In the evening, because of my mother's arrival, my husband and I quarreled in the study, he said: "Your family is really a bully, last year's 2.47 million demolition money did not give us a penny." Your dad is sick

In the evening, because of my mother's arrival, my husband and I quarreled in the study, he said: "Your family is really a bully, last year's 2.47 million demolition money did not give us a penny." Your dad is sick and your mom comes and asks us for money? I said quietly, worried that my mother would hear. The husband deliberately amplified the voice and said, "What's wrong with hearing that?" Not so bullying. I married you, not your whole family. ”

My mother heard the words, pushed the door in, pointed at my husband and scolded: "How do you talk?" Believe it or not I asked my daughter to divorce you. ”

My husband looked at me and said, "What about your mother asking you to divorce me?" What do you say? ”

I glanced at my husband and said, "Divorce? Think beautiful, I will follow you for the rest of my life! My husband smiled, took my hand and said, "Go, go home." Mom pulled me aside and said, "Don't go!" ”

I looked at my mother and said calmly, "Mom, if I remember correctly, you and your father are not short of money, not to mention the 2.47 million yuan that demolished the old house last year." You already have savings, you have been hospitalized, and you have enough money for yourself. Why do we have to pay for it? "I am really aggrieved in my heart, our family is our two brothers and sisters. When I was a kid, we had a good relationship, I was two years older than my brother, and when I went to elementary school, we were in the same school. Every morning, we went to school hand in hand, and when we came back from school, I checked his homework and taught her to draw.

Later, as we got older, our relationship seemed to be less than it used to be, but it was okay. Until my brother got married, our relationship dropped a lot. It is said that some men have married their daughters-in-law and forgotten their mothers, but my brother has married his daughter-in-law and forgotten his sister. Just before I got married, I complained to my mother that my sister-in-law was too short. My brother didn't want to see me. Say it is a bad thing about his daughter-in-law in secret.

My mom did, too, and I talked to her privately, and she turned around and said to my brother, and I was really speechless. Sometimes contradictions are artificially created in this way.

Last year, after the demolition of the family's old house, my parents took 2.47 million yuan of demolition money, I originally thought I could get at least 1 million, but my parents did not even ask me, they gave all the money to my brother.

Afterwards, I went to ask my mother, how could she be so eccentric? My mother first said that my family's conditions were good, and then simply said: "The daughter who married out spilled water, you are married, and you still want to divide the family's property?" ”

I said, "Am I your child too?" Even if it is not a bowl of water, it always means it! "I'm not asking for money, I'm just trying to argue, what's wrong with my daughter?" Since graduating, I have asked myself whether I have done ten times better than my brother in filial piety to my parents. Why did they abandon me when it was good? In addition, my husband is very annoyed by this matter, he said that I have been so many years, I have not put the heart of my parents warm, no matter how the son treats them, people still feel that the son is good in their hearts.

Mom said, "Why don't you understand things?" How to marry out really becomes someone else's family, thinking about other people everywhere. ”

I didn't want a penny, but I was scolded by my mother, what didn't understand things, didn't obey, what outsiders got cheap. In short, there are a lot of reasons, and in the end, I am not filial piety. After that incident, my husband made an appointment with me for three chapters, and he said that he would not give any holiday fees in the future, and if he was sick and hospitalized, you should not care. Filial piety is okay, but filial piety is not.

My husband's words were tinged with resentment, but I knew that what he said was also reasonable. My parents' patriarchal mentality is indeed very serious, and I am also a little cold. A few years ago, my mother was sick and hospitalized for 60,000 yuan, when my brother and I were 30,000 each, and later reimbursed more than 40,000, and as a result, my father gave all the reimbursed money to my brother.

At that time, I was angry, but my mother said that the situation at my brother's family was not good, my sister-in-law did not go to work, and it was too much pressure for him to earn money and support the family alone.

My husband sneered at me at that time: "Your mother was sick once, your brother earned more than ten thousand, and only his daughter lost money." "He said that your mother is sick a few times, your brother doesn't have to go to work, and the little two can enjoy it at home."

I was still angry with my husband and I said how can you talk like that. My husband asked me, isn't it the truth? I didn't even think of a rebuttal.

Coupled with the demolition payment, not only my husband's heart was cold, but I also felt cold. So this time, I also agree with my husband that no matter who is sick, we don't care. I don't have any money, so why do you want us to take it?

My husband wanted to take me home, but my mother wouldn't let me go back, she said, "After so many years of white raising, how to elbow out!" If you had listened to me looking for a rich man, who still cares about the demolition money, you see that you are now cutting and searching, your parents are sick, tens of thousands of dollars can not be taken out, and you still worry about your mother's property, what does it look like? ”

I was almost angry and crying by the 'unreasonable' mother, and my husband said: "Let's go, don't waste time here, my son is at home alone, the time is not good!" ”

When I went out, my mother said, "Let's go, let's go, just be without you as a daughter." If you leave today, don't go back to your mother's house in the future! Lying on the hospital bed, the father said: "No filial piety, wait to be prosecuted!" Mom chased after you and said, "Yes, we sue you for not supporting your parents." ”

Guys, am I doing something wrong? In this case, can my parents sue me?

 @Star Stripe Emotion said

Hello ladies! Thanks for sharing, I can understand your feelings! Similar things abound in reality, which are related to conventional thinking. Most of the elderly believe that the property should be the son's. However, in line with this, most families, the responsibility of supporting the elderly is also borne by the son.

To put it simply, you should also enjoy your rights while assuming obligations. Since your family's savings and demolition money have nothing to do with you, you don't need to be a filial piety person.

Your husband is right, don't worry about the money, you don't have a penny. Here also remind the individual unclear old people, sons, daughters are their own children, do not favor one over the other, only a bowl of water is flat, impartial, in order to make the family more harmonious. Don't always think about what to plan for your son, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren.