There are some ridiculous things in the current marriage phenomenon. We all know that most marriages now do not pay attention to the door-to-door pair, but basically the conditions will not be too different. But sometimes there are indeed stories of Cinderella marrying into the rich, and the story of the earth boy marrying a rich family.
This is regarded by many people as a model of love, but in fact, many men who have married rich families will not willingly admit that they are inferior to their wives, and even feel that they are pregnant with talent, turn their heads to use marriage and wives as springboards, and do not feel guilty at all.
In fact, such a person is a good person, obviously he has no ability to rely on his wife, rely on his wife's mother's family, but he is not willing to admit it, he has to eat soft rice and hard food. But the rich family is not so foolish, and the daughter of the woman's family is not unable to marry.
Therefore, if such a man always holds the mentality that he is wronged, it will only be disgraceful, and he will never get the so-called "perfect ending" he wants, because after all, those rich families who choose such a husband will not be completely for love.
01. The in-laws are forcibly accommodated in the dowry room
When Liu Yaqi and Wang Zhi got married, they had three chapters of the law, because considering the conditions of Wang Zhi's family, So Liu Yaqi could not have a bride price, or they could accompany the wedding room and the wedding car, but Wang Zhi had to clear himself and could not take these as his own.
Secondly, Liu Yaqi will not live with her in-laws, so Wang Zhi should not find various reasons to talk about this matter, and Liu Yaqi and her parents will not agree.
The last point is that after marriage, Wang Zhi must take good care of Liu Yaqi, and Liu Yaqi gave birth to two children, one with Wang Zhi's surname and one with Liu Yaqi's surname.
These conditions are basically set by Liu Yaqi's parents, because their family conditions are much better than Wang Zhijia's after all, so they are afraid that Wang Zhi is trying to seize property after his daughter is an only child, so although they connived with their daughter to marry a phoenix man, they also left a back hand.
All the things that Liu Yaqi married were notarized and belonged to Liu Yaqi's premarital property, and after marriage, Liu Yaqi's parents would introduce Wang Zhi to work, which was also considered to be Wang Zhi's approval. Therefore, although Wang Zhi initially heard these conditions and felt that he was somewhat despised, he finally bent down for the sake of work and chose to agree.
This is also very normal, after all, Liu Yaqi's parents have been rooted in this city for many years, have their own connections and relationships, and for their daughters, they can make their son-in-law decent. But the important thing is that the son-in-law does not have the bad diseases of those phoenix men, and he does not know the blessing in the blessing.
Fortunately, at the beginning, Wang Zhi agreed, and also promised that he could represent their family, so Liu Yaqi and her parents all believed it, and all the promises they had promised were fulfilled.
However, after waiting for half a year after marriage, Wang Zhi established himself in his work and began to talk about taking over his parents and brother from time to time. Liu Yaqi naturally disagreed, and unceremoniously mentioned the original agreement.
Whenever this happened, Wang Zhi would get angry, but Liu Yaqi knew that there were some things that could not be compromised. But Liu Yaqi still underestimated Wang Zhi's "filial piety", and after rejecting Wang Zhi several times, Wang Zhi actually did not mention the slightest to himself, and directly took over all the remaining five members of the in-laws' family.
When Liu Yaqi went home to see this large number of people in her own family, the whole person was stunned, and the mother-in-law seemed to have some resentment towards Liu Yaqi, and when she saw Liu Yaqi return, yin and yang said strangely, "Oh, my eldest sister-in-law is back." ”
02. The in-laws who take it for granted
This directly made Liu Yaqi frown, and Liu Yaqi was spoiled by her parents for more than twenty years without temper, so she did not care at all about the look that Wang Zhi gave herself, nor did she care about the face of her in-laws, and threw down her bag and directly questioned.
What does this mean? Cut first and play later, think I won't drive people away, right? ”
After hearing this, the mother-in-law blackened her face, and despite Wang Zhi's obstruction, she directly scolded, "Is there such an unfilial daughter-in-law as you?" But just live in your house, and still disagree five times, what's wrong? Think we rural people can't get on the table? ”
Liu Yaqi did not pay attention to her, but stared at Wang Zhi wholeheartedly, wanting an explanation. When Wang Zhi saw the tense atmosphere now, he could only sigh and say to Liu Yaqi in a pleading tone.
"Liu Yaqi, my parents have not enjoyed happiness when they are old, so you should forgive me, okay?"
