Because of the impact of the new crown pneumonia epidemic and some things, I have not seen my best friend for more than three years, although I talk on the Internet every day, I understand all the movements of the other party, I still want to see it very, very much, and always look forward to the end of the epidemic and all peace. Missing is really painful, but in the boundless universe, there are people who can miss it, and it is also a kind of happiness. Miss friends, talk unscrupulously, "Ge You lie" without image, lazily crooked on the sofa, do not have to deliberately find a topic, even if you do not speak, the silence is also comfortable, there is no embarrassment, only a stable aroma.
Mr. Qian Zhongshu
Regarding the word "peng", Xu Shen of the Eastern Han Dynasty clearly stated in the "Explanation of Words and Words": Peng, under the guise of borrowing, indicates the situation in which flocks of birds gather together. Chinese characters are indeed wonderful, think about it, flocks of birds gather together, flutter their wings together in the sky, or peck a berry on the branches of a tree, twittering little life, how like the feeling of being with friends, with happiness, with suffering, with joy, with sharing. Today, let's talk about Mr. Qian Zhongshu's "On the Side of Life. Talk about dating"
Although there is mutual support between friends in times of crisis and the exchange of interests in daily life, the basis of friendship is the mutual attraction of souls and the resonance of the spiritual world. As Mr. Qian Zhongshu said, "The formation of true friendship is not due to the intentional co-optation of both sides, with some accidents, with some unconsciousness ... In the warm and dense, spring night-like subconscious, he suddenly sneaked into an outsider. oh! It turned out to be him! The product of true friendship is just a pleasure that permeates your body and mind. ”
Meeting a true friend, like meeting love, is "a sunny day in May, lightning flashes", the pleasure in between, can dissolve the block in the chest, can fill the inner uneasiness and mutilation, the world begins to be closely related to you.
In Huang Gu's "Tea Language", it is said, "Just like the deceased under the lamp, the return of thousands of miles to the shadow; the mouth cannot speak, and the heart is happy and introspective." Mr. Qian Zhongshu thinks that this is very good, and it is very true to use friendships than to eat tea. Reading this, I suddenly remembered the poem "There is no time to spend the night and a half, idle knocking on the chess pieces and falling lights and flowers", the yellow plum season, the light rain babbling, the night accompanied by the sound of frogs, waiting for a friend to play against each other, this is the only Chinese the beautiful understanding of the pastoral life. There is also the recent vibrato on the explosion of "Huaimin also did not sleep" stem, Su Shi moon night rise, he went to the Chengtian Temple to find Zhang Huaimin to travel together, let us remember deeply, never the beautiful moonlight and bamboo cypress, is the most precious night tourist ah.
From Mr. Qian Zhongshu, I learned a word, "sujiao", the ancient Chinese language often uses "greasy friend" to show the thoughtfulness between husband and wife, and uses "sujiao" to express the marrow of friendship, pure and simple. "The element is the basis of all colors, and at the same time the harmony of all colors, like the day contains seven colors. True friendship, it seems to be pixel-light, has its own friendship beyond the dead and alive. Some scholars describe life-and-death friendships with friends, "because he is him, because I am me", stripping away all the cloak of hypocrisy, not material or other exchange, and meeting you because you are you.