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The day before yesterday, I wrote an article about "giving the suitcase as a gift", the headline recommended 620,000, and was commented on by netizens at the same time, "in full swing", see these enthusiastic suggestions and opinions, I

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The day before yesterday, I wrote an article about "giving the suitcase as a gift", the headline recommended 620,000, and the "hot sky" commented by netizens at the same time, seeing these enthusiastic suggestions and views, I was deeply touched, so it is worth refining and sharing.

The content is probably: the first time to the woman's home, the boy will do credit card gift suitcase, as a New Year's gift to the woman, said worth 1,000 yuan, the woman's mother feels that the boy is unreliable, she and her daughter have been deceived, worried about their interactions.

In the comments section, eighty percent of the people were on the side of their mothers and felt that it was not worth associating with boys, for the following reasons:

(1) Boys are too stingy; (2) Boys are hypocritical; (3) They are not burdened and unreliable; (4) The pattern is too small; (5) People who make credit cards to spend are not worth associating with...

Seeing these kind suggestions of my friends, I was grateful and deeply worried that if Hye Hye (the girl) really wanted to marry a boy as a wife, what a miserable marriage it would be!

However, one of the things that reassured me was that I saw these few suggestions of reverse thinking: (1) free things are also things, and you can't judge the character of boys because of this; (2) in fact, boys are still very realistic, and under the inquiry of their mother, they said that they were sent by credit card; (3) using credit cards is a patent for young people, which can be rich...

What surprised me the most was the comment of the netizen Ren Ai Lamb @ Ren Ai Xiao Lamb i7, she said that she read countless people as a matchmaker, and felt that the boy had a gratifying shining point - wisdom.

In line with the responsibility for the girl, these two days, I want the girl's mother to carefully understand the specific situation of the suitcase, and Hui Hui, who has gone to work in the field, sent the ins and outs to the girl's mother on WeChat:

1, the credit card is the boy in the bank to do sales students to sell said to help complete the task to do, his classmates completed the task, they sent a suitcase, just the girl needs, by the way to bring.

2. The credit card has only spent 1 yuan and has been cancelled.

3, said that the box 1000 yuan, is the girl herself in order to make the mother happy to say, the boy knows that it is sent, how can it say 1000 yuan?

After reading the information, the girl's mother was relieved, hehe smiled and said: It is also my blind worry, she has been so independent and capable since she was a child, and I believe that there should be no ambiguity in marriage matters.

The girl's mother's relief made me feel at ease.

From this, I lamented that many things on the surface, such as sending a free travel box to make a New Year's gift for a girlfriend, feel that such a boy can not be associated, it is wise to stay away, but when we peel back the cocoon, go deep into the inside of the matter, understand the causes and consequences, it is another kind of truth. #Emotion# #生活日记 #

The day before yesterday, I wrote an article about "giving the suitcase as a gift", the headline recommended 620,000, and was commented on by netizens at the same time, "in full swing", see these enthusiastic suggestions and opinions, I

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