Daughter new year back to her mother's home to buy gifts, go to the mother-in-law's house but did not buy, the father released a harsh word "do not buy do not enter the door", the father asked why not to buy for the mother-in-law, why only for the mother-in-law's family to buy, the daughter replied: Back to the mother's home who does not buy things? The mother-in-law's family does not lack anything and does not have to buy. "Your mother-in-law is also a mother!" What is the reason for not buying? ”
Is it easy for your mother-in-law to show you children all year round? You don't buy your mother-in-law, I'm afraid people will say I won't educate my children. If you don't buy it, don't come in! Hearing the father and daughter arguing, the mother quickly protected her daughter: the daughter was not easy to come back, don't quarrel. The daughter angrily pulled her husband back to her home.
I understand this matter, I also understand this father's approach, because I have real examples around me, my second sister just got married in the past few years, because her mother-in-law's mouth is broken, everywhere blind talk, the two often make troublesome, every time back to the mother's home, my second sister will continue to complain, my mother will teach her, let her go back to the mother-in-law's house to carry several kinds of milk or drinks, but also specially asked my sister to buy a suitable for the elderly to wear.
My mother said, no matter this milk powder, the drink your mother-in-law drinks or not, and it doesn't matter whether she wears this dress or not, if you don't buy it, it will seem that you don't understand things, you buy it, and when there is a contradiction in the future, you can take advantage of it, at least you have not treated your mother-in-law badly. Since then, every time my sister returns from her mother-in-law's house to her in-laws' house, she will buy some gifts for her mother-in-law, no matter how expensive or small, she will personally send them to her mother-in-law. Do you know? In the past two years, her mother-in-law has gone out and said good things about my sister. They also had a great time getting along.
I think that going back to the in-laws to buy gifts for the in-laws is not necessarily practical, but reasonable. It is a better capital to survive in the family later.
Whether it is the father in the video or my mother, they are all thinking about their daughters, you bought gifts, I believe that the vast majority of mothers-in-law will say, what to buy, net messy money. Say no, in fact, she is happy in her heart, you buy, she wants to pick out the reason, you don't buy, believe it or not, half of the mother-in-law will say bad things about you behind your back (you can refute me).
Mother-in-law can not become a mother no matter what, mother-in-law can selflessly dedicate everything to you, most mother-in-law can't, you are good to her, she may also be good to you, you are not good to her, she will try to be good to you for her son. But you are still inferior to her daughter-in-law, and if you want to have a position in this family, you have to be reasonable: you are very sensible. As the saying goes, there is reason to go all over the world, and it is difficult to walk without reason, unless it is messed up, do you agree?
