Since becoming a mother, many mothers have mastered a "special skill" - to show their babies in the circle of friends.
Impression of the previous few years, every time I open the circle of friends, "overwhelming" is all kinds of photos of the baby, the baby laughs to dry, howls and cries to dry, and even the baby wets the bed, and some mothers will take pictures to post it.
But did you find out?
I don't know since when, there are fewer and fewer mothers in the circle of friends. I even saw someone a few days ago complaining that Bao Mom doesn't dry baby: "I don't know what the mother who doesn't sunbathe is thinking?" The circle of friends can't see that she is married, is she pretending to be single? "The unit is a new beautiful woman, I chased for half a year to know that everyone has a baby, why didn't you tell me earlier, the circle of friends doesn't even have a photo of a child, the purpose is not pure!"
In fact, the reason why some mothers are reluctant to dry the baby, there are naturally people behind the consideration, we will analyze these mothers who do not dry the baby today.
What do the mothers who are not in the circle of friends think?
1. For privacy and security considerations
Because parents are keen to share their lives on social media, it is not uncommon to expose their children's personal privacy, malicious extortion, extortion, and even kidnapping, and we can see the relevant news every once in a while.
Although most of the "circle of friends" are "friends", on the one hand, they know the face and do not know the heart, sometimes the most important thing parents need to guard against is precisely some of the "most familiar strangers", on the other hand, some of the social software of Bao Ma, some specific people, in fact, Bao Ma herself is not clear.
Therefore, some mothers have concerns about the privacy and safety of their children, afraid of being targeted and used by people with hearts, so they are not willing to post their babies in the circle of friends.
2. Don't want to bother outsiders
Everyone has their own living habits, and some mothers only like to keep their own "one acre and three points" to live a small life, and are not willing to disturb outsiders too much, so they do not want to let some dispensable people witness the growth and specific life of the baby.
Especially sometimes when Bao Ma is posting a baby, some people will also be inferior and send out some very uncomfortable comments, which will naturally make Bao Ma more reluctant to show her baby in the circle of friends.
3. Feel a little outdated in the circle of friends
In fact, many people may have a similar feeling, in the circle of friends, The Baby inadvertently becomes a bit outdated, it seems that only those elderly grandparents are more willing to send their children to the circle of friends, but also keen to increase the number of likes, interact with everyone and so on.
With the development of social media, many young people are increasingly rejecting the behavior of the circle of friends, and even the circle of friends is no longer so active, and some people only send one in a few months, or the content of the "finished task" related to work. Indeed, after experiencing "excessive heat", the circle of friends has gradually returned to normal, and many young people pursue personality and feel that it is a relatively low behavior to send circles all day long.
Should the circle of friends be sunbathed?
In fact, there is no right or wrong in the circle of friends, but from the perspective of the child, we must pay attention to privacy issues, after all, once an accident occurs, the result is difficult for us to bear.
I suggest that parents can also try some of the most popular network tools with better privacy, you can import the child's photos, and then share them with the private family, that is, to solve the privacy problem, but also to avoid disturbing others, we can clearly perceive the baby's growth trajectory, the perfect solution to the needs of the baby.
Crooked Mom Conclusion:
Filming the baby's every move and "posting it" is actually a very good way to record, but in the cyberspace publicly posting the baby, there is indeed a certain risk, parents try to pay as much attention as possible.
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