My cousin is still single Chinese New Year's Eve six years old. Guan Jian is a leisurely person who is not in a hurry to catch fire.
I really have to lament that the current social environment is much more tolerant than I was then, and when I was twenty-nine years old, I was said to be too old to find a "deserved" place.
I was thirty-two years old when I got married, and before I got married, I was asked by all kinds of people: "Why aren't you married yet?" We're all waiting to drink the wine. ”
"Seeing that everyone's children are grown up, you are not in a hurry!"
"This age is picky and eye-catching, and the good ones are gone"
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I went, and it made it impossible for a single dog to live!
When I joined the work, I was twenty-three years old, and before I arrived at the unit, I had a warm-hearted sister to introduce zhang Luo to the object, whether it was reliable or not, I first randomly clicked a bunch of Mandarin ducks. I can't say what it feels like. I don't know if the age of not looking for a partner affects the income of the group or affects the mood? We can't understand it, anyway, this has become the problem that others pay the most attention to and always want to help you solve.
Now it seems that you are forty years old and not married, there are not many people eight wives you, everyone wants to do all the serious things, who still has the energy to other people's leisure?
People's concept of marriage is also different from before. Many people pursue the quality of life, no longer take marriage as a necessity of life, even some parents also want to open a lot, frankly as long as the child is comfortable, no matter what kind of lifestyle you choose can be accepted.
Some people are single and not in a hurry because they believe in the creed of "rather lack than abuse", and I admire such people. Marriage is really not a problem that must be solved at a certain age. "Will be made up" harm others and harm themselves, people in this life are not more than a hundred years long, the unsatisfactory in this life can not be compensated for in the next life, if there is a fate that people do not appear, it is no harm to be alone.
Nowadays, people, especially young people, few people will plan when they will start a family and pass on their families, which is no longer the direction of children's efforts. They have a lot more casual and willful in life, and they think that living the present in their own way is the most responsible way to live.
Now there are more and more unhurried single dogs, they are mostly single by strength, excellent they do not want to at least now do not want to be bound by marriage, they are single and happy.
The increasing tolerance of society is the embodiment of progress, and a good environment allows people to be different and different. Single or married is a personal choice, as long as you are happy!