3 days before the marriage, the groom found that the bride was not only married, but also an 8-year-old daughter, he angrily proposed to dissolve the marriage contract, but the woman's parents said: Not to marry can be, pay me 500,000!

3 days before the marriage, the groom found that the bride was not only married, but also an 8-year-old daughter, he angrily proposed to dissolve the marriage contract, but the woman's parents said: Not to marry can be, pay me 500,000!

Xiaohui and Chen Jun met through the Internet, Xiaohui is 30 years old, is a teacher, Chen Jun is 27 years old, is an ordinary office worker, although the woman is large, but Chen Jun feels that Xiaohui is considerate and considerate, more friendly than his former daughter, the two quickly came together.

Xiao Jun's family lives in the suburbs, the house is not big, so he has been living in the company dormitory, after the two fell in love, Xiao Hui also followed her boyfriend into the dormitory, but Xiao Hui's parents did not want their daughter to suffer, and offered to let the two move home, Chen Jun although he was not very happy, but still agreed.

Half a year ago, the two moved into Xiao Hui's house, the next day, Xiao Hui told Chen Jun in a broken way, saying that he had actually been married before, hoping that he would not mind, Chen Jun felt very shocked, he did not expect his girlfriend to lie to himself, although he was injured, he still forced himself to accept Xiao Hui.

The days passed day by day, two months ago, Xiaohui's parents urged the two to get married, Chen Jun wanted to get married later, the reason was that he didn't have money to buy a house and a car, his parents couldn't help, but Xiaohui's mother took the initiative to say that she was willing to pay for the small two to buy a house and a car, Chen Jun was naturally grateful to Dade, and felt that he was so lucky to meet such a good family.

The two began to prepare for the wedding, taking wedding photos, preparing for the wedding banquet, buying a house and a car, and spending 1 million yuan before and after. 3 days before the wedding, Chen Jun sorted out the wedding photos on Xiao hui's computer, accidentally saw a photo of his girlfriend and ex-husband, there was a little girl sitting between the two, the girl and the ex-husband almost looked exactly the same, and this girl Chen Jun is not a stranger, that is, Lily, who has been living in Xiao Hui's home and calling Xiao Hui a little aunt.

According to Xiaohui, Lily was the daughter of her own sister, who died in childbirth, and Lily followed her grandparents since she was a child. Chen Jun knew lily's origins at that time and was very sympathetic to her, but also admired Xiaohui's family, but did not expect that all this was a woven lie, Xiaohui not only divorced, but also an 8-year-old daughter, Chen Jun could not accept it for a while, he chose to leave silently, no longer in contact with Xiaohui's family.

Afterwards, although Xiaohui repeatedly apologized to Chen Jun, he was indifferent and resolutely wanted to repent, Xiaohui's mother ran to Chen Jun's house to apologize, Chen Jun's mother scolded her as a liar, the two old people quarreled, and finally Xiaohui's mother said: To repent of marriage, your family has to pay me 500,000, in order to let them get married, our family spent 1 million, one person bears half.

The two sides quarreled, and finally came to the emotional program for help, and under the patient guidance of the mediator, Xiaohui said the reason why she lied.

It turned out that Xiaohui had two marriages, the first time was when the man concealed his medical history, suddenly spat white foam on the day of the wedding banquet, fell to the ground, the wedding was canceled, the second time was because her ex-husband cheated, and the daughter was sentenced to her ex-husband after the divorce. Half a year ago, the ex-husband's family decided to emigrate to go abroad, Xiaohui was afraid that she would not see her daughter in the future, so she took her daughter to live for half a year, and in a few months her daughter would have to go abroad.

In the previous few relationships, as long as Xiaohui confessed her past, the other party would choose to break up, because they thought that Xiaohui's experience was too complicated, even a little unlucky, Xiaohui felt that her daughter was going to go abroad anyway, as long as she hid the past for a while, her boyfriend would not know in the future.

At the scene, Xiaohui choked up several times, and experiencing two failed marriages was not what she wanted, but because of these two marriages, it made her emotional road very bumpy.

Chen Jun also said his true thoughts in his heart, in fact, he did not mind Xiaohui's past, he did not mind Xiaohui's family joining forces to deceive himself.

In addition, Chen Jun has been unhappy living in the woman's home. Whether it is usual or weekend, Chen Jun is required to get up early to buy breakfast, Xiaohui works overtime and goes home late, everyone will wait for her to eat together, Chen Jun comes home late but eats leftovers, and once, Chen Jun invited friends to come to the house to party, just because he forgot to lift the toilet lid when going to the toilet, Xiaohui's mother accused Chen Jun in front of everyone.

All of this makes Chen Jun feel that he is not respected, he is unwilling to continue, at the end of the program, the two sides still did not talk, the two broke up on this, the cost compensation issue, under the mediation of the program group, the woman is no longer pursued.

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The relationship between Chen Jun and Xiaohui's family broke down not just because of deception, Xiaohui's parents' disrespect for Chen Jun in their daily relationship is fundamental, but everything has two sides, Chen Jun is dissatisfied with this mode of getting along can be said, but he has never expressed his unhappiness.

The reason why Xiaohui conceals her marriage history is because she loves Chen Jun too much and is too afraid of losing, but in any case, in a relationship, we can't use a false relationship to get along, if just because they are married and have children, the other party is not willing to accept you, then he definitely does not really love you.

In real life, many second-married women and single mothers will face such a problem when choosing a mate, should they tell each other about their past? Many people will choose to hide the past, thus losing their true self, but if they cannot fall in love and marry with a true self, such feelings will end up being just a colorful red bubble, which will burst when touched.

Finally, I would like to say to Xiaohui, no matter what your emotional path will be in the future, you must bravely face your past, whether you have been divorced or not, please believe that you will find the person who really loves you.

Do you think it will be difficult for a second-married woman to find a partner?