Marriage is a turning point in life, especially for women, it is not an exaggeration to say that it is a second reincarnation, so it is very important to marry the right person. Because once a woman chooses the wrong person, it will not only affect her own happiness, but also may affect the words and deeds of the next generation, and it is difficult for a discordant family to grow a mentally healthy child. And if you obviously have these characteristics in your life, then it is likely to be the wrong person.
He never pays attention to your business, the words he has said are always forgetful, and the sense of responsibility for many things is not counted, most likely, you are you, he is him, but when he needs your help, he is never polite, saying that he is assured that you will help yourself.
Look at you, your face is expressionless, the only laughter is to short videos or film and television dramas, and all the gentleness and patience are also present with outsiders, so that you can get away.
Everything on the line is always standing on the moral high ground, in front of the great right and wrong, he would rather believe that outsiders will not pay attention to your feelings and positions, under his interpretation often said "help not help relatives"
He is bored with whatever you say, and he is tired when you ask him to accompany you, and no matter who shouts, he is in place.
Lack of etiquette and respect for your family, indifference, your parents have nothing to do with him, and each other's parents are clearly distinguished.
At any time, anything, refuse to communicate, only need you to obey your own arrangements and commands, but any different advice is that you are stupid and stubborn, and do not listen to advice in everything.
Encountering any problem will only shirk responsibility, rather than choosing to change the status quo.
He is the master of the central air conditioning and chicken rib problem of outsiders, and the only thing in front of you is a negative energy explosive packet.
You are never inferior to others in his mouth, no matter how capable you are or how beautiful you are.
There is no long-term plan to eat, drink and have fun all day, even if you fight independently, he also said that you don't understand how to learn enough to be happy to toss and turn.
Marrying the wrong person is very scary, because of the marriage combination, the female role will have more costs and sacrifices, but a wrong person, most likely will ignore everything you pay and take it for granted. The reason why he is wrong is not the person himself, maybe he is also a filial son in front of his parents, a good brother in the circle of friends, but the only thing is that he doesn't care so much about you. Sometimes what makes women able to support the hard days is often the man's understanding, and empathy empathy, and marrying the wrong person, a warm word is a luxury, not to mention the gratitude to affirm your sacrifice.
Right or wrong is not simply a person's ability and quality, but the degree of love and your position in the other person's heart. Married life is contradictory and trivial, marrying the wrong person, all these problems will exacerbate their own pain of getting along.
It is very dangerous not to find out whether it is right or wrong to meet someone before entering a marriage, because you will unconsciously invest too many expectations and fantasies, and in the end you may suffer from misfortune and sadness.
Love and marriage are two different things, love is only appreciation and admiration, full of wind and snow, and marriage is a responsibility, sharing the trivialities of the day together. Don't try to exchange your thought sacrifices for more care and cherishing, because it is you who are ultimately touched and have nothing to do with others.
Xu Yan and her husband were originally naked married, she thought that her generosity and tolerance, did not want a bride price and did not do a luxury wedding can get more respect and kindness, but all this in the end in exchange for men's disregard and full of indifference, women's pay and sacrifice is should, but anyone who wants to buy something will be said to be a loser but days, men usually say "Oh, a little money let's take back to my parents to buy things is not good, you know to buy your own clothes, all married, wear to whom, it is really useless"
In the concept of men, it is not that you are good enough to live a life, do not have to pay anything, and will not choose to be with you. After the contradiction and dispute, the man's words "don't say that" "leave, anyway, I don't lose, there is no loss" makes the woman despair, but also realizes that a "poor" is not a financial problem, but a low level in the bones and the narrowness of thinking.