Why don't young people want to have children? Is that also the case?

In the face of the declining birth rate in recent years, I have thought about why this is the result, why young people are reluctant to have children like an appointment, whether it is a personal reason or another reason.

The first is the idea. At present, most of the young people who are suitable for childbearing are post-90s, or even after 95, and most of them are only children, which means that they have grown up alone since childhood, and have not experienced the experience of having multiple siblings in the family, so their personalities are independent, in other words, they are more likely to be self-centered, so they are also easily affected by this concept of fertility, and there is no concept of having multiple children.

The second is stress. Although their parents constantly advise them to have more children, because the elder generation cannot have more children because of family planning, and they know that only one child is lonely, they do not think so, because the pressure that can be seen everywhere at the moment, whether it is employment pressure or economic pressure, is telling them that society is not mixed, and they want money everywhere, so they are deterred in the face of the huge expenditure generated by multiple children.

The third is the relationship between husband and wife. Fertility is always a matter decided by two people, if the couple has a bad relationship, don't talk about fertility, let alone have multiple children. And children are often the touchstone to test the feelings of husband and wife, many couples will have unexpected contradictions because of the arrival of children, so they are reluctant to regenerate, in order to prevent repeating the same mistakes.

Having children is not always a matter for one person, or even for two families. But it is also very difficult to find a like-minded and affectionate other half, which is directly related to whether the population of a family is prosperous or not, and directly affects the population of a country. In my opinion, the relationship between husband and wife is the most direct factor in deciding to have several children, and external factors such as economic pressure will appear to be less fearful in the face of strong couple feelings. It can be seen how important it is to find the right person.

So what about you in front of you, why don't you want to be born?