Lang Zheng was admitted to Peking University: Behind the excellent students are their parents who are struggling to support

Text|Ning Ma Wuyu

College admission notices have been in place, and the admission of Tsinghua University and Peking University has paid special attention to the Internet. It is probably because when the notice is delivered at the post office, flowers and promotional videos are distributed, which is particularly eye-catching.

The usual procedure is that parents and children open the admission letter together to display it, and then take a group photo, give an interview, and the family background is accidentally exposed.

Like the "saluting doll" Lang Zheng may be the most popular child, Lang Zheng was officially admitted to the School of International Studies of Peking University, and the dean Tang Shiqi personally sent the admission notice to Lang Zheng, which was widely reported by the official media and was on the hot search for a while.

When Lang Zheng was 3 years old, he became famous throughout the country for saluting the soldiers who rescued him, and now he has grown into a 185 sunshine big boy, with such excellent grades, the outside world must be curious about what kind of family he grew up in. He grew up in a good environment, his father was a policeman, his mother was a civil servant, which provided him with good educational conditions.

Do parents have good careers, and children are more likely to become top students? Surely it can't be so absolute! But behind every excellent child is the parents who are struggling to lift up. A good family background may be more blessed, but the average family background also has its own way to success.

With a good family background, parents are more capable of nurturing their children in an all-round way

Lang Zheng was famous and constantly received some business offers, but they were declined by his parents. Parents are very sober, children should study hard and do themselves well.

If you change to another family, only focus on short-term interests, let the child spend too much time on some fame and fortune, may not be as good as later.

Although parents are very busy with work, they will not make a big deal, will find time to accompany their children, teach him to understand politeness, teach him not to be afraid of difficulties, teach him to take the right step, accompany him to exercise, etc., Lang Zheng finally grew up to be a child who loves reading, loves sports, has many friends, and is strong and optimistic.

In fact, parents are very busy for livelihood or career needs, but as long as they have a good educational concept and a clear direction for their children's future, they will educate their children well.

Parents with good family backgrounds tend to be forward-looking, aware of the importance of nurturing their children holistically, and prepared their children at an early age. Now we see many Qingbei top students, not only good grades, but all-round development, many aspects are very advantageous.

Like Gu Yuhan, a classmate of Lang Zheng, he was admitted to Peking University with him. Dad is the director of a well-known local law firm and has a good family. The girl has a wide range of interests and hobbies, piano, dance level 10. Calligraphy and painting and Chinese painting have held solo exhibitions, and they are excellent in all aspects.

Different hobbies seem to be time, but they all promote children's academic performance, physical and mental health to varying degrees, which is extremely beneficial to children's development.

Now going to college is not only a good grade, if you can be prepared in many aspects, children have an advantage, they can also go to a good university.

Now the society needs comprehensive talents, but it is difficult to gain a foothold in society by studying well, and it is also necessary to build children's comprehensive strength.

Parents with good family backgrounds have long been aware of this, so their children's development is so comprehensive.

With a good family background, parents are better equipped to provide better educational resources for their children

The child's own strength is very important, but if there are better educational resources, it is the icing on the cake and allows the child to achieve better development.

Lang Zheng started from kindergarten to an international school, charging more than 20,000 a year, which is not a small expense for ordinary families, and generally chooses to let children go to a public high school, with a tuition fee of more than 2,000 a year.

This is not to say that schools with high fees are necessarily good, and education varies greatly from region to region. However, for the same area, if a school has strong teachers, a more comfortable environment, a better learning atmosphere, a higher promotion rate, and a more comprehensive strength, if there are conditions, combined with their own actual situation, it will definitely be the first choice.

Like Zhou Zhimian, who got the first admission notice from Peking University in Jinan, his mother is a doctor and his family is very good. The high school has always been known for the large number of people who escorted Qingbei, and in 2023, Shandong Province will send a total of 22 people to Qingbei, and their school accounts for 10 people.

This high school also costs more than 20,000 a school year, and if the family income is low, it will not choose to go to this school, and can only compete for a small number of places in the public and more children.

In addition to normal school choices, there are also choices of extracurricular classes and promotion classes, which also require families to have better economic strength.

For example, to take the road of information science Olympiad, good teachers are in first-tier cities, if they do not live in first-tier cities, they have to study abroad, and the travel expenses, accommodation fees, and tuition fees are all big expenses.

This kind of learning can not be done in a year or two, it may take four or five years, and it will cost 100,000 or 80,000. If the child has this strength, but does not have this condition to go out to study, the road will be relatively more tortuous.

Therefore, children with good family backgrounds still have certain advantages in competition.

Cold doors can also produce noble children, and without good substances, they can provide strong spiritual power

After the background of many Qingbei school masters was exposed, the remarks of "it is difficult to get out of the cold door" are very popular, which is also too absolute, and the children of ordinary families are not unable to break this curse, and they also have the opportunity to turn over.

Like Pang Zhongwang, the family conditions can be said to be very poor, his mother is paralyzed, his father is not in good spirits, and he suffered from heart disease when he was a child, but he studied well and was admitted to Tsinghua with a high score of 744.

Looking at his deeds, I can be deeply moved by him. Why is he still so good in such a difficult environment? What I see is a powerful spiritual force.

The mother has not gone to school, but she knows that reading is very important, and no matter how difficult it is at home, she must let her children study, and Pang Zhongwang saw the importance of reading from her mother.

Although life at home is very difficult, but the mother loves to laugh and never transmits pressure to the child, Pang Zhongwang learned to be optimistic and strong, and knows that only by insisting on reading can we change my destiny.

Material lack of spirit to make up, Pang Zhongwang is the spiritual power inherited from his parents, supporting him to walk steadily.

This may be a special example, and I have seen cases that can represent more ordinary children.

Like Zhang Baojia from Pingdu, Shandong, he was admitted to the mathematics department of Peking University, he is a child of an ordinary peasant family and has no conditions to attend cram school, but he especially likes mathematics, and he has full marks in mathematics in the college entrance examination.

Although his parents are not highly educated, they are also influencing him. His father liked Wei Shen and often watched Wei Shen's videos, and he also took Wei Shen as a role model, and wanted to listen to Wei Shen's classes at Peking University, and he really went to the mathematics department of Peking University.

The same spiritual strength he received from his parents, not their inaction.

Therefore, the material conditions are generally not terrible, the spiritual strength can make up for the shortcomings, and the child can also be excellent.

Written at the end: Qingbei admission notices are in place one after another, and the family background of Xueba is exposed, no wonder it can be so good.

From the family background of Tsinghua North University, it can be seen that parents either understand education, or provide educational resource support for their children, or provide spiritual motivation for their children, and one or two of them can make an excellent child. If you don't want to give anything, go with the flow and don't blame your child for being inferior to others and not meeting your expectations.

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