Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan are both elementary school classmates and neighbors.
Green plum bamboo horse, love sinus first opened, Shi Yuan is a beautiful teenager that Gu Qingyu never forgot in his heart.
Shi Yuan liked to wear a white shirt and a pair of black-rimmed glasses at that time, clean and bright, Gu Qingyu's simple girlish mind, so he was pulled by Shi Yuan.
Shi Yuan has excellent grades, but he is not a nerd, he is good at English, he can also speak a little Russian and Japanese, play basketball very well, and talk about the piano; after all, he is a child from a large family, who looks temperamental, treats people and things, and is different, "Heart Residence" originally wrote:
"Like a bouquet of orchids in a weed. It seems a bit funny to describe a boy like this, but it means good. His parents are Zhiqing, in Xinjiang. He was raised by his grandmother. At the age of 12, he was taken to Xinjiang by his parents. ”
Before Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu separated, they had made a promise of youth, and Shi Yuan said that he would definitely return to Shanghai and come back to find Gu Qingyu; Gu Qingyu believed that it was true and waited for the return of his first love.
"Fake marriage" meets first love
The two were separated, that is, for more than twenty years, Shi Yuan had no news, and did not come to an appointment with Gu Qingyu; Gu Qingyu tried to find Shi Yuan's whereabouts, but there was a vast sea of people, and it was easy to find someone to talk about.
After Shi Yuan left, Gu Qingyu tried to associate with different men, but they all lacked the urge to talk about marriage; it seemed that breaking up would not make her feel particularly sad, because those men later, no one could take root in her heart like Shi Yuan.
Gu Qingyu was 36 years old and still single and unmarried, the old father worried about him, relatives at home talked about her, Gu Qingyu was somewhat confessed to his marriage.
Rather than talking about a love affair and being watched by the world's eyes on marriage and having children, Gu Qingyu is more keen to focus on her career; she is indeed very profitable and has achieved financial freedom early.
In order to buy a second house, Gu Qingyu had the idea of finding a Shanghai man to fake marriage, and the real estate agent provided one-stop service, not only recommended her a luxury community, but also arranged an "object" for her.
The "fake marriage" thing is somewhat on the table, both of them are for the sake of profit, the marriage is used as a tool, the woman in order to buy a house, the man in order to earn the "handling fee"; after the fact, one shot and two scattered, it is also considered to be their own joy.
Gu Qingyu was in a worried mood and saw the fake marriage object introduced to her by the intermediary, but she did not expect that the man was the source of her first love shi yuan that she had been looking for for more than twenty years. Going around and around, looking for and foraging, but it is reunited in this way, and the trickery of fate makes people sigh and make people wonder.
Gu Qingyu "Lost Love"
Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan both tried their best to restrain their emotions, and the once young girl became a bright and beautiful rich and beautiful woman, and the spirited teenager in the memory no longer had the radiance of the past.
In the original work of "Heart Residence", the intermediary could not speak, saying that Shi Yuan was doing a "skin and meat business", and the two girls at the next table cast strange eyes, and the book wrote:
"He just doesn't know, and his hand with the coffee is steady—if he puts himself in a position that can't be lowered, he has no fear." Anything goes. ”
Shi Yuan's decadence and frustration are visible to the naked eye, he urgently needs money, so he will make a living like fake marriage, for people like him, the meaning of marriage is only that one fee.
On the one hand, she was surprised that she had re-met Shi Yuan; on the other hand, Shi Yuan's changes also made her vaguely disappointed.
But Gu Qingyu does not mind Shi Yuan's poverty, she is not short of money, there is a house and a car, the only thing missing is the love that can make her unforgettable, shi Yuan's appearance, it seems to fill the lack of her feelings for more than twenty years at once.
Gu Qingyu secretly went to see the place where he lived, which was the sores behind the prosperity of the city, dirty and messy, and a vulgar woman like Lily, who let Shi Yuan buy underwear for her when she went abroad.
Gu Qingyu is smart enough and shrewd, but in love alone, she is just an ordinary little woman, Shi Yuan makes her confused and restless; Gu Qingyu does not care about the gap between her and Shi Yuan, and her heart wants to turn a fake marriage into a real marriage.
