A good relationship is definitely not dependent on the efforts of one person, but requires two people to operate together, and life will become happier and happier.
If one party is always pleasing and the other party is enjoying, such a relationship cannot be long-lasting, and how many people can do it continuously?
Feelings also need to respond, just like when you meet an acquaintance on the road, the first time you take the initiative to greet the other party, the result is that the other party ignores you, once or twice can understand, but every time it is difficult to accept.
Putting the burden of marriage on a certain person, such feelings are bound to be unhappy.
Some netizens shared a scene at the wedding, when the bride and groom stood on the stage, the brother-in-law sent his blessings and pulled a banner in front of the couple.
"Boy, my sister is arrogant at home, and if she goes back to her mother's house and has injuries on her body, she will definitely make you famous and panicked."
Some netizens said that such a brother-in-law is really domineering, the strength to spoil his sister, if he also has such a mother's family to support, which will be so unbearable.
However, there are also many netizens who said that this move is inappropriate, this brother-in-law is supporting his sister, it is almost like smashing the field, why do you say so?
Whoever says that his sister is arrogant and accustomed at home, this clearly means that my sister has a bad temper, and you have to marry home to be the ancestor's offering.
Everyone is the baby of the parents, no one is superior to the other, marriage needs the joint efforts of both husband and wife, rather than squeezing one person.
Some netizens said that when their girls got married, they would never engage in these things, so that not only would they not let their aunt treat their daughters kindly, but they would also make their aunt resentful.
Some careful netizens said that when the brother-in-law pulled out this banner, the newcomers on the stage obviously had some bad looks on their faces, and this banner was not suitable for this occasion.
Everyone jokes in private, you say this is harmless, but putting this kind of private words on the table, it is easy to cause some unnecessary misunderstandings.
Some netizens said that if they saw this kind of thing on the day of their wedding, they would immediately cancel the wedding, and they would never serve these people.
There are many people who feel that by relying on the intervention of external forces, they can ensure their own happiness, such as having a strong mother-in-law to help them support themselves.
But a truly happy marriage is not threatened by external forces, but requires husband and wife to tolerate each other, understand each other, and support each other.
Don't take arrogance as a token, rely on the threat of the mother's family to make the husband obey his own words, will he really be willing?
It is better to manage the relationship between husband and wife, at this time, there is no need for any external threats, and the people who love you will also take the initiative to let you and care for you.
The contradiction between husband and wife, many couples can solve it in private, if the contradiction between husband and wife is made public, so that more and more people participate, it will only make the problem more and more serious.
Many couples go to divorce, not because of the participation of both family members, obviously a very small thing, this and that say one sentence.
In the end, both parties can't get off the stage, and the things that can pass with a smile have to get to the point of divorce.
Those netizens who think that the banner of the brother-in-law is domineering, just expose their family style and tutoring, and the truly educated people will be ashamed of this banner.
This banner is not helping at all, but it is stirring up trouble, a bit of a chance to give the man a taste of wearing small shoes, and the man's heart will be a little uncomfortable.
Your own children are treasures, but aren't other people's children?
When a woman in her 20s did not know anything, the mother not only did not blame a little, but felt that it was very good, and her daughter would not be a slave to others when she got married.
Why should such a mother not divorce herself, and her daughter should not be a slave, should others be a slave? And how did they become slaves in order to make the couple's life better?
At that time, there were many people who agreed with this statement, which was truly jaw-dropping, happiness does not come with the arrival of marriage, happiness needs to be operated by couples together.