"You are more ruthless than Tan Zhu, Tan Zhu accepted the money and admitted that he was his girlfriend, you have to shirk it cleanly" A comment pushed Xu Zijun to the hot search.
In fact, things were done quite properly, and Gao Yalin also privately comforted Wei Jia and said: Beijing and Shenzhen hukou are at the mercy of their children's mothers. The ending is happy, and this is the end of the matter.
On May 10, a small essay by Xu Zijun fried this rotten melon again.
However, everyone did not resonate with women about her, the "victim", but complained, and even talked about her family conditions and career development.
Isn't it worthy of sympathy to be a woman who was "deceived" by her predecessors?
Could it be that netizens are not hateful when they exploded Xu Zijun on the Internet?
Could it be that Gao Yalin treats the two heroines of the matter differently?
Judging from the Gao Yalin landslide incident, it was found that the entertainment industry was really "hungry", and Xu Zijun, a woman, was really not simple......
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The fact that I received money does not mean that there is an improper relationship between them
Xu Zijun's small essay was translated, and the main idea was: Gao Yalin, you are an old-timer with both virtue and art, in order to get rid of the identity of a scumbag, you actually use foul language and scold people, which makes me very sad and innocent.
Another controversial contradiction is that I was born in a happy home, I didn't experience the sinister nature of society, and when I was isolated, I was recommended by my teacher and helped by Gao Yalin.
During this period, he also accepted his transfers and enjoyed the resources he brought. But it doesn't mean that I accepted his feelings, and it doesn't mean that there was any improper relationship with him.
In response to Gao Yalin's insults to himself on the Internet, Xu Zijun originally didn't want to respond to the matter.
However, because of his remarks, netizens evolved into the "XING transaction accusation" spread on the Internet, which has seriously affected her work development and adversely affected her career and image, so she had no choice but to respond to the matter.
In the face of her "heart-splitting" words, the vast majority of netizens did not buy it, but asked: "There are still such living bodhisattvas in the entertainment industry, since they don't agree to communicate, they can give you a steady stream of large transfers." ”
Some netizens took a deep look at the transfer time, and they were very scared: how could they all transfer money after dinner, and some were actually at 2 o'clock in the morning, is this a bit too coincidental.
In short, there are a lot of negative and mocking words. And judging from the current communication between the two, Xu Zijun seems to have an "unforgettable old love" for Gao Yalin, and the short video accounts of the two have been in a state of mutual closure, and the two have been in contact privately.
Of course, neither of the parties responded to the current controversy, and Xu Zijun's small essay was also "played off", not only did he not get Gao Yalin's apology, but his current career was even more hindered, which was simply worth the loss.
However, from Gao Yalin's remarks, as well as his emotional scandal, I can only sigh: It is worthy of being a person who has played Chang Yu, and it has ruined the lives of several girls who are entangled with you.
After carefully sorting out the ins and outs of the matter, it was found that except for Shi Wei, the three people who were riddled with scandals were not innocent, they were all villains in their relationship, sad and lamentable.
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I just slept a little, and I didn't go to my heart
In June 2023, Gao Yalin sighed at the movie launch conference of "Love That Never Disappeared": "Love is sharing, marriage is sharing". It is like shaping himself into a responsible and responsible man.
On May 8, 2024, Wei Jia posted an article that overturned Gao Yalin's "charitable" side.
Previously, in 2008, Gao Yalin married Shi Wei, who was 11 years younger than him, and the marriage between the two was not happy after marriage, and the marriage between the two lasted for a year, which ended in divorce.
After Gao Yalin divorced, like a bee, he soon began to pursue Wei Jia, who was 20 years younger than him. Faced with a mature and golden man, Wei Jia soon fell.
The two quickly fell in love and lived together, and at the beginning of the relationship, Wei Jia was also indulged in happy emotions, wanting to further develop his relationship with him and enter the palace of marriage.
But since Gao Yalin divorced, he was unwilling to enter the marriage hall, let alone have children, and the relationship between the two changed during this period.
Judging from Wei Jia's film directed by Gao Yalin, he is unwilling to give up this relationship, and the two are "willing" like this.
During this period, Wei Jia had already regarded himself as his wife in his heart, and was willing to be raised by Gao Yalin as a "caged bird" at home, in order to trap this man, she secretly resorted to means.
