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People still need to have some experience to have some understanding. In addition, it will still be stubborn. Everyone has their own principles and no one is allowed to violate them. Everyone has their own bottom line and does not allow others to trespass. Even in marriage, it is not so easy for both spouses to compromise. The so-called "seeking common ground while reserving differences" and seeking "sameness" belong to everyone; the "difference" that exists is best only one's own. Is this selfish? This is where human nature lies.
Therefore, the strong Chen Shan and the relatively weak Sun Lei are very painful together. At some point when she can't stand it, her willingness to "divorce" will be stronger than ever.
two.
These days, fewer and fewer people are getting married. The benefits of being single are highlighted, and people who don't want to sit in the besieged city are looking for their own way out. "Divorce" is a relief for many people. Let alone whether the rest of your life is happy or not. But as long as you are brave enough to change, this is the beginning of success. The first step was taken, and even the sword and the sea of fire in front of it were willing.
Who gave you the courage to divorce? reality. How many couples without feelings still have to suffer day after day, year after year. Until the day of the end of his life, he was still looking at each other.
If you knew that, why did you do it in the first place? Since the future visible to the naked eye is so unbearable, it is better to make a decision on the spot. Long pain is not as good as short pain, more on that later.
three.
Mr. Qian Zhongshu said it clearly enough: Marriage is a siege of the city, people outside the city want to rush in, people in the city want to rush out. Divorce costs aside, some people simply don't care. Money, won't you earn it yourself? Leaving the house in exchange for freedom means being born again.
Chen Shan thought the same thing, right? Sun Lei did not make a mistake, and her dislike lies in the ordinary, simple and easy-going of the other party. Can't be strong enough to protect Chen Shan, is this Sun Lei's biggest mistake?
Do women think too much about marriage and their husbands? In the end, it was exchanged for disappointment and frustration.
shop.
Then, I saw Chen Shan tear up the divorce agreement. At that moment, both she and the audience let go of the big stone. Divorce is not a difficult task, that is, to replace the bright red marriage certificate with a dark red divorce certificate. The handling fee is not expensive, and the process is relatively simple. As long as you survive the one-month anti-divorce cooling-off period, you can achieve your goal anytime, anywhere.
Especially in the emotional appeal of a mentally thought divorce, the difficulty coefficient of divorce is about equal to zero.
Or Chen Shan as an example: if she hadn't experienced the pain of losing her father, how could she re-examine herself? Cherish the people around you? The wind knows the grass, and it sees people's hearts for a long time. In this era of fast food, the "human heart" is often the least visible and the least dewy.
After the divorce, still think you are the best? Late.
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Chen Shan was able to choose to reunite before formally divorcing, which was really timely. Originally it is acting, and there can be all kinds of coincidences and all kinds of miracles in the play. What about in real life? How many people have divorced and regretted it, but "good horses don't eat back grass". Hard scalp, but also to show that I don't care, I don't care.
There is such a sentence on the Internet, I especially agree. Can't find the source, thank you in advance. This netizen said: "In today's divorce, marriage is not a fairy tale, compound is, you deserve a cup." ”
Whoever is talking about it, it's a big truth. Married, that is the princess and the prince are happy together. What about remarriage? Divorced princesses and princes, can fairy tales continue? (Text/Drifting Yu tong)
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Ma Yili said: Although it is easy to fall in love, marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished. This is true for all over the world.
Walk away, look back, the person is still waiting for you? Remarriage, this is also a beautiful fairy tale...
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