The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth remains in the heart
Since ancient times, the bride price as a necessary stage of preparation before marriage, many people's attitude to the bride price is also mixed, but it is undeniable that today, there are still many couples, because of the dowry matters, disagreements, and eventually ended up breaking up. Even if some couples barely cross the threshold of the bride price, after marriage, the bride price has become a flashpoint of contradictions between husband and wife.
Before marriage, Chenchen's boyfriend raised the strength of the whole family, with a dowry of 300,000 to marry himself, which was to meet the requirements of his parents, but what surprised Chenchen was that his dowry was only 3,000, for which she was very angry, watching her husband's family exhaust all the family foundations in order to marry herself, after marriage, Chenchen decided to go back to her mother's house to question where her parents went, but she did not expect to be told that the dowry was reserved for her brother's marriage, after listening to these words, Chenchen felt very angry. In a fit of rage, he said the words: You are selling your daughter.
Chenchen lives in a patriarchal family environment, in Chenchen's memory, since childhood, whenever there is any good food and fun in the family, the first to try is always her brother, even if the younger brother makes a mistake, her parents will blame her as a sister for not taking good care of her brother.
As he grows older, Chen Chen's greatest wish is to be able to move out of his original family as soon as possible. So after graduation, she immediately moved out and started a solitary life model.
She and her boyfriend met through the introduction of friends, but the two belonged to love at first sight, and in the subsequent relationship, they gradually confirmed to each other that the other was the person who accompanied them for life.
However, for Chenchen, she did not want her boyfriend to contact her parents prematurely, although for so many years, she had little contact with her parents, but with her own feelings, Chenchen could foresee that when she brought her boyfriend home, her parents would definitely make it difficult for him.
But the feelings between the two have been dragging on like this is not the way, plus the boyfriend also wants to go to the morning home as soon as possible to determine the marriage between the two.
In the end, in desperation, Chen Chen had to confide in her boyfriend, I am afraid that when the time comes, my parents will be embarrassed for my boyfriend.
But the boyfriend reassured Chen Chen that he would deal with it carefully.
Chenchen greeted his parents in advance, and unexpectedly, on the day that Chenchen took her boyfriend home, her parents actually prepared a table of hearty meals and warmly entertained her boyfriend.
In this regard, Chen Chen was a little flattered, she had a momentary trance, was it that her parents felt that they were old and that their attitude towards themselves had changed.
The family ended the day in laughter, and after returning home, the boyfriend also said to Chenchen: I feel that your parents are very good.
Chenchen was also a little confused.
In this way, the next step is to meet the two families.
Before the two families met, Chenchen's parents greeted Chenchen, according to the customs of the hometown, the family that married the daughter-in-law had to take out 300,000 yuan as a dowry, but then the parents said that when the morning morning was married, their family would accompany the dowry.
How much the specific dowry was, Chen Chen did not ask in detail, because she did not want the connection she had so hard to establish with her parents to be affected.
Naturally, Chen Chen also said these words to her boyfriend. The boyfriend said that he would definitely make up enough of the bride price and go to the door in the morning with beautiful scenery.
In this regard, Chen Chen was also very moved, and he did not expect that his boyfriend had such a deep affection for himself.
Since the families of both parties to the bride price have no opinion, the wedding date has been determined in this way.
On the wedding day, ChenChen has been immersed in a happy and beautiful feeling, but until the moment she opened the suitcase, she found that her parents' so-called dowry was only 3,000.
The bride price of 300,000 was finally only 3,000, and this feeling of falling into the abyss was unacceptable to the morning.
However, when Chenchen learned that her husband had exhausted all the family's savings in order to marry himself, and even the in-laws' family foundations had been cleaned up, Chenchen felt extremely ashamed.
Therefore, after getting married, ChenChen took a moment to return to her mother's house, and after returning to her mother's house, ChenChen asked her parents where her original bride price went.
Unexpectedly, my parents said that this bride price should be reserved for Chen Chen's younger brother to marry later.
Chen Chen was not reconciled, and she then asked: What about the dowry you promised in the first place?
But the parents said that the 3 dollars were Chen Chen's dowry.
From this point on, Chen Chen could understand the purpose of his parents, and the friendly side of his parents before marriage was all illusions, in order to make himself trust them, take out the bride price, and then use it as a brother to get married.
It turned out that for so many years, in the hearts of parents, the most important thing was the younger brother.
In desperation, Chen Chen had no choice but to say to his parents: You are selling your daughter, and in the future, I will not enter this house again.
After saying this, ChenChen left.
Conclusion: For Chenchen, how sad she will be when she learns the true purpose of her parents, and for Chenchen's parents, it is obviously not worth the loss to hurt her daughter's heart for the 300,000 bride price.
But fortunately, ChenChen met a husband who truly loved her and cared for her, which was the most precious thing for Chenchen.