In the original work of "Heart Residence", Gu Qingyu confessed to Shi Yuan affectionately:
"You don't know how happy I am to see you again. Whether you are the source of my impression or not, no matter how surprised, surprised, or even disappointed I am. To be able to meet you, I now have only one mood left, that is, joy. Overjoyed. I even wish there was no end to the road and you could stay in the car and be with me all the time. ”
Compared with Gu Qingyu, Shi Yuan was much calmer, he signed a prenuptial agreement with Gu Qingyu in a disciplined manner; as soon as the contract expired, Shi Yuan decisively proposed a divorce, and he and Gu Qingyu missed it after all.
Shi Yuan's "Hidden Pain"
Shi Yuan did not have feelings for Gu Qingyu, Gu Qingyu was also his first love, and after reading the original work of "Heart Residence", he knew why Shi Yuan resolutely wanted to divorce Gu Qingyu.
After the death of Shi Yuan's grandmother, the Shi family gradually declined, and the once large families became estranged and their feelings were weak; Shi Yuan wanted to return to Shanghai, but there was no one to connect with him.
Shi Yuan can only rely on the college entrance examination to change his fate, but unfortunately, he was almost a few points not admitted to Fudan, the college entrance examination volunteer to fill in the mistake, a stroke to the end, can only read an ordinary specialty.
Shi Yuan went to a tourism school, after graduation, the job search was not smooth, as an ordinary tour guide, he did not like to run and wander like that, but in order to survive, Shi Yuan could only seek perfection.
The mother is sick, the savings are trapped in the stock market, the gap between reality and ideals, like a basin of cold water, poured shi yuan by surprise; the once high and proud teenager has become a middle-aged man who is crawling at the bottom, in order to earn money, self-esteem can also be stepped on under the feet.
Shi Yuan did not have the confidence and face to go to Gu Qingyu's old covenant, instead of letting her see her own sloppy appearance, it was better to leave the beauty of youth in each other's memories.
Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, after more than twenty years of polishing, have long been mismatched with each other; Gu Qingyu is in the limelight, and Shi Yuan is still struggling to make ends meet in the cracks, such a gap is enough to destroy a sincere love.
Shi Yuan also tried to renew the frontier with Gu Qingyu, before the two received the marriage license, Shi Yuan deliberately took Gu Qingyu to his home, and the original work of "Heart Residence" wrote:
She understood what he meant. Spread it all out earlier and let her decide. It was fair to her, and he was also calm. Many of life's problems are illusory. Love is illusory, marriage is real.
Although it is too early to talk about marriage at present, as a man, this layer of meaning is indispensable. The woman should not be left passive. The more disadvantaged the situation, the sooner it is necessary to say it.
The right to information is the foundation. How much he earns each month, where he lives, how his parents are. These are hard metrics. Temperament and personality, but the latter thing. ”
Shi Yuan was more realistic than Gu Qingyu.
Lily's "Choice"
Gu Qingyu naively thought that the marriage thing, the two have the emotional basis of first love is enough, once the two had a tacit understanding together, as soon as she went to the alley, he knew that she wanted to eat oil mound; she did the wrong question, he patiently gave her an answer.
In fact, these are far from enough to support a happy marriage.
Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu were not people of the same world for a long time, and the two were doomed to become evenly matched partners. The two women around Shi Yuan, who married Gu Qingyu, were his Gao Pan, and when he married LiLy, lily was married.
In the original work of "Heart Residence", it is mentioned that lily lives not far from Shi Yuan's home, she is a foreigner, selling aquatic products in the vegetable market, and the person is not ugly, but the "city squire" on her body is like a fishy smell, which cannot be covered up.
Friends around often joke about Lily and Shi Yuan, the relationship between the two is ambiguous, Lily can let go, do not mind people saying her meat.
Gu Qingyu did not look up to a woman like Li li and felt that she was a vulgar fan and the grade was too low; Li Li found Gu Qingyu and showed off with Gu Qingyu, saying that she was pregnant with Shi Yuan's flesh and bones.
