Recently, a sister in Huaibei, Anhui Province, with a 10,000 yuan gift to prepare to attend her brother's wedding, just arrived at the door but was stopped by her mother and gave her 100 yuan, let her go out to play and wait for her brother to finish the church and then come back. Why can't my sister attend my brother's wedding?
It turned out that the woman was 27 years old and unmarried, according to local customs, the younger brother married before the sister, the sister could not see the younger brother to visit the church otherwise it was unlucky, so the mother could only stop the daughter to give money to let her go out and play for a while and then come back.
The woman was hanging out, and her heart was really wronged, because she was not yet married, she could not attend her brother's wedding. Although she had no choice but to abide by the customs, after returning from a stroll, she wandered outside the door for a while and saw that there were people who had finished eating the wedding feast leaving before reassuring to enter. After going in, I casually found a table of dishes and left more simple to eat.
Seeing this matter, some netizens commented that this is a bad custom, a typical preference for sons over daughters, and said that most of the pensions in the future are still dependent on daughters.
There are also netizens who are distressed for their sisters with gift money, they are not yet married, and they do not need to follow the gift at all.
In my opinion, every place has its own customs and taboos for marriage, some of which are indeed unreasonable and unsuitable, but the older generation has their own stubborn inheritance and belief in their hearts, and perhaps we young people should also give more tolerance and respect. Moreover, marriage is a great joy, and it should be happy and harmonious.
What are the customs for everyone to get married locally?
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