My daughter's mother-in-law asked me, "Did you give all the demolition money of 1.75 million yuan to your son?" You lived in your daughter's house for 10 years, and you gave it all to your son? I got angry and said, "My house."

My daughter's mother-in-law asked me, "Did you give all the demolition money of 1.75 million yuan to your son?" You lived in your daughter's house for 10 years, and you gave it all to your son? I got angry and said, "My family's money, I want to give it to whomever I want." The daughter's mother-in-law said, "Then go back to your son's house!" ”

I am Lao Zhang, a native of Xi'an, Shaanxi Province, and I am 69 years old. I have a monthly pension of 5500, I have a son and a daughter, my mother is in Xi'an, one is in the southern suburbs, and one is in the northern suburbs.

The year I retired, my wife was gone. My son asked me to live with him, and he said, "You're not too old, it's not safe to live alone." We are not at ease. "At that time, I felt that my son was filial piety, so I happily agreed to it and moved in with my son. The second month after I moved in, my son said to me, "Dad, you have moved here now, and the house is useless, so why not buy it for me to do business!" ”

I thought to myself, sooner or later my house will be my son's, so I will let my son sell the house. My daughter was a little upset, and she said to me, "How can you sell the house, it's the house where you and your mother lived." "The daughter means that the house should be kept, and when she comes, she can miss her mother." Second, it is also a retreat for me.

I remember my daughter saying that my daughter-in-law was not easy to get along with, and I might not be able to get along with them.

I ignored my daughter's words, in my opinion, she just thought that I gave the house to my son, psychological imbalance, a bit of a provocative dissension.

What happened later, it was really unfortunate to be seriously said by my daughter.

Since my house was sold by my son, my daughter-in-law's attitude towards me has been different. I used to call me Dad, and before cooking, I asked what I liked to eat and what I wanted to eat. Later, I simply didn't ask, and when I saw it, I didn't ask a question.

Once, when I walked home, I took off my shoes and put on slippers to eat when my feet were hot, but she accused me of smelling on my feet on the spot, dropped the dishes and chopsticks, and didn't even eat.

Another time, it was a Saturday, it was almost 10 o'clock in the afternoon, and they hadn't gotten up yet. I made breakfast at 9 o'clock, got soy milk fritters, and I knocked on the door several times and they didn't get up. Later, I got angry and pushed the door in, and my daughter-in-law just got up.

She screamed and scolded me on the spot for being rude and uncultured.

You say, I can bear it when one of her juniors scolded me like that. Naturally, I quarreled on the spot. After that quarrel, my daughter-in-law asked me to move out, and my son meant the same thing. He said to me, "Dad, if you do this again, I'll have to get a divorce." ”

Heck, in the end I compromised.

You say that man spends his whole life for his children. Many people regard buying a house for their son and daughter-in-law as a lifelong task. So do I!

Don't say I'm stupid, aren't most of our old people thinking like this?

For the happiness of my son, I moved out with tears.

At that time, I was planning to rent a house myself and live in it first, and then think about it in the long run. When my daughter learned of my situation, she took her son-in-law over and took me back to her house.

On the way, my daughter complained to me for a while. She said, "You didn't listen to me at the beginning, but now you regret it, right?" "It's impossible to say you don't regret it. I also did not expect that I would end up in such a field.

The daughter said, "Dad, I'm not laughing at you, I just want you to know who is really good for you!" "Since that day, I have lived in my daughter's house for 10 years.

My daughter was very nice to me, and in her house, everything was done with me first. My son-in-law is also very enthusiastic about me, their family is my son-in-law cooking, every time before cooking, he asks me what I want to eat.

Occasionally I also say something about my opinion, and my son-in-law does it all.

At the end of the month I had just gone, I made the decision to give them 4,000 a month in living expenses. Of course, an old man of mine can't use so much, to put it bluntly, I just think my daughter and son-in-law are good and give them some subsidies.

In the past ten years, it can be said that it is the most comfortable and best day of my life, without the nagging of my wife, and I do not have to cook and do housework.

I even forgot I had a son.

Not afraid of everyone's jokes, since I live with my daughter, I see my son no more than 6 times a year.

The fact that my mother questioned me was true, and I did give all the demolition money to my son. It's not that I'm biased, I'm just following the conventional rules, and the family property is naturally for my son.

I have lived so long that I have never seen a son who gives the family property to his daughter. I don't feel like I'm doing anything wrong.

My mother came over and ruined the atmosphere of my dancing with Aunt Liu, and I was very angry, and I said, "Does my family's money have anything to do with you?" I want to give to whomever I want, you have a wide tube! ”

She said, "Then don't live in my son's house, go back to your son's house!" I told her, "This house is my daughter's decision, you count something." ”

But I didn't expect that when I came home, my daughter also blamed me for this matter, saying that I had disappointed her too much. The son-in-law said that it has been ten years and has not kept your heart warm.

What they meant was, let me go back to my son's house. What should I do now? Am I wrong?

@Star Stripe Emotion said: Hello friend, first of all, I think you should not give all the demolition money to your son. You know very well what kind of virtue your son is. Have you forgotten how you came out ten years ago? Ten years, as your son-in-law said, ten years have not kept your heart warm.

The biggest failure of being an elderly person is eccentricity, and it is impossible to treat children equally. The old man is unfortunate in his old age, and most of it is related to the fact that a bowl of water cannot be flattened. Uncle, you are such a cruel person, so many demolition funds you actually gave to your son. I think you should move out on your own, I don't understand why you are still living so righteously?

It is also common for parents to help their children, but you don't have to give all the benefits to your son, at least, you leave yourself a pension money and leave the house!

What you are doing now, the daughter family is definitely not comfortable. I suggest you, go find your son! If he didn't want to, he had to rent a house. You asked for it, and your daughter's family is right.