the famous scholar Huang Pumi at that time.
Huang Pumi admired the "Three Capitals" and wrote a preface. Since then, the article has become famous, and Zuo Si's fame has become even greater.
After hundreds of years, the habit of literati and inkers encouraging each other and writing prefaces to novels and prose collections has always existed. A less famous author, get the comments of famous writers, grow faster, and even transform into a famous writer.
Middle-aged people, in life, will become two kinds of people: people who eat, drink and have fun while working; people who work hard, work overtime, and never socialize. Under the same conditions, the first type of person is more likely to succeed, with the help of circles, and the second type of person, easy to become an honest person who is bullied, may be marginalized.
Blind socializing can make people disoriented. But the right social networking will allow you to find like-minded people. Only by receiving guidance and promotion from a high person can we move forward quickly.
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With the help of emotional power, you can make a home and a career.
As the old saying goes: "Fight father and son soldiers, fight tiger brothers." ”
Somehow, many people would rather smile at outsiders than cooperate with their families, and regard their brothers and sisters as enemies rather than filial piety to their parents.
One of my cousins, who hated his parents for not helping him buy a house, gambled and went to Guangzhou to work. Later, he took out all the savings of part-time work and cooperated with people, hoping to make a profit, but he lost money.
In February last year, his cousin's parents came to Guangzhou, gave him 20,000 yuan, and dragged him back to his hometown to develop the planting industry. In just one year, the family made tens of thousands of dollars by growing ginger.
In fact, no matter how much enmity there is between relatives, the blood affection will not be lost. As the saying goes, "Tiger poison does not eat seeds." "Put the contradiction aside and work together to do something at any time."
When a person is the weakest, outsiders will not help you, but relatives will look at the "flesh and bones" and pull a hand. If you borrow this feeling, you can go further.
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With the help of society, opportunities can be seized.
"The gold cup and silver cup are not as good as the reputation of the masses", people in middle age, if they want to achieve great success, they must establish their own image and be recognized by others.
During the Jin Dynasty, the general Huan Wen led the Northern Expedition. Yuan Hu was originally a man who was punished, but he still went out with the army.
On the way, a Lubu text was needed, and Yuan Hu was brilliant and intelligent, and he wrote it by horse. His talent has been recognized by everyone, and he has also been given the opportunity to make up for his achievements.
If a person wants to behead and show his appearance, he not only needs to work hard and make achievements, but also needs the right opportunities.
There is a saying that goes: "A person without a platform is nothing." ”
We can't take the platform as a skill, but we can use the platform to make ourselves go further and get more paid. Blindly clearing the heights and setting new standards is not a powerful one, but a missed opportunity again and again.
Any city has different characteristics, as long as you grasp it accurately, you can develop together with the city. For example, in a city with developed industry, you set up a factory, and the advantages are more obvious in terms of technology, manpower, and cooperation between factories.
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Conclusion.
In the "Art of War of Sun Tzu", it is said: "Therefore, those who are good at fighting, seek the situation, do not blame others, so they can choose people and use the momentum." ”
Life is like chess, you want to win, not only to be a good "marshal", but also to line up troops, use good soldiers, horses, elephants, etc., all the chess pieces have played the greatest role, you are the real winner.
On the other hand, when you use others, you also have to accept "being used by others." Let your own advantages and the advantages of others be combined, and you will form a situation of strong and strong cooperation.
During the Western Jin Dynasty, there was an official Le Ling who wanted to resign and return to his hometown for the elderly, although he could speak the Tao, but his writing level was average, so he invited the poet Pan Yue to write the song on his behalf, and from then on he rose step by step.
Posterity praised them: "If Le Ling did not use Pan Yue's article, Pan Yue did not use Le Ling's intentions, he would not have such a literary style." ”
When people reach middle age, if they want to take advantage of the situation, they must learn to be generous. If you help others, and others help you, life will be much easier.
No matter how difficult it is, don't complain, dedicate love, love all over the world.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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