The woman in the photo who looks heroic, wears a red sweatshirt, and accompanies her young daughter for Christmas in a happy and warm atmosphere is Ye Haiyang, the founder of DC Pharmacy.
Although the 29-year-old has become a successful person worth tens of millions, she is still an "outlier" in the eyes of others, and all this is only because this woman does not want to be attached to men, does not want to get married, but wants to have her own children.
Ye Haiyang is still unmarried, so how did her child come about? Regardless of the eyes of others, she went to the United States to buy high-quality sperm and daughters, and in the eyes of some people, what kind of story does this woman who dares to ignore gossip and live her own appearance have? Listen to the ziya childlike character note and continue to talk about it.
Ye Haiyang was born in 1988 in Changchun, Jilin Province, Northeast China, from a poor family, grew up to live alone in the north drift, lived in the basement, ate cold bread, with excellent ability and insight to continue to ascend to the throne, today's young and promising strong women.
At the age of 28, she is still alone, for love, she has her own pursuit, and she always refuses to give up. Like her peers, she also faces the pressure of "urging marriage" from the elders in her family.
After all, parents always expect their children to find their own happiness after leaving home, and form their own small family with another person, so that after every day after work, they can always return to a warm small room, and there is always someone who asks for warmth to leave a lamp for you.
But the 28-year-old Ye Haiyang is not in a hurry to get married, and her insistence in her heart is that if she can't meet someone who moves her heart, then be an "unmarried", earn a lot of money, and live her own life.
But suddenly one day, Ye Haiyang thought that he had worked hard all these years to earn all this money, but his emotional life was as flat as water, was he really happy?
This question lingered in her mind for a long time, and after much deliberation, she thought that she had grown up in a poor family, and the feeling of love had always been lacking.
Over the years, there has been no one around to accompany her to start a family, and she is not willing to make up a blind date into a traditional marriage dependent on men, but having a daughter is what she wants.
Can you directly build a small family with your children and skip the marriage process? Now that I am 28 years old, if I continue to hesitate, I will miss the best time to get pregnant and have a child in a few years.
After several understandings, Ye Haiyang decided to travel to the United States to find the best quality sperm for his children.
Sangao sperm bank is the largest sperm bank in the United States, and the people who come here to donate sperm are high-quality men with high school education, high appearance and high IQ.
And the male galaxy that meets all the conditions to participate in it will not be revealed, and they will also give up this behavior, which will lead to all fatherly rights and identities.
Spending a lot of money to select male sperm that he thinks is high-quality, plus various pre-pregnancy preparations, This trip to the United States, Ye Haiyang spent more than 500,000 yuan.
After pregnancy, Ye Haiyang once encountered malicious comments, and some people felt that the child born of pregnancy without marriage would enter an incomplete single-parent family, which was very unfavorable to the growth of the child.
There are also some people who point fingers at Ye Haiyang with stereotypes, believing that her personality is extremely flawed, that she is not qualified to be a mother, and that it will also have a bad impact on the unborn child in the future.
These people who do not understand the lives of others will randomly taste and point, which will cause great harm to Ye Haiyang as a mother.
During her pregnancy, she had a big belly, but it was difficult to stop her brain from self-doubt, she was very afraid that she could not take on the responsibility of bringing her little life into the world, and she was depressed for a long time, and she almost suffered from depression.
But the good thing is, it's all worth it. Doris, Chinese translated as Doris, is derived from Greek mythology, meaning "little gift" and "gift on the other side of the sea".
This is the name Ye Haiyang gave birth to his daughter who was conceived in October, which is full of his own love and integrates the beautiful expectations of future life into it.
Daughters are gifts from Heaven to their mothers, as the Oriental proverb goes, "The daughter is the mother's little cotton jacket." "Doris has a pretty face, tan hair, pretty eyes, and a cherry mouth.
Her personality is intelligent and lively, and she is extremely adaptable to learning and the environment. He learned to walk in a few months and has learned to run by the age of 1.
However, because Ye Haiyang was questioned by the Internet in the early stage, so that after Doris was born, all kinds of malicious comments did not stop, and people who were accustomed to tradition were very dissatisfied with What Ye Haiyang did.
Fortunately, Ye Haiyang has learned to filter these rumors, and he can also rely on his own ability to shield his daughter from the wind and rain, and use his high income to create a warm home for his daughter.
It is also because of the super hot discussion on the Internet that shunshi has brought out whether people should "live only for themselves" and pursue their own "free" choices without marriage.
These remarks sounded slightly unreasonable to Ye Haiyang.
She believes that children are independent individuals, and many times they need to take into account the feelings of their families, but they do not have to reassure their families and complete the "get married, have a partner later, and someone hurts" against their own wishes.
She has the ability to create a good life for her future, and she can also make more choices for the future. There is no harm to society, and there is no interference with people other than oneself, so why not get recognition?
Doris's birth, from the age stage of her mother, sperm selection, to every decision, to every link, has undergone Ye Haiyang's deep consideration and full devotion. She chose to conceive Doris for love.
As for whether the form of a "perfect family" of three for his daughter Doris is a single-parent family today, Ye Haiyang believes that this is not very important.
The so-called parents are to provide protection and nurturing for their children. Compared with Ye Haiyang's family, being born in a family with sound parents, and the parents are unconsciously or subjectively unwilling to assume the responsibilities of their protectors and nurturers, is the most terrible thing for children.
Although many children are born in families with sound parents, due to the harsh family environment of the original family, their growth process will also be deviated, and the formal family integrity cannot completely determine the happiness of the family and children.
Many people think that Ye Haiyang will not have the love of a mother without a complete marriage, she will harm this newborn child, and her behavior is completely absurd.
If interpreted from another perspective, can these netizens who have not really had contact with them and directly make false assertions predict the future, and whether they will cause invisible and unspeakable harm to the lives of others?
Ye Haiyang did not understand that he did not hinder or hurt others, did not cause harm to society, he just chose the way of life he wanted, and he was also doing his best to give his children a good life and all his love, why was he so criticized?
Ye Haiyang often posts photos of his and his daughter's life on the Internet, sometimes visiting the supermarket together, sometimes stepping on the beach together, and different photos are filled with the same happy and happy smiles.
As the child grows up slowly, and also sees Ye Haiyang's intentions and companionship for the child, netizens seem to have accepted such a mother and daughter, and are willing to send their own blessings.
In August 2021, some media reported that Ye Haiyang had prepared for the birth of the second daughter in the family. This child will be born like Doris, without a father.
I don't know if Doris will get along with the new members of the family, I hope that their family of three will be happy in the future!
Ye Haiyang's behavior can be said to be deviant in traditional thinking. She seems to be independent, successful in her career, and enjoying life. But this kind of life is not for everyone.
Life is only once, and everyone has their own pursuits. Whether to marry or not is a personal choice, but both men and women should be cautious before making such a choice.
A life without marriage does not mean a complete failure, and a married life is not full of regrets. What kind of life have you chosen? Are you still fighting for your life? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.
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