Gao held up his pregnant belly, hoping that Gao Yalin could look at the child's face and correct himself.
People who don't love you, how can they pay attention to the fetus in your womb, Wei Jia's "enthusiasm" is still disappointed after all.
During her pregnancy, Wei Jia was not only subjected to Gao Yalin's verbal "PUA", but also suffered a degree of domestic violence.
At the end of 2020, although the relationship between the two deteriorated sharply, Wei Jia insisted on giving birth to a child despite Gao Yalin's dislike for the fetus in his womb.
When the child was "happy" for 2 months, he found that he had an ambiguous relationship with Xu Zijun, during which he gave Xu Zijun many large transfers, as well as "high-consumption" bills for going out to eat, a total of 13w as much as she knew.
Later, judging from the dialogue between the two exposed by Wei Jia, Gao Yalin has always been in the "superiority" of the superior between the two. didn't pay much attention to Xu Zijun, but he just "slept for a while" and didn't pay attention at all.
uses the most ugly words to describe Xu Zijun, and the words all reveal that Xu Zijun is not comparable to her.
Wei Jia also saw Gao Yalin's true face, and did not listen to his rhetoric, and the two broke up in 2021.
And this farce is also because of the fame and fortune brought by Gao Yalin, Wei Jiaqile died down, but is Wei Jia's statement really just a household registration for the child, is it so simple?
Apparently not! Judging from the screenshots she posted of the conversation between the two, it is obvious that she has put herself in the "main palace" posture, and Gao Yalin's attitude towards Xu Zijun is just an "outer room", and the relationship between the two cannot be talked about on the table, and even released a private message chat record.
Of course, this made Xu Zijun unwilling and angry, the development of his career had no splash, and he was emotionally "coerced" and "slandered" by others.
At this time, there was no movement, and he confirmed his infamy as a "little three".
So a clueless little essay was born, but how can the attitude of "not having the right name, but being strong" be accepted by netizens, in fact, her "confusion" has long been traced, and a girl is really not as "high" as she said.
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The development of classmates is very different
Xu Zijun was born in 1998, he looks young and beautiful, and his facial features are in the "heart" of the majority of otaku.
However, she chose to mix in the complex entertainment industry after that, was admitted to Beiying, and became roommates and best friends with child star Guan Xiaotong.
But even though they are classmates, the results of that grade are worlds apart.
Guan Xiaotong seems to be a typical representative of God's appreciation of food, he is a well-known child star before graduating from school, "Wuji", "Strange Man Yizhimei", "Tangshan Earthquake", etc., any resource is enough for Xu Zijun to struggle for many years and it is difficult to touch, how can Xu Zijun not panic?
After graduation, Guan Xiaotong's life is even more "jealous", in addition to the high-profile show of love by the top Lu Han, he has made a beautiful comeback with film and television programs such as "Twenty Don't Confuse" and "Chinese Captain", how can this not make Xu Zijun envious?
If you say you don't want to be popular in the entertainment industry, it's a joke.
And to be able to get in touch with performances, how can there be no "foundation" at home, just to say that this kind of wealth is not qualified compared to the "daily income of 208w" in the circle.
At first, she was also a representative of "hard work", and in high school, she used her spare time to study modeling and acting, and it was not until she graduated that she had the first opportunity to be "electrocuted".
is different from Guan Xiaotong, who was born with a lot of attention, and after graduation, she can only play the "girl in the dormitory next door" without two lines in "Twenty Don't Confuse", and has since played the role of soy sauce in some dramas.
For the entertainment industry, women's youth is the least valuable, and it can be given the value of money by the superiors, as can be seen from events such as Li Moufeng, Huang Haibo, Wu Moufan, etc.
And it is the most precious, after all, love idol dramas dominated by young women, this type of drama is endless.
Only in the green years can we go further in the entertainment industry and have a longer flowering period.
Obviously, Xu Zijun began to be impatient, and in the face of Gao Yalin's "small profits", he was very useful, never carefully checked whether he was single, whether it was an emotional dependence, maybe he was just "intentional", and treated this emotion, from beginning to end, as she said, she never "took it seriously".
However, after coming into contact with the "old drama bone" Gao Yalin, her resources have indeed been greatly improved, and she can board the more topical "Start Broadcasting" with her predecessors! Sitcom" variety show.
