Meet, don't ask whether it is fate or robbery, all the encounters in life are long-term reunions, the world is so powerful to meet each other, it must be five hundred years ago in front of the Buddha's sincere expectations, in exchange for the encounter in this life, in fact, every encounter is the echo of fate, the foreshadowing of deception, if there is no debt, how can we meet ·
For love, everyone expects to have, the luckiest thing in life, is that the person you like also happens to like yourself, so that you save a lot of obstacles, and it is easier to have a happy life. However, most people will not find the person who truly loves themselves in their lifetime, we will love others wholeheartedly, hoping that this feeling can give us a good return, hoping that love can treat ourselves well, but in the end, no matter how hard we try, it is just touching ourselves.
Why can others easily get love, but they can't find it no matter how hard they try? Have you ever seriously thought about such a question? I want to tell you in two stories that you can't find true love, and the real reason may be only one.
A passing fate
Li Yang is an engineer, tall and thin, receiving a salary of five or six thousand a month, although he has not yet bought a house, but some savings, not how good, but there is no big shortcoming. His life was very regular, working, eating, coming home every day, and one morning, on the way to work, he met a girl, and from the moment he saw her, he was sure that she was the goddess in his mind. Whether you believe in love at first sight or not, zhao Ming believes it anyway, to what extent is his heart moved? It's the kind that makes your heart beat faster when you see her.
In fact, the girl is not particularly beautiful, is the kind of type that is very shrewd and capable at a glance, the lover's eyes are out of the West, in Li Yang's eyes the girl is perfect, he wants to go up and talk, but he hesitates, he does not know which way he should open the conversation, he does not even know what to say, he is afraid that the other party will reject himself, just when hesitating, the girl arrived at the station, so he rubbed shoulders with her.
Later, after much hard work, Li Yang finally found out where the girl worked, and was lucky enough to get her WeChat. After understanding Li Yang knows that the girl is the manager of the human sales department, whether it is a salary or a position is higher than Li Yang, which makes Li Yang, who has no self-confidence, more hesitant, he likes her, but he does not dare to confess for various reasons and excuses, so their relationship has been lukewarm and maintained, until the girl announces that she has a boyfriend.
The girl's boyfriend is not as good as Li Yang in all aspects, he is not as tall as him, the job is not as good as him, which makes Li Yang chafed, and the fate of him and the girl is like the first time they met, the girl arrived at the station and rubbed shoulders with him.
Love doesn't always wait for you where you are
My cousin is 35 years old this year, handsome, has a car and a house, has a successful career, his conditions can be said to be very good, he is still single, not that he is too picky, but he has not met the person who makes him move.
To say, the cousin is also a person with a story, when the cousin graduated from college, there was a very loving girlfriend, when the girl's parents did not agree with them together, because the cousin at that time was still a poor boy, but the girl had no hesitation to follow the cousin, so after graduation, the girl accompanied the cousin to work hard for five years, when the girl was 28 years old, the woman who immediately ran three must be eager to get married, the girl wanted the cousin to buy a house and get married with the money earned over the years, but the cousin wanted to use the money to start a business, so the two people had a dispute.
Later, the cousin repeatedly promised that after three years, no matter whether the business was successful or not, they would definitely get married, and ask the girl to believe him, and he would not fail her. However, a year later, the girl could not withstand the urging of her parents, did not know whether to gamble or really chilled her cousin, and soon married a man she had known for a long time.
His cousin was heartbroken, frustrated by the scene, but his career was exceptionally good, in three years, the plate processing factory he ran doubled, he changed from a poor boy to a small boss, however, he lost the woman who loved him very much.
After having money, his cousin also had mustard in his heart, and he always felt that those women who were close to him were all for money, even if they knew each other on a blind date, it was also to see his current status, so he went around for several years, and he never found the person who made him move.
Once he was drunk and said, "If I hadn't insisted on starting a business, what would it be like now?" From his words we can tell that he is very backward
Sometimes, love will not always be waiting for you in the same place, if you want to have true love, then you must have the courage to accept the unknown in the future, just like if the cousin chose to get married at that time, even if he did not have the money to start a business, he would marry the woman he loved, then with his ingenuity, he would also make a difference.
Therefore, true love is difficult to find, and when encountered, it is immediately decided to seize it bravely, rather than hesitating, because some people, a miss is a lifetime.
Here I would like to warn men and women who are still single: if you can't find true love, the real reason may be only one, that is, lack of confidence, lack of courage, hesitation.
When love comes, many people will hesitate, suffer from loss and loss, in fact, the biggest reason is not confident enough, because of the uncertainty of the future, can not bravely take that step, feel that they are not good enough, afraid of being rejected by the other party; afraid that the other party will suffer after themselves, because they want to do everything thoroughly, because they think too much, and finally miss the person they love the most in hesitation.
In fact, sometimes, we can't meet true love, not that we are not good enough, but we are too good, think too much about everything, want to do everything thoroughly, these are the good qualities of responsibility, but we should have enough self-confidence, calmly face love, and bravely create opportunities, when meeting their own hearts, bravely and recklessly chase,
Haruki Murakami once said: "When we were teenagers, we pursued passion, but when we matured, we were obsessed with mediocrity." It is a kind of courage to believe in love as always after we have sought, hurt, and deviated. ”
May everyone who reads this article be able to bravely go forward at the intersection of love and say: "Hi, hello! "Instead of hesitating to miss it, let your life add regrets."
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