In 2015, my uncle married his daughter-in-law, people asked for 450,000 dowry, my uncle did not have enough dowry money, relatives and neighbors borrowed money everywhere, I lent him the only 50,000 yuan, but 6 years passed

In 2015, my uncle married his daughter-in-law, people wanted 450,000 dowry, my uncle did not have enough dowry money, relatives and neighbors borrowed money everywhere, I lent him the only 50,000 yuan, but 6 years passed, until my father was sick and urgently used the money, my uncle and aunt reluctantly returned the money to me, for this reason, in order to express apologies, this year's New Year, I also specially bought a gift of 300 yuan to see my uncle and aunt.

My younger brother, more than 100 blind dates, did not have a picture, it is difficult to have a picture, my uncle, aunt, brother three people said in unison: "Must take it, no matter how much money to pay." ”

When the woman's family offered a dowry of 450,000 yuan, my uncle and aunt were dumbfounded. What golden girl can be worth 450,000 dowry? We have never had such a high bride price in our ten miles and eight townships. Uncle and aunt looked back, under the mat on the bed, the 120,000 yuan wrapped in several layers of cloth.

Uncle and aunt in the past few years in the field to work, save food and thrift, save food and clothing, in recent years, saved 120,000 yuan. Think about how in 2015, 120,000 yuan is enough to marry a daughter-in-law, but as soon as people open their mouths, they offer a 450,000 dowry.

The glorious gift gap is 330,000, then there is a dowry seat, then there is no 50,000 yuan can be done? So the uncle and aunt fell into deep thinking, where did the 380,000 gap come from?

This marriage is definitely going to be married, and if I don't marry again, my brother may become a naked man, and he may not be able to marry his daughter-in-law in his lifetime. The uncle and aunt shook their fists and kept pacing in the hall, like a strategist general, and like a warrior who was about to go out on the expedition, and this money must be borrowed.

So, the first thing that came to mind was my aunt, who had nothing to do in recent years, she raised cattle and farmed land, and there was no problem in saving thirty or twenty thousand yuan a year. In the past few years, there are also more than 100,000 yuan, and I also know that my aunt is a good person, always taking care of her mother's family.

One day, my uncle bought 6 gifts, according to our local customs, 6 gifts were sent together, which is a very solemn etiquette, a very face-giving, and lifting people.

My uncle rode a tricycle to my aunt's house, first used the family affection offensive, a handful of snot and a handful of tears said: "Sister, you help me, you are a nephew, he can't marry his daughter-in-law, we are going to break the queen." ”

My aunt looked at the posture of her mother's family, it is true that her nephew is not good at marrying a daughter-in-law, she does not look good, people honestly can't talk, there is no such shop in this village, so she lent my only 100,000 yuan to my uncle, and my uncle went back happily.

Then, using the same trick, let my aunt launch an offensive of his mother's family, but my aunt's family was more shrewd, and the people did not lend them a dime, and she did not make this trick well, mainly because her mother's family was afraid that my aunt's family would not be able to pay back the money.

At the same time, my uncle begged the people in our village who he thought could lend him money, and the second uncle lent him 50,000. Finally, borrow and borrow to repay the gap of 50,000 yuan.

At that time, I was still working in Zhengzhou, of course, usually, my uncle ignored me, unless there was something wrong. Just listen to the "jingle bell" phone rang, I saw that it was a call from my uncle, "Nothing to do is not to climb the Three Treasures Hall", my uncle called me there must be something wrong.

My uncle cleared his throat and said, "Your brother and daughter-in-law need a dowry of 450,000 yuan, plus other miscellaneous miscellaneous, about 520,000 shortfall is still 50,000, you will call me 50,000 yuan before noon tomorrow." "I was wide-eyed when I heard it, why do I want so many bride price?" Is the woman a celestial being?

My uncle said: "You still don't know your brother, honest and honest, not very good-looking, more than 100 blind dates, no girl liked him, it was hard to have a picture of him, good looking, hurry up, call me with money." ”

I said in my heart: "At that time, I bought a house in Zhengzhou, I didn't have any money in my hand, I opened my mouth and asked my uncle and aunt to borrow 20,000 yuan, people said in unison, said no, now you have something you ask me to borrow money, and I am so reasonable, why should I lend it to you." ”

But when I inquired later, several families in the village had lent him money, and as a close relative of his, if I did not lend him money, I would not be told by his wife.

So I lent him 50,000 yuan. But a few years have passed, my uncle and aunt have no intention of paying back, and my brother does not say a word.

Of course, I don't care about the money I owe to other people, I just let him pay me back.

When I had this meaning to say to my uncle, you know what my uncle said. He said: "Now your brother is opening a shop in a foreign country, the business has not yet developed, and he will pay back your money after he has developed." "But we all know that they have saved 200,000 yuan now, and this is what my sister-in-law said herself."

"If you don't pay back the money you owe to others, you keep the money in the bank for interest, and that's what their family does." My parents couldn't understand it either, but for the sake of face, my parents didn't say anything, just muttered to me privately.

No, until October 8, 2021, my father collapsed with cerebral hemorrhage, was hospitalized in the intensive care unit for 35 days, spent more than 10,000 yuan a day, and the family really had no money. My uncle saw that this was indeed the case in my family and returned my 50,000 yuan twice, the first time I called 20,000, and the second time I called 30,000.

Of course, this 50,000 yuan, 6 and a half years did not give me a dime of interest, but the principal has come, I am also very happy.

From 2015, when my brother-in-law got married, to 2021, 6 and a half years, my uncle and aunt did not worry about paying me back 50,000 yuan, when he asked him for money, he said, your brother needs money to open a shop, and there is no money at home, so it prevaricates me. But when my father was admitted to the intensive care unit, I did need money and he paid me back.

My father was admitted to the intensive care unit for 35 days, plus the cost of albumin, which cost me more than 300,000 yuan, at that time I was really short of money, fortunately, my uncle and aunt returned my money.

New Year's Day, I still bought a gift of 300 yuan to see my uncle and aunt, on the one hand, he is an elder, and it is not appropriate to look at the New Year, especially back to his hometown. On the other hand, I thanked him for giving me my 50,000 yuan principal and never borrowing much money again.