Taking his wife who was still confinement home for the New Year, he was forced to be helpless by his parents to cut off water and heating that night, and the two could only drive to the small hotel to move for a day. The man said: Never go home again.
Previously said: The fate of parents is the word of a concubine.
Only after this sequence can young people be truly accepted by their parents, and parents will feel that they have done things for their children and are worried, and children can be regarded as "filial piety".
It is ridiculous to say, why is it that only by listening to the words of parents and marrying the daughter-in-law they like is "filial piety"? I couldn't figure it out.
Although there is now freedom of love and marriage, many old people still feel that only those they approve of are daughters-in-law, and those they do not approve of cannot be married, otherwise they are not filial piety, I will drive you out of the house and do not recognize this son.
But the problem is, the daughter-in-law is married to the son, not the parents, if the parents can see it, the son can't see it, then although the marriage is blessed by the parents, can the son and the daughter-in-law survive?
On the other hand, if the parents don't look at it, the son looks at it, can this marriage that can't get the blessing of the parents be happy?
I think it should be!
There was a man in a certain place in Hubei who took his wife home to confinement during the Chinese New Year, but in the middle of the night on the first day of home, his parents drove them out of the house by cutting off the electricity and heating. Forced to do so, the man drove with his wife, who was confinement, to a nearby hostel for one night.
Many people are furious after watching this video, what is wrong with the son and daughter-in-law, who have been treated like this by their parents?
The man replied to the comment that he went out to work and fell in love with a divorced woman, who was 10 years older than his 31-year-old self, but when true love came, he would not say hello. Unfortunately, the parents are unwilling and the opposition is very strong.
Under the strong opposition of his parents, the man married his wife, but the parents also showed their attitude, and even if they were married, they did not agree!
Near the New Year, the wife also gave birth to a child for more than half a month, and she wanted to take advantage of the New Year to go home and have a good chat with her parents, and she couldn't always look like this, after all, it was a family.
After returning home, the parents originally refused to let the two enter the house, and the husband and wife forced themselves to live in the original house with their heads bowed. Parents can't push out directly to the two of them, but in the middle of the night, suddenly there is no electricity and no heating.
The son understands that his parents' approach is to force the two to leave.
For a confinement person, it is absolutely impossible to have no heating in the winter, after all, it is accustomed to heating. The man was really helpless, he could only tears in his eyes, pack up his things, take his wife and children, drive to the nearby hostel to move overnight, and after dawn, the man took his wife and children back to the place where he worked and lived.
Later, the wife comforted her husband and said: It's okay, as long as our family of three is together, nothing matters.
The man responded to his wife and said: I will never mention that again, and I will not go home.
In modern society, the concept of marriage and love is actually very open, which is based on respect for individual freedom, and there is rarely any big parent's practice. I really don't know why the elders of this family would do such a desperate thing.
Later, the man said: Because his parents love face, they feel that marrying a daughter-in-law who is 10 years older than himself or a divorced woman is too much of a loss of face.
Personally, I still understand male parents very well, although there is a saying that "female juniors hold gold bricks", but the eldest ten years old is really a bit much. According to the previous people, only people who have no ability, men who cannot marry their daughters-in-law, will marry divorced women, and will find women who are much older than themselves.
I think it is because of this reason, coupled with the excellent face of the parents, that the parents can not tolerate this "divorced daughter-in-law".
Although this combination, for young people, is not so frightening, but for the elderly with deep "old customs", can not accept, but also excusable, can only say to this man, take it slowly, after all, is their own biological parents, one day, they will understand that the real feelings, regardless of age.
In this way, it seems that trying to reconcile with your parents is not a short-term project, you must take it slowly, and the top priority at the moment is to treat your daughter-in-law well.
In fact, this woman who is 10 years older than him should also be under a lot of pressure to marry him. After all, the age limit has more concerns in the woman.
For example, is the other person just playing? If you say that the other party is too young, will it be too immature? For example, did he marry you for something else? For example, when he is more than forty and the woman is more than fifty, will men choose to leave because of this gap?
In fact, compared to men, women's concerns will be more and more realistic.
However, under this concern, the two still chose to combine and gave birth to a child, which is undoubtedly the best interpretation of the feelings between the two.
To tell the truth, whether the marriage is happy or not, although it also needs the housewife of the parents and the worldly view, but it is not very important, the most important thing is the attitude of the two people towards each other, the attitude of the two people to their own lives.
In the story, after the man's parents cut off the electricity and warming, the man did not choose to accommodate, but chose to take his wife directly away; after that, the wife comforted the man and said that it was okay;
After that, the man responded to his wife and would not say anything more about it.
This all shows that the two people are in each other's hearts, each other's position.
Their mutual understanding and consideration, their mutual understanding and support, is the most critical factor in their marital happiness.
I believe that their family of three must have a good future, and I believe that they can definitely live happily.
As for parents, I hope that after a few years, when they see the lives of their sons and daughters-in-law, they will also choose to bless this marriage. #情感点评论大赏 #
