In 2017, a single female CEO named Ye Haiyang spent 500,000 yuan to buy sperm and gave birth to a 5-country mixed-race baby.
When they heard this news, the masses mixed opinions. Some people admire Ye Haiyang's courage, and some people say that Ye Haiyang does not give his children a complete family, so bringing children into this world is a very selfish and irresponsible performance.
In the face of these discussions, Ye Haiyang never came forward to explain. It wasn't until later in an interview with reporters that Ye Haiyang said his heartfelt words: "I don't steal or rob, I live my own small life behind closed doors, what do I need to explain to everyone?" ”
On February 10, 2022, Ye Haiyang once again officially announced the good news of the birth of a woman. Both the child and her first child came from a father.
Ye Haiyang's eldest daughter
So what is the purpose of Ye Haiyang buying sperm? What kind of hidden feelings are behind her delay in getting married? Why did she give birth to her second child four years later? All this also began with Ye Haiyang's growth experience.
Fledgling, breaking out of the world
Ye Haiyang was born in 1988 in a small village in Changchun, Jilin Province, to parents who were both elementary school students, and both worked in factories not far from home. Because of the low level of education, even if their parents are diligent and sincere, they are the "labor pacesetters" in the factory every year, but every time there is any promotion opportunity in the factory, they cannot turn Ye Haiyang's parents.
Therefore, when Ye Haiyang was still young, her father often told her: "Ocean, you and I have suffered the loss of no culture." You must study hard! ”
Ye Haiyang is the only daughter in the family, and her parents love her very much. So Ye Haiyang became a big grinning "tomboy" after growing up. She likes to cut her hair short, play basketball, and has a stronger personality.
So even though her father didn't ask her to be at the top of the test, she still struggled to get to the top few in her class. In the eyes of many teachers, Ye Haiyang is a girl who dares to think and dare to do it, and is very responsible.
Because of this personality trait, Ye Haiyang was not willing to develop in a small city after graduating from college, and this life that could see her head at a glance made her feel monotonous and boring.
After saying goodbye to his parents, Ye Haiyang packed his bags and came to Beijing alone. At first, Ye Haiyang could not afford the rent in Beijing, so he could only find some jobs to eat and live in.
She started from a small salesman, because of the cheerful and generous characteristics of northeastern people, Ye Haiyang was loved by many customers and had a certain reputation in the industry.
Later, the economy of Jiangsu and Zhejiang developed rapidly, and Ye Haiyang took the savings she had accumulated in Beijing to go to the southern region. With a keen business intuition, Ye Haiyang decided to test the waters in the cosmetics industry.
Ye Haiyang played small like a tomboy and never put on makeup. So she didn't know anything about cosmetics, and could only start with the most basic miscellaneous work.
In the process of miscellaneous work, Ye Haiyang took the initiative to understand the formula of cosmetics and the needs of major customer groups. After understanding this, Ye Haiyang decided to fund a factory of his own.
After hearing that Ye Haiyang had founded a factory, former customers came to her for cooperation. With more and more customers, Ye Haiyang has finally gained a foothold in the cosmetics industry.
Female CEOs have a different approach to "starting a family"
After Ye Haiyang's career stabilized, her parents began to frequently "urge marriage". But Ye Haiyang felt that he was still in the rising stage of his career and did not have extra energy to fall in love.
Moreover, talking about love and marriage is a lifelong thing, sloppy. However, Ye Haiyang's parents felt that Ye Haiyang had reached the age of marriage, and now that his career was stable, it was time to consider the marriage event.
At this time, Ye Haiyang suddenly thought of a plan to buy sperm and give birth, so she told her parents: "I want to go abroad to buy sperm and then give birth to a mixed-race baby." ”
At that time, Ye Haiyang's parents heard Ye Haiyang say this, and they also felt very difficult to accept for a while. They said to Ye Haiyang, "We are not in a hurry to hug your grandson, we are looking at you too hard, thinking that if you are married, you can be considered to have someone to accompany you." ”
However, Ye Haiyang firmly stated that marriage is a lifelong thing, and this matter needs to be considered in the long run. But they can "get ahead" and let them hold their grandson.
Seeing that Ye Haiyang's attitude was so resolute, her parents also agreed to this decision. Later, with the support of Ye Haiyang's parents, Ye Haiyang went abroad alone in 2017 to buy sperm.
Pregnant leaf ocean
Because Ye Haiyang's requirements are extremely high, so in the sperm bank, after selecting left and right, she chose a "father" who graduated from an American Ivy League school for her children.
The "father" of this child not only attended an Ivy League school in the United States, but also had a mixed ancestry of four countries. Coupled with Ye Haiyang's own Chinese ancestry, the child was labeled as a mixed-race of the five countries as soon as he was born.
