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Love the wrong person, thank you for giving me an empty joy
The Fengling Ferry port first met, and when they saw Yang, they were mistaken for life.
That year, 16-year-old Guo Xiang met a masked one-armed eagle man at the Fengling Ferry Port, and the other party promised to fulfill her three wishes.
Guo Xiang, who was still childish, opened his mouth to look at the other party's face.
The Condor hesitated, but still took off his mask. This eye also became the beginning of Guo Xiang's lifelong love tragedy.
The young girl who was at the right age secretly promised her heart to this big brother with a bumpy life and extraordinary eyebrows. In this life, non-Yang did not marry.
The love between Yang Guo and Xiaolongnü in the back is well known to everyone, and the two retreat to the rivers and lakes and live the life of a fairy companion. And Guo Xiang has been obsessed with his life, and has been pursuing for decades without results, and the distant sweetheart has always avoided himself.
From the age of sixteen to his forties, Guo Xiang never loved anyone else, and he also broke off his heart and dust, desperately shaved, and founded the Emei Sect.
Some people are destined not to fall in love, if they can't see this clearly, no matter how obsessive they are, they can't wait for their own happiness.
02
Confirming the look, is it the right person?
It is not that Guo Xiang is not good enough, Bingxue is as smart as she is, but she ends up with an infatuated and empty youth, and even the audience can't help but sigh for this stupid girl.
Not all love at first sight has results, nor is it the heartbeat of the moment of encounter, which means that you are in love with the right person.
In the eyes of many people, love is a superstition of time and place.
A chance encounter, you think is the arrangement of fate, but it is just your wishful thinking interpretation; irrepressible admiration, the other party in this life is the person you want to love, maybe it is just your momentary brain fever.
In the movie "500 Days with Summer", Tom, who is trapped in love, cannot accept the reality of being broken up by Summer. He had always wondered a question: we were obviously so compatible, I was sure she was the love of her life, everything we had done together was so happy, why did she suddenly not love me?
However, in Summer's eyes, Tom is not the person she loves deeply, and the relationship is not what she wants. In her opinion: I can't give what you want, you can't understand what I want, even if the heartbeat does exist, it doesn't mean that you are the right person.
At the end of the movie, Summer, who said that she would never be able to enter the marriage because her parents divorced, still walked into marriage happily after breaking up with Tom. Tom also finally got out of the haze of lost love and opened a new relationship.
No one will be abandoned by love, and you will always find the right person and talk about a love that can conquer you. Maybe happiness comes a little slower, but as long as you are brave enough to wave the wrong person, the rest is left to time.
The most frightening thing is to cling to a wrong person, have a wrong view of love, and delay their own life.
03
How to understand your love genes?
In fact, who are you suitable for falling in love with, who will you have a hormonal collision with, and the love gene has long been known.
Scientific studies have shown that love is a complex physiological response, and the secretion of hormones is controlled by genes. Your genes determine the degree of activity of love hormones such as dopamine, serotonin, testosterone, and estrogen in the body, and the dominant love hormone is different, and the corresponding love temperament will also be different.