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Regarding love, men may seem more rational, but if they really have a heart for a woman, they will also become uneasy and vulnerable, afraid of one day losing.
Only men who don't love you will not care about your giving and waiting. As long as he invests in true feelings, then his eyes will only focus on you, and he will not be willing to let you bear any harm.
Like a line from the movie Casablanca:
"There are so many towns in the world, there are so many taverns in the towns, and she came into me."
Loving someone is sometimes the arrangement of fate, so that two people who were originally strangers meet at the right time.
Men who really love you deeply, all they think about is what you like and how to get along to make you happier. He will put your needs first, and the girl who is nourished by love will become very confident and will not suffer from gain and loss.
Some girls, when single, can live a good life in the moment, but once in love, emotions are easy to get out of control. They don't get the nourishment of happiness in their partners, but they just hate it.
Slowly, they become less confident and love is particularly humble.
When you meet the wrong person, you will not only lose your cute side, but also fall into pain. But beautiful love will not let you lose your original background.
Whether a man is worth your efforts can be seen from the details.
Manage feelings, if men will do this to you, not like you, but treat you as the love of this life, girls must understand as soon as possible.
01: Willing to become more motivated for you, hoping to give you happiness
True love is very expensive, men need to take on more financial pressure, after all, love you will really want to marry you, and marriage requires a certain economic foundation, which is completely different from love.
In life, a relationship cannot go on, sometimes it is not because of lack of love, but because of lack of money. Although money is not omnipotent, it can give two people who love each other more courage to face life.
So during the relationship, if a man stops living aimless days like before because you become more motivated, then he doesn't just like you, but treats you as a lover in this life.
Only a man who has an iron heart to marry you will change sincerely and willingly for you.
In the past, there was not much pressure and I did not think about the future too long, but after meeting true love, I suddenly had a sense of responsibility.
This is the most direct change in him, and the most direct proof of treating you as a lover.
02: Know how to hurt you, do not want you to work too hard or be hurt
In this world, not all love can get a good response. Some girls have sacrificed a lot for love, but the other party is not touched at all, and does not know how to cherish.
Most of these men don't love you.
Duras once said: "A man who loves you will have pity in his eyes, and if he does not love, there will only be desire." ”
If the other party knows how to hurt you and does not want you to be hurt, then it means that you love the right person. When together, he doesn't just think about his own feelings and needs, but can see your uneasiness.
When you feel helpless, he will be by your side to help you solve problems together; when you encounter a low point in life, he will hurt your persistence and give you a strong reliance; when you feel fear in your heart, he will also give you the security you need.
Men who know how to hurt you are not like you, but regard you as the love of this life. If you meet such a man, you must grasp happiness.
Because heartache is mutual, a truly sweet love, it is not enough for only one person to work hard.
The world is so vast, that person has crossed thousands of mountains and rivers to come to your side, he cares so much about you, I hope you don't live up to his love.
03: Willing to keep a distance between you and the opposite sex, can't bear to make you jealous and uneasy
Singer Rainie Yang once said in a love variety show that the reason why she was sure that she loved the right person was because during the love period, the other party almost never let her eat vinegar.
Some boys in life, even if they are in a relationship with you, they will still have many friends of the opposite sex around them.
When you're with them, men with poor character hardly consider your feelings. He will even eat alone with other girls, and even if you are angry about it, he will only make excuses for himself.
But the man who truly loves you can't bear to make you feel wronged and sad.
If boys are willing to keep their distance from the opposite sex for you, then instead of liking you, they treat you as the only one. Even if he has many good conditions around him, your existence is the most unique.
In heterosexual interactions, men treat you like the above, not like you, but treat you as a lover in this life.
I have seen a passage like this:
"To love someone is to always feel sorry for her." Seeing her cry, his heart was like a pinprick, and seeing her laughing, his heart was like a flower. In love, everyone has their own fatal weaknesses. ”
I hope that every girl can meet a partner who treats you like this, and together they will infiltrate love into the details of their lives and live happily through this life.
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