From traveling to the United States to screening sperm to embryo implantation, Ye Haiyang Volunteer Group spent half a million yuan. This does not include ye Haiyang's cost of raising a fetus during pregnancy.
Ye Haiyang, like many new mothers during pregnancy, is very prone to nervousness and anxiety. During pregnancy, she did not urinate frequently, regurgitate her stomach and stretch marks.
Not only that, as a career guru. Ye Haiyang also refused to give up his career during her pregnancy, running between the office and the factory every day.
Fortunately, the child was very strong, and Ye Haiyang eventually gave birth to a very cute little girl. The little girl's hair was light blond, holy and beautiful like a little angel.
Ye Haiyang named the child Doris, which translates to "Doris", which means "beautiful gift".
Ye Haiyang's sharing of parent-child videos was attacked by netizens
After having a child, Ye Haiyang had a concern. Usually, she always wanders around the street after work, or simply does not leave work, working overtime until the early hours of the morning.
After Doris was born, she rushed home to accompany her children after work. Like all mothers, she was eager to dedicate everything she had to her baby.
In his daily life, Ye Haiyang will also take the initiative to shoot some parent-child videos and send them to the network, and thus receive a certain number of likes and views.
However, I don't know what day it was, the news that Ye Haiyang's child was her buying sperm and giving birth abroad suddenly spread. Ye Haiyang was immediately hit by netizens.
At that time, the discussion about Ye Haiyang hung up for two days of hot searches, and there were some who opposed Ye Haiyang and many who supported Ye Haiyang. These sounds continued to ferment, and finally even affected the normal life of Ye Haiyang.
As a last resort, Ye Haiyang had to accept an interview with reporters. The purpose of her interview is to hope that she can return to a normal life, and the second is to hope that she can protect her daughter and provide her daughter with a healthy and happy environment for growth.
At that time, Ye Haiyang was not humble in the face of the reporter's camera, and said such a thing: "I gave birth to a child myself, we did not steal or rob, did not harass other people in society, and lived our lives behind closed doors. And I'm trying to give her the love of a father and mother. ”
According to Ye Haiyang, as Doris got bigger and bigger, her personality became more and more cheerful. Usually Ye Haiyang will take her to the fashion week catwalk, on the catwalk, Doris has always been generous, confident and optimistic.
It is worth mentioning that because Ye Haiyang spends almost all his time outside of work with his daughter's growth, Doris will neither be lost because he can't see his father when he grows up, nor will he be very eager for his father's company.
Ye Haiyang went abroad again for the birth of his second child
After Doris grew up, she often expressed to Ye Haiyang that she hoped to have another sister to accompany her. At that time, Ye Haiyang rejected Doris because he was busy at work, and after a long time, Ye Haiyang often felt guilty when he saw his daughter's lost eyes.
Later, after careful consideration, Ye Haiyang was also afraid that if he went to work, Doris was lonely at home. In addition, Ye Haiyang was already in his thirties when he gave birth to Doris, and he would soon pass the best reproductive period for women.
At that time, Ye Haiyang patted the table and decided that if he wanted the second child, he must be early! In this context, the second child plan was quickly put on the agenda.
After careful consideration, Ye Haiyang decided to choose a father like Doris. Both children choose the same father, so the blood relationship is consistent, and it is relatively easy to cultivate feelings in the later stage.
Because of his previous experience, this time Ye Haiyang quickly ended his trip and returned home. During the delivery period, Ye Haiyang returned to the northeast with Doris.
With the company of his parents, ye Haiyang's production was very smooth this time, and his postpartum mood was also very stable. On February 10, 2022, that is, during the Spring Festival of the Year of the Tiger, Ye Haiyang successfully gave birth to a "tiger baby".
This child is also a lively and cute daughter, probably because of the genes of Ye Haiyang, this child's hair is black.
After seeing her sister born, Doris rushed up to see her like a big sister. Looking at this moment, Ye Haiyang's face showed a happy smile.
Ye Haiyang's behavior is tantamount to giving some women who do not want to get married but like children a new possibility, in Ye Haiyang's view, although as a single mother, hard work is inevitable. But seeing the child's happy smiling face, it is worth it to work hard.
Although not all women today can be as brave as Ye Haiyang and have parents who support her, Lu Xun once said: "There is no road in the world, and the more people who walk, the more they become." ”
We have no doubt that as these two children grow up, Ye Haiyang will encounter various problems like other single mothers. But we also have reason to believe that a brave, determined, and confident woman like Ye Haiyang will definitely come up with a better solution after careful consideration.