In July 2021, Gao Yalin's career was in full swing, staying under the stage, judging the performance of newcomers like her, she could only put on a beautiful face and humbly accept the suggestions of "seniors" in the center of the stage.
can only say that the low-level actors are not so easy to be, if Gao Yalin's matter is not exposed, I'm afraid she won't be able to turn over the pot in the circle!
However, as the "big guy" in the circle, how did Gao Yalin step by step towards the identity of the superior? How did Xu Zijun, who is Bai Fumei, step by step on the road of being ridiculed?
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The "Gao Yalin" who gained fame and fortune
A family sitcom "Family with Children" made Gao Yalin the "perfect dad" in the hearts of countless people, and became popular all over the country with the role of "Xia Donghai".
However, he was not satisfied with his identity as an actor, and soon made him a successful producer with a "In the Name of the People", and then filming and directing made him a "capital".
In the face of Xu Zijun, he has a man's love for women, and a strong desire to conquer the "hard bones" of the superiors.
When she was in a predicament, Gao Yalin introduced by the teacher, like a bitter drought and a rain, appeared in Xu Zijun's life, helping her a lot, how could she not be moved?
A meal of 4279 made Xu Zijun, who is in the entertainment industry, think that this is a manifestation of "love". And the transfer behind is a sugar-coated cannonball, so how can Xu Zijun, who has always been frustrated in development, not be moved.
This is also what netizens said: I can understand what she said about accepting Gao Yalin's help and resources, but it doesn't mean that I can understand that she has received so much money.
But in the entertainment industry, even if it is 18 lines, it can't resonate with the hard income of ordinary people.
These money are even more of a drop in the bucket for Gao Yalin, who is accustomed to "money ability", that is, ten or eight yuan for the general public.
She certainly doesn't think there is anything wrong with the move of "collecting money", but thinks that she is happy to be favored by the "big guy".
This can also explain the strange point of netizens: they don't accept feelings, but they can accept money.
But suddenly one day a fan told you: The person who likes you is not a good person, not only married, but also has children, and his love for you is not "unique".
How can this not make her angry, for this love that has not yet "turned positive", it must be a precipice to stop the horse and stop the loss in time, so she decisively rejected Gao Yalin's overtures.
Obviously, she is not smart enough, and even ordinary people can know the simple truth of "eating people with short mouths and short hands".
She doesn't understand, she just knows that she will take it, and it is difficult to spit out this money! She can only endure everyone's complaints about her, and there is nothing she can do.
So there is a small composition that netizens complained about, "I have never seen myself pounding myself".
On May 11, 2024, Wei Jia posted again that he didn't want his child to have a household registration with Gao Yalin, and said that he didn't want to have anything to do with him, Gao Yalin was not so beautiful, and being with him was just three years of debt.
Netizens didn't seem to accept her remarks, and even thought that Wei Jia was hyping again, had a house, and was still occupying public resources.
It can only be said that in this bloody melon, everyone is not "innocent", Wei Jia has to give birth to a child when Gao Yalin does not want children, and knows that the other party does not love him, so he has to insist on giving birth to a child, so that there is now a "bad" situation.
Gao Yalin, as the protagonist of the incident, can't get out of his body, he plays with the feelings of several girls, but now he is 50 years old but restless, and he has lived up to the love of fans for many years.
Xu Zijun, who seems to be a person who is "outside the matter", is not so "innocent", short-sighted, and accepts the kindness of men plainly, so that she can't stay out of it, and now her career, which is not developing well, is even more pounced.
Why don't she learn it, Huang Bo, Zhang Songwen and others have worked hard to hone their acting skills, and when the time comes, they will use their own abilities to speak, why not let netizens maliciously speculate?
End:
People in the world often say: "I love to sit in a "high sedan chair" with soft legs, and often eat "small stove" with a short tongue. If a woman wants to be truly successful, she must first be in a high profile, not to be tempted by men's "petty profits", and not to lose herself in the mixed entertainment industry.
After all, in comparison, their current life is no matter how difficult it is, and it is also a standard of living that is difficult for the general public to "touch".
Xu Zijun still has the beauty that everyone envies, as long as she calms down, she can also have some achievements, after all, a good meal is not afraid of being late, and I hope that she will be able to recognize people clearly in the future and her vision can be enlarged.