This listen is to use the so-called filial piety to pressure, but Liu Yaqi can not eat this set, the eyes directly skip the in-laws, looking at the little uncle's family that is still sitting on the sofa, and seeing the tea table where the little uncle's children are harmed, Liu Yaqi's tone is also more severe.
"Oh, your parents are older, what's wrong with your brother?" Are you going to come over and nibble on the old man, or are you nibbling on you? ”
Wang Zhi was choked up for a moment and could not speak, and the mother-in-law opened her mouth like a lit cannonball, "Of course my grandson lives with me, you don't know what to do, we can save a nanny money when we come, if you are so unreasonable, I will let you serve me." ”
Listening to this natural remark, Liu Yaqi was directly laughed at, and did not bother to talk to these confused people again, but directly told Wang Zhi, "Your parents can live here temporarily, but at most one or two months, and your brother's family can't live here, give you a week, let them go." ”
After saying that, Liu Yaqi turned her head and went out of the house, and returned to her mother's house, and in the face of Wang Zhi's prayers to herself on WeChat, Liu Yaqi sent the screenshot of the original three chapters of the law to Wang Zhi, and she was also vaguely disappointed in her heart, and decided that if Wang Zhi did not handle this matter well, then she would directly divorce herself.
03. Mother-in-law's slip of the tongue
Therefore, Liu Yaqi decided to leave enough time for Wang Zhi, and did not urge for a whole week, until the seven days of the agreed time arrived, Liu Yaqi directly returned home with a few friends.
Sure enough, Wang Zhi still disappointed Liu Yaqi, the little uncle's family not only did not leave, but also unceremoniously occupied the master bedroom, and Liu Yaqi returned to the room to take a look, obviously found that his things were used by the little uncle's daughter-in-law. And the little uncle didn't feel anything wrong at all, "Sister-in-law, we are all family, you won't mind, right?" ”
"I'm sorry, I will, since I let you go decently, and you won't, then don't blame me for blowing you out." Liu Yaqi said unceremoniously, and then she and her friends began to pack up the things of her in-laws.
At this time, the mother-in-law finally panicked, but still unceremoniously stopped while scolding Liu Yaqi, "Let's go, you pay for Wang Zhi and his brother to buy a suite, we not only obediently leave, but also thank you for Dade, otherwise even if you want to divorce, you will also divide our Wang Zhi two houses." ”
Hearing this, Liu Yaqi stopped her hand movements, but only to taunt her mother-in-law, "What you think is quite beautiful, but you are a bit uneducated, divorced, Wang Zhi can't get anything, and you have to know that this is all harmed by you." ”
The mother-in-law listened to the words and was directly annoyed and angry, and came up to beat Liu Yaqi, "I don't care what you have or no culture?" Divorce is not so easy, I tell you, if it were not for your five suites, how could my son marry you? ”
The mother-in-law said the truth by mistake for a while, and Wang Zhi did not stop it in time, and looked at Liu Yaqi with a panicked face. Liu Yaqi also completely understood that Wang Zhi was deliberately agreeing to his own request, and then wanted to morally kidnap.
Unfortunately, Wang Zhi underestimated their family, and it was to prevent this hand that they had the agreement of the three chapters of the previous covenant law.
Therefore, no matter how her mother-in-law howls and cries, Liu Yaqi still blasts her out, and Wang Zhi initially tried to fight for property, but asked a bunch of lawyers, and after finding that there was no hope, she only wanted to keep her job.
But people like them who are full of calculations will not let people fall in love, so in the end, the mother-in-law not only ruined her son's marriage, but also ruined her son's future.
In the past, marriages paid attention to the right door, so it was also considered to be the use of resources for each other, so that most people had no opinions or opinions. But once you encounter those marriages that are not right, there will always be people who feel that the family with poor conditions has a plan, including the family with good conditions, and will also have such a feeling.
The reason why people now have such worries is entirely because from ancient times to the present, there are some people who are corrupting the atmosphere, that is, what we often call gold worship women now, and many men who marry rich women. It is these people who enjoy the benefits of marriage and shamelessly want to maintain their own face, and as a result, they can only get nothing in the end.
Wang Zhi is an example, and there are many people who are very similar to Wang Zhi, in fact, it is not ridiculous to want to use marriage as a chip and springboard, but the point is that it cannot be completely insincere. After all, you end up with marriage, not the benefits of marriage. And if you always think about the second point, then in the end you can only end up with two personal wealth and nothing.