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Women always feel that when a man loves himself, he should contact himself every day and should think about himself all the time.
In fact, when a man really loves a woman, he will not contact you every day.
Because the man who contacts you every day will only love you with barren language, not with practical actions.
Women in the relationship, do not always live in the language of men, always feel that the man who contacts himself every day and uses his mobile phone to greet you every day is true love, and ignores the man next to you who is really good to you.
A man's best love for a woman should be action, not just those barren languages.
Women also don't always indulge in the man's contact with you, if a man, will only tell you every day that he wants you, but you want to meet, he always shirks is very busy; another man directly comes to see you, asks you to eat and watch movies, which man do you think loves you more?
For example: You are hungry, a man tells you, you are hungry you go to eat? Then continue to play the game with your head down and ignore you.
Another man, not only will help you make a good meal, even if the time is too late, but also help you to order takeaway, which man will you choose yourself?
A man's love for a woman is really not what he says, but what he makes, but what he does with his own actions.
This is the greatest sincerity of a man who loves you, a person who can only speak in words, in fact, in real life, language is the most useless existence, and what can help you really solve the problem is action rather than language.
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A man who truly loves you is willing to spend time with you, while a man who will only contact you every day, he is more willing to spend time with others.
Friends told her story about her experience, and before she fell in love with her husband, she loved him deeply.
But after five years of marriage, she felt that her husband was less and less in love with herself, because the time for men to spend with her was simply limited.
In the past, no matter what the holiday, the husband was willing to spend with her, and now no matter what the holiday, the husband is not willing to spend with her, even if it is Valentine's Day, he will ask friends to come out to eat and watch movies together, rather than a date between the husband and wife.
In recent years, the husband and wife have no space for solitude, whether it is to travel abroad, or an ordinary dating moment, soaking in the hot spring, obviously a woman wants to be alone on a date, but it has become a party of friends.
She doesn't know what the problem is? But she knew that this was not normal, perhaps the man meant that he was not willing to spend time with her, but he could not refuse his wife's request, fortunately, he called his friends together, which was better than the embarrassment of two people alone.
The way the two of them get along is also particularly strange, in the living room, on the long sofa, each occupying a position at one end, two people holding their mobile phones, no verbal communication, no eye contact, privately getting along more strangely than friends.
This is probably the problem, when the man is not willing to be alone with you, it also shows that the feelings of the two people have been problematic.
Because men who are willing to be alone with you have made you the most important existence in their lives.
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A man who truly loves you is willing to spend money for you instead of making you spend money for him.
I have always felt that when a man really loves a woman, he is willing to tell you his true income and is willing to hand over his salary card to you, which can reflect the sincerity of a man's love for women.
Because it's the same for anyone, where's his money? His heart was there.
A man who is willing to spend money for you may not necessarily love you, but a man who is unwilling to spend money for you must not love you.
In terms of money, when a man has a lot of pushbacks on you and a lot of excuses for you, please believe in the feelings deep inside, he really didn't think about it, to be with you well, he didn't even think about the future with you.
He's with you, really just temporarily, and hasn't thought about marrying you or giving you a bright future.
When a person truly loves you, he doesn't need any excuses, he will give everything for you from the heart, and does not consider anything, only hopes that you are happy to accept and enjoy, she is already very happy.
When you really love someone, there are no conditions, you don't need him to pay anything for you, as long as you see him, you are already satisfied and full of joy.
In love, women must not blindly love, and must not love blindly.
Don't listen to what the man says for you, or look at what he really did for you and gave for you.
When love really comes to the step of marriage, you will find that the sweet words of men have no role in marriage, and the man who only speaks sweet words is of no use compared to the man who is willing to share the housework, compared to the man who is willing to bear, family responsibilities.
The Internet said: "The man who really loves you, not to accompany you to dinner, to take you on a trip, these are his spending money for your companionship value: the man who really loves you, the investment in you, is the career that really helps you grow; teach you the skill of mixing careers, teach you the way to control human nature, take you to expand your circle of life, bear the burden of your daily life, respect and care for you, and make you feel stable inside." ”
This is the highest level of a man's love for women, and it is really a blessing for a woman to meet such a man for a lifetime.
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