A person's life has decades, and it is not long to say that it is long, but it is a stroke of a finger; it is not short to say that it is short, and there can be some time to do many things.
Each of us hopes that our life can be perfect, and it is better not to have regrets. But in fact, most people will leave regrets, which is difficult to avoid.
There are many regrets in life, such as what you want but can't see, what you think but don't see, what you learn but useless, and so on. But the most regrettable thing in life is these few things!
One: I didn't fall in love when I was a student
The most profound period in a person's memory is probably his student days. It was a beautiful time full of youth and blood, passion and sweat.
As students, we have a naivety and enthusiasm that we have never had in our lives, and we can desperately chase dreams that are unlikely to be realized despite the pressure of reality.
The student days are really beautiful and nostalgic! In this period, the most exciting thing is to talk about a pure and flawless, vigorous, and uninterrupted love affair.
Although before college, neither the school nor the parents allowed students to fall in love. But under such a ban, there are also many people who are still in love. Others will not despise them, only full of envy.
Before college, in order to study, you can not fall in love. But in college, be sure to have a good relationship. This will have great significance for your whole life.
A university that hasn't talked about a vigorous love affair is an incomplete university. One of the biggest regrets in life is probably that I didn't fall in love in college!
Two: The son wants to be raised but does not wait
In the "Confucius Family Sayings, Volume II, Zhi Si VIII", it is written: "The tree wants to be quiet and the wind is not stopping, and the son wants to raise and not to be close." ”
Yes, one of the biggest regrets in life is that when you have the ability to support your relatives, your relatives have left you.
When we were young, our parents, grandparents, and other relatives worked hard to raise us. Although they have not read any books and have little culture, they have given us their best.
We study well, hoping that when we have the ability in the future, we can repay the relatives who once loved us.
But when we grow up, we find that there is a lot of work that haunts us, leaving us with little time to spend with our loved ones.
Unconsciously, my job is getting smoother, my position is getting higher and higher, and my salary is getting more and more. At the same time, his relatives are getting older.
When we have time to spend time with our loved ones, it is often the time when the relatives are seriously ill, lying in a hospital bed, and soon after they die.
Therefore, please spend more time with your loved ones while they are still alive, and some things can no longer be done without doing them now. No matter how busy you are at work, you should always go home to see, and don't wait until your loved ones are seriously ill and lying on a hospital bed before you think of repaying the favor!
Three: I haven't really lived
There is a saying in the movie "Tears of the Fallen City": "Don't be afraid that your life is coming to an end, what you should be afraid of is that it never began." ”
Although some people live a long life, their lives are muddy and there is no pursuit. Although some people's lives are short, they bloom the most dazzling brilliance of human nature.
As Mr. Lu Xun said: "Some people are alive, but they are already dead; some people are dead, but he is still alive." ”
Human life is not about its length, but about whether it has meaning, but whether it has really lived. Living a hundred years old will die, living ten thousand years is also a death, all the same. Only a meaningful life can be regarded as a real life.
In Einstein's Cosmology, it is written: "What is the meaning of human life, and what is the meaning of the life of all organisms, to solve this problem fundamentally means a belief." You have to ask what is the point of dwelling on this, and my answer is that a person who does not know how to respect his own life and other lives is a tragedy and does not deserve life. ”
Only the life of a person who has faith is meaningful, and only with faith can he truly live. Faith does not only represent religion. In fact, everyone's ideal is also a belief.
As long as a person can work hard for his ideals, his life is meaningful, he is truly alive. Even if it is ordinary, it will never be mediocre!
Emotional Message:
There are many regrets in life, and almost no one can avoid them. But although there are regrets, we still hope that we can do something so that we can have fewer regrets.
Life is long and short. It's up to you to decide how to take this path. But I hope you can work a little harder, so that you can save yourself some regrets!
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