Although the status of women in ancient China was relatively low, the role of mothers in the family could not be ignored.
Now the same is true in society, as women's status is getting higher and higher, their role in the family is becoming more and more important.
In addition to the husband and son, women now also bear the heavy responsibility of family finance. Since ancient times in our country, women have been at home since ancient times to teach their husbands and children, while men have gone out to earn money to support their families.
Every word and deed and every move of a mother in life will be seen by the child, and will also affect the formation of the child's thoughts and concepts.
A child who is growing up, the imitation power is very strong, will always involuntarily imitate the mother's living habits, including thoughts, three views, knowledge and so on.
The influence of the mother on the child is far greater than the influence of the father on the child, and the success of the child's future depends to a large extent on the influence of the mother.
Therefore, for children, the mother has also become the longest time to accompany herself.
Today, with increasing pressure from all aspects of society, many families always have difficulty seeing the father of their children.
Every day, only the mother is at home to take care of the children, and even the mother must now take on certain responsibilities in order to pursue a better life.
Of course, the long-term relationship between the child and the mother has a great influence on the child.
A professor at Peking University said: "Children who grow up and achieve success, in fact, their mothers have these 3 characteristics, what are these 3 characteristics?"
1, spoil the child, but at the same time have a certain measure
Every mother loves her child deeply, but when this love develops into coddling, it becomes a burden.
Although it is natural for a mother to love her child, in many cases, a mother doing a lot for her child is not love for her child, but will hurt the child and make the child overly dependent on the mother.
2. The three views established for children are correct
It is very important to establish the correct three views for children, and the three views guide the child in that direction. Only under the premise of correct three views can children achieve something.
If the child grows up under the wrong three views, then the child will also go astray in the future.
3, can help, but not all needs to respond
Today's children seem to be used to relying on everything, and when they encounter things, the first thing they think of is to leave it to their parents to solve.
Especially to your own mother, because the mother's love for her children is innate. However, what is to be said here is that some suggestions can be given when children encounter problems, but remember to do a big package, do not let the children participate, and parents help solve them, which is also detrimental to the growth of children.
Smart mothers can create a good learning atmosphere for their children and provide the right guidance for their children. This is very important for the child's life.
The mother's personality, mentality, world view, values, etc., determine her own attitude towards the world; and the mother's attitude towards the world has a huge impact on the child's emotional intelligence.
An optimistic and cheerful mother will be able to think and practice in a positive direction in life, and at the same time, she will let her children have a positive attitude.
The perseverance of mothers will also make children brave and strong in the face of difficulties, and they are not afraid of failure and setbacks.
A wise mother can create a harmonious family atmosphere and a good learning environment for her children, guiding them to make wise choices at every corner of life.
The most important thing as a mother is how to influence a child, not to look after a child. Don't let your child rely too much on their parents, this is something that needs to be paid attention to now. What do you think?
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