After the wife and husband quarreled, they gambled and returned to their mother's house. But the husband went to his father-in-law's house to invite his wife 8 times, and she did not come home. In the blink of an eye, more than three months later, my wife still refused to go home. This is young

After the wife and husband quarreled, they gambled and returned to their mother's house. But the husband went to his father-in-law's house to invite his wife 8 times, and she did not come home. In the blink of an eye, more than three months later, my wife still refused to go home. What the hell is going on between this young couple? Why is the wife reluctant to follow her husband home?

Husband Zhang Mou and wife Lingling were married for two years and had a daughter of more than one year old together. Zhang Mou is lazy and lazy, and has no formal work. Lingling works in the supermarket, and on weekdays, her mother-in-law helps with the children. The young couple lived with their in-laws, who also had a young son who was unmarried and worked in other places.

At about eight o'clock in the morning that day, LingLing repeatedly asked Zhang Mou, who was nestled in the bed, to get up. Zhang Mou could not withstand his wife's nagging and barely got up. However, Ling Ling still nagged: Your family is a strange thing...

Zhang Mou listened, and the qi did not come out of nowhere. He was not willing to show weakness, so he quarreled with Lingling.

In the end, Ling Ling gambled and ran back to her mother's house. Zhang Did not persuade her, and thought that she would take the initiative to go home after two days.

Yet day after day, three months passed. Ling Ling did not go home, and even stayed at her mother's house for the Spring Festival.

During this period, Zhang Mou panicked, and he repeatedly went to his father-in-law's house to beg his wife to come home. He personally went to the door of his father-in-law's house 8 times, but Lingling was unwilling to follow him home. Even once, he dragged the angry Lingling home, causing Lingling's cotton jacket to be torn.

At that time, after LingLing returned to her in-laws' house, her anger did not subside, and she was even more angry that her husband ripped off his coat. So she smashed the things in the house to vent her efforts, and after smashing the things, she ran back to her mother's house by herself.

As the saying goes, couples quarrel at the head of the bed, and at the end of the bed. But why did Ling Ling refuse to forgive her husband? What unforgivable mistake had her husband made?

But poor parents in the world! This can upset Zhang's parents, after all, the adopted child is one hundred years old and worried about ninety-nine. What parent in the world does not expect their children to live a happy life?

Mother Zhang was really afraid that her son's good family of three would be scattered. So she took the initiative to call her daughter-in-law, but her daughter-in-law did not have a good attitude towards her. In the end, out of desperation, she had to turn to the local TV program, hoping that the mediator would help her bring her daughter-in-law home.

The mediator quickly arrived at Zhang's house, and after she understood the general situation, she and Zhang's family drove to Lingling's mother's house.

When LingLing communicated face-to-face with her husband and mother-in-law. Between the husband and wife, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarreled again, and even alarmed the neighbors. Neighbors came to watch, but the mediator wasted all his strength to persuade the three of them.

Since ancient times, it has been difficult for Qing officials to judge family affairs, after all, it is reasonable to say that the public is justified, and the mother is reasonable! In fact, the family caused so many contradictions, all because of the trivial family trivia in the family.

Lingling's complaints: First, the husband is lazy and lazy, sleeps until he wakes up naturally every day, and does not help with the children. Second, she works in the supermarket, and her mother-in-law always knocks on the side to hint at her buyers' daily necessities. Third, her husband and mother-in-law always joined forces to bully her and did not treat her as a family. Fourth, the husband is grumpy, often throwing tantrums at himself, and even moving his hands.

But the mother-in-law complained about Lingling: First, the daughter-in-law has a bad attitude towards herself. Second, he helped to take his granddaughter, but he was thankless. Third, I usually do not let my daughter-in-law go out to buy daily necessities.

Zhang Mou defended himself: First, he did not eat well and be lazy, but he did not find a suitable job. Second, his wife always hated him and scolded him, even his family. Third, I have not beaten my wife with my own hands.

These are family chores, they are meant to be a family. Today, they are "dealing with the court" and counting each other's faults. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is originally a problem in the world, but the husband's attitude is the most important. There is a clear lack of communication and mutual respect between the mother-in-law and the mother-in-law.

In fact, people's hearts are all meat, if the family learns to empathize, learn to communicate, and learn to respect each other, it will not make the chicken dog restless. After all, home and everything is happy! Each of us is part of the family and must work hard for this family.

Later, under the bitter persuasion of the mediator, LingLing finally followed her husband and mother-in-law home, and finally everyone was happy.

The material comes from the program "Mediation of the People", a family needs everyone's hard work, rather than blaming each other. Husbands and wives should respect each other and support each other, and life will get better and better. And the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must also respect each other, after all, the mother-in-law is also a mother!

In fact, there are thousands of ways to make the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law harmonious relationship, which is a matter of easier said than done. For the man in the middle, it is necessary to continue to learn, to recognize the important factors in his own, for the mother-in-law contradiction must not stay out of the matter or help the more difficult to deal with.

A good family, first of all, husband and wife should be loving. Husband and wife respect and love each other, put each other first, harmony and warmth, not only let parents rest assured, but also set an example for children, this family is naturally warm and warm.