Wen | Jingma
In an interview program, a young and beautiful girl was seen saying that she was a Doctor with an annual salary of millions, but her parents were ashamed to mention her daughter in front of neighbors, relatives and friends.
Because in the eyes of the parents' generation, no matter how fast the progress at work and the excellence in school, if you don't get married, it is zero.
In the life event to turn in the white paper, her parents feel unqualified, and she herself also feels ashamed of her parents, especially in the past two years, after the death of her grandparents and aunts, she feels sorry for her parents!
She said that this society is really unfair to girls, because girls can't achieve work and school, they must also have marriage, and the family must be happy parents will be assured!
As parents, I always feel in my heart that when my children get married and start a family, they will put their minds at ease.
Especially girls have limited youth, and parents are very nervous about their children's life events. I am afraid that the older the girl is, the more difficult it is to find a partner, and the later life will be harder and there is no guarantee.
Girls must get married and have children, so that life is complete to be happy? Just look at the following two cases and you'll know
Case 1: 42-year-old Qin Lan
As a star, Qin Lan has a beautiful appearance, a beautiful posture, has her own career, and has a lot of income.
She can also live very dashingly and independently by herself, but unlike other people, she is 40 years old, but she is not married and has no children.
In many people's hot discussions about women's uterus if they do not have children, it will be wasted and has no effect, but Qin Lan domineeringly replied: My uterus is not used, what is the matter with you!
It is true that a woman is a complete individual, and every organ in a woman's body should be directed by her own brain.
Whether the uterus is to be used or not, it is indeed up to the woman herself to decide, which is a person with independent thoughts and personality.
Case two: Ye Haiyang, who gave birth to two daughters out of wedlock
Ye Haiyang has a plan for her life and hopes to give birth to a child around the age of 30, but she can't find her favorite other half.
Luckily she has her own business and is the CEO of a company, so she has plenty of money.
So she had the idea of going abroad to buy sperm to give birth to a child, and with this idea, she immediately took action, first buying the sperm of a mixed-race child in the United States and giving birth to her eldest daughter Doris.
Later, after the eldest daughter Doris was a few years old, she felt that it was a very happy thing to have children, and she thought of giving her eldest daughter a brother or sister as a companion.
So Ye Haiyang went to Russia to test tube the second child, and now she has two daughters, her career is still very successful, and she can accompany her daughter to grow up from time to time.
Many fans are very envious of Ye Haiyang's life, thinking that she has done a lot of things that women want to do but have not done.
After all, although many women now say that they are married and have children, all the things of the children are taken care of by the mother, and the father is only a name, but he will never help with the matter of taking a baby, and widowhood parenting abounds.
Like Ye Haiyang, he did not think of relying on men, he could earn money to raise his daughter, and he could also accompany his children, which was indeed very admirable and envious.
So married or not? Do you want to have children? In fact, it depends on your own will and ideas.
Now that women have a strong sense of independence, and they also have the ability to earn their own money and support themselves, marriage is not a necessary option.
As a parent, you should want to open some and look open, society continues to progress, children get married, divorce, Dink and other problems will be more and more.
As long as the child is happy, don't stick to any form, what do you think?
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