Lily said that she loved Shi Yuan very much, but outside the words, she did not want Gu Qingyu to give Shi Yuan to her, but wanted the household registration and money, Gu Qingyu was very disgusted, and the original book of "Heart Residence" wrote:
At that moment, she suddenly developed a little resentment towards Shi Yuan. It was he who put her in such an awkward position. Let her be inexplicably aggressive in front of this cheesy woman with a fishy smell. Those scenes that are usually disdainful to the extreme, two women fighting for a man, the original fight for the little three, fighting for the wind and eating chicken and dog fragments, fell on their heads at the moment. The opponent is still that kind of woman. ”
In order to humiliate Lily, Gu Qingyu introduced her to a widower who was a security guard, more than fifty years old, childless and childless, with two suites in Shanghai, squinting eyes, and a big tongue when talking.
Unexpectedly, Lily actually agreed, she was pregnant with Shi Yuan's child and married this old man, Gu Qingyu inadvertently contributed to a happy event, Gu Qingyu said:
"The same as being a woman, in fact, I am more than them nesting." Their thinking is much fresher. ”
Lily did not die Shi Yuan, because Shi Yuan's conditions were not good enough, and could not give her love, Lily soberly withdrew and left, no longer continue to spend time with Shi Yuan.
Lily tried Shi Yuan, and she planned to ask him for money for miscarriage, as well as mental damage fees, as written in the original book of "Heart Residence":
"Not necessarily, a hundred thousand is enough." It's not really a question of money. After all these years of ambiguity with him, they all follow him and cling to him, men and women are not equal, love and non-love fall second, the key is to hold back. ”
If there is no reunion with Gu Qingyu, Shi Yuan's family hopes that he can marry Lily, and his parents can't look up to Lily, but the actual conditions are there, Shi Yuan has already run four, and he is always going to get married and have children.
Lily loves Shi Yuan, far more than Shi Yuan Ai Li li, Shi Yuan to her, is just a pastime when lonely, LiLy is pregnant before marriage, to Shi Yuan said that she was pregnant, Shi Yuan was afraid there.
Shi Yuan's reaction, in fact, is the answer, Lily found himself under the steps, saying that he was joking, Shi Yuan suddenly felt relaxed, he did not think to be responsible for Lily.
Lily couldn't be cruel to Shi Yuan, and she let Shi Yuan go.
Shi Yuan and Lily "have sex" because he can only get lily kind of woman, he looks down on Lily, so he knows the taste of being despised in his feelings.
In front of Gu Qingyu, where Shi Yuan was, was it not Lily's position? Lily will give up Gao Pan Shiyuan, Shi Yuan will also give up Gao Pan Gu Qingyu, Lily is very right, the most important thing in the relationship is the equality of men and women.
Write at the end
There's a good saying:
"A man who grew up in a poor family at the bottom, no matter how much the world has experienced, the feeling of inferiority of the small family at the bottom of the foundation will gush out when he meets a woman who has grown up in a rich family." 」
Shi Yuan's family was once a big family, but since he was a teenager, he has lost his confidence, and the bottom life of more than twenty years has left him with only three points of "Tong Zi Gong"; in front of Gu Qingyu, who bought tens of millions of real estate, Shi Yuan was inferior to the bone.
The door is the best, and the way of life and lifestyle of the parents of the original family is the key to the long-term marriage. Love can be windy and snowy, marriage should weigh the pros and cons, some people say:
"On the one hand, the real door-to-door pair refers to the degree of wealth of the two people's families, whether the economic level of the two people is equal, on the other hand, it refers to the thinking mode of the two people, and the attitude of dealing with the world, and whether the understanding of the outlook on life, values, love, and world outlook is common."
The best couples did not meet each other at the best age, but two people experienced the baptism of wind and rain together, and since then they have become more heart-to-heart, loving and happy.
Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu separated for more than twenty years, experience is different, the situation is very different, relying on a paper contract alone, can not make the two people become a real couple, Shi Yuan and Gu Qingyu divorce, is inevitable.