I am a 53-year-old rural old man, after the death of my wife, I went to chase the widow Zhang in the next village, and I was repeatedly refused. Yesterday, however, she came to visit, hugged me and said, "Brother, I've thought about it.

I am a 53-year-old rural old man, after the death of my wife, I went to chase the widow Zhang in the next village, and I was repeatedly refused. Yesterday, however, she came to visit, hugged me and said, "Brother, I think about it, I'll still build a partner with you to live a life"! I couldn't believe hearing her words, after all, I was self-aware, and I didn't deserve her!

I am 53 years old and my wife has been dead for 5 years, leaving me and a son in his early 20s. Fortunately, my son has grown up on his own, and I don't need to worry too much, so I will prepare some money for him and let him graduate from college smoothly.

As for my son's future wife and children, it is not within my ability, I do not have so much money, after all, my ability is limited, my son often says: "Dad, when I graduate you don't have to care, then I will find you a wife, you will be a companion to each other."

For my son's words, I dare not agree, after all, like my age, this condition, where is the second spring of life! As long as my son can have a successful career, I will be satisfied enough to earn money early to marry and have children.

In the third year of his wife's death, his son was 23 years old and successfully completed his undergraduate graduation. Half a year after graduation, my son returned, and his first words when he entered the door were: "Dad, I am going to introduce you to an object, do you remember Aunt Zhang from the next village"?

Hearing my son's words, I did think of the aunt Zhang in his mouth, she was a widow, probably 3 years younger than me, it is said that her husband died in a car accident for many years, she lived alone with a son, and I have not heard the news of her remarriage, after all, the next village is more than ten kilometers away from our house, and I have only heard about her.

Widow Zhang is still quite famous in several of our neighboring villages, she is beautiful, and she is also very cultured, she married us from other provinces, many people have pursued her, even to the door, have been rejected by her, do not know how she came to a woman over the years.

However, my son also told me that Zhang Widow's son was a junior high school + high school + college classmate with him, and their relationship was as close as brothers. They had also discussed it long ago, and when they graduated from college, they would match me and Widow Zhang.

I am very happy that my son has this intention, but I have self-knowledge, where do I deserve to be a closely perfect widow in other people.

But I didn't want to sweep away my son's excitement, so I promised him to try it. In the months that followed, while my son was reading at home and preparing for the exam, he took me to the widow's house.

Indeed, Widow Zhang was particularly charming, the most beautiful woman I had ever seen in my eyes, but after knowing my purpose, she was repeatedly swept out of the house by her. But she especially likes my son, after all, her son and my son have a very good relationship, and my son often goes to her house to play.

Widow Zhang said to me: "Brother, the children's nonsense I can not care, but you are all old, how do you still follow them to fool around, the children pay attention to the friendship between them, so want to match us, but the feeling of this thing, or depends on fate, if you come to my house to play, I welcome, but you come to chase me, I will be disgusted"...

Not only was I embarrassed to hear her words, but my son and her son were also a little embarrassed, after all, this was the ghost idea of both of them. However, I also liked her son, one is that he has a good relationship with my child, and the other is that he does not dislike me, and always calls me uncle affectionately.

In the next two years, I also gave up the idea of pursuing Zhang Widow, and being able to get to know her through my son was also a good choice, multiple friends and multiple roads.

Today, I am 53 years old, and Widow Zhang is also 50 years old. My son was also admitted to the county civil service, and I am very proud of this contentious son. Just listening to his son, Zhang Widow's son fell off the list, and he was only admitted to the township public institution establishment.

Yesterday, I was installing a TV at home, which my son had bought, and he was afraid that I would be bored at home alone. I heard a knock at the door, opened the door and looked up, but I saw widow Zhang, after seeing me, she trotted over, hugged me and said, "Brother, I think it's okay, or live with you, I think the two children have long been looking forward to this day."

I couldn't believe hearing her, after all, I didn't deserve her. But she then said: "In fact, I confess, my son is sick, his body is thin, I am afraid that one day he is too stressed to bear, and your son I also like it, and has always regarded him as his own child, so I want to use our happy event to give my son Chong Chong xi, after all, I can be with you is also the result they want to see."

After listening to her words, I instantly admired this great widow Zhang, who had worked for her son for half her life, and is still thinking about her son, and I just hugged her tightly.

After she went back, I immediately called my son to tell him about it, and my son was very happy when he heard it, and he wanted to come back to hold a wedding for us, and also took her son to check his body.

Will our combination be unreliable?

@Moving Emotions I would like to say:

The first thirty years look at the Father and respect the Son, and the last thirty years look at the Son and respect the Father. You can be with Widow Zhang, more than 90% of your son's credit, after all, your son is now a county civil servant, in the countryside can also be decent.

Widow Zhang is also right, your child is a best friend, but also the two people to match you, although her son is sick, but you and her are also her son's wish, the combination of the two of you, from a psychological point of view, can greatly reduce the pressure of the son, after all, the mother has to rely on, the son can also let go of a lot of attachment.

In the end, I can be sure that the two of you will definitely be reliable together. Even if you don't have real feelings for each other, as long as your two sons are there, you will be long-lasting, and maybe you will really spark love. #情感 #