What is it like to have all three women in the family divorced?
To say that the TV series with a relatively high degree of discussion recently is the TV series "Xiao Minjia" starring Zhou Xun and Huang Lei.
Tv series with the themes of "family" and "ethics", "Xiao Min Family" just started around the topic of "divorce".
The heroine of this drama, Liu Xiaomin, has been divorced from her husband Jin Bo for many years and came to Beijing alone to work hard.
After Wang Sumin and Liu Xiaomin's son Jin Jiajun came to Liu Xiaomin's side, a series of events began to occur.
Wang Sumin chose divorce very early, and in the era when the generation "would rather not divorce", Wang Sumin's choice was very "avant-garde".
The reason why Liu Xiaomin divorced is inseparable from the Incident of Teacher Su that year.
However, Tang Yixin's "younger sister" Liu Xiaojie, the role also quickly said that he had divorced.
From flash marriage to flash divorce, Liu Xiaojie's marriage is like a "child's play".
After seeing Liu Xiaojie's ex-husband, the audience instantly understood and understood why Liu Xiaojie wanted to divorce.
This is all because Liu Xiaojie's ex-husband is a "ma bao man".
Don't marry Ma Bao Man? "Xiao Min Family" Liu Xiaojie's divorce is a living example.
How terrible is Ma Bao Man? Being entangled by the "former" in-laws can be said to be very suffocating.
Next, let's talk about the marriage of "Liu Xiaojie" and see the terrible point of "Ma Bao Man".
01 Unhappy marriage
In "Xiao Min Family", when Liu Xiaojie's mother Wang Sumin educated Liu Xiaojie, it is not difficult for us to know that Liu Xiaojie is a "flash marriage".
In this day and age, "flash marriage" seems to have become a perfectly normal thing.
But there are also many newlyweds, because they don't know enough before marriage, and finally choose to "slip away" and resume single life.
Liu Xiaojie is one of them.
But although Liu Xiaojie chose to "flash marriage", this marriage is naturally not just a play, Liu Xiaojie also had love for her ex-husband Tong Bing.
It was only because of the intervention of the in-laws' family and Tong Bing's disregard that the marriage came to an end.
Recalling the past, Liu Xiaojie also shed tears of sadness.
From the dialogue between Liu Xiaojie and Tong Bing, we can find that this marriage is very unfortunate.
Tong Bing, who only cared about playing the game, did not pay attention to Liu Xiaojie, and never cared about Liu Xiaojie's feelings.
Liu Xiaojie was ignored and chose to leave home, but Tong Bing only cared about himself and returned to his family and his mother.
Tong Bing regards "games" as the most important thing, even his daughter-in-law is not comparable, and the collection of private money is also to buy equipment.
Such a marriage is bound to be unacceptable to Liu Xiaojie, who has a straightforward personality.
In the end, the two divorced, but although after the divorce, Tong Bing was still entangled with Liu Xiaojie, but it was not because of the emotional relationship.
It's because of "money."
02 "My mom" said
What kind of characteristics does "Ma Bao Man" have?
This kind of person often blurts out the first sentence, which is "my mother said."
For Tong Bing, everything his mother said was right.
After Tong Bing and Liu Xiaojie divorced, both sides signed a divorce agreement, but Tong Bing still ran to Liu Xiaojie's home, found his own private money and took it away.
This is not the method that Tong Bing thought, but was instigated by his mother, and it is obvious that Tong Bing's mother believes that money cannot be given to his daughter-in-law.
After the divorce, the mother took Tong Bing to the door to find the private money, and what is even more unacceptable is that Tong Bing's mother also privately equipped with a key.
It is no wonder that the speechless Liu Xiaojie was persuaded by the staff when he was divorced, but Liu Xiaojie said that there were people outside Tong Bing.
The "someone" here does not refer to a third party, but Liu Xiaojie pointed out that Tong Bing's family and relatives manage too much.
What made Liu Xiaojie most angry was that Tong Bing approved of his mother's approach and came to ask Liu Xiaojie for money.
Tong Bing said "my mother said" one by one, recognizing his mother's behavior.
Although he was indoctrinated by his mother with various ideas of guarding against his wife, Tong Bing did not oppose it half a point.
It can be seen that Tong Bing has already been "brainwashed" by his mother.
To put it simply, in Tong Bing's thoughts, Tong Bing believes that "mother is always right" rule.
Under his mother's "education", Tong Bing once again found Liu Xiaojie, bluntly said that the house price increased, and asked Liu Xiaojie to pay a little more "divorce fees".
However, Liu Xiaojie bluntly said that the original divorce agreement had been signed, and Tong Bing's move was obviously unreasonable.
In order to be able to make friends with his mother, Tong Bing began to calculate the past expenses for Liu Xiaojie, shopping for dinner and sending gifts.
This man with such a cheeky face is simply numbing.
The most important thing is that Tong Bing does not feel that he is wrong, and Liu Xiaojie should give himself money.
For Tong Bing, asking Liu Xiaojie for money is just a task assigned to him by his mother, and he can make a difference after he gets the money.
03 Marriage
Why is it said that in terms of marriage, don't marry a mother and a man when you marry someone? Liu Xiaojie is a living example.
Liu Xiaojie and Tong Bing were originally married, which belonged to the "flash marriage".
It is precisely because the two do not know each other well, do not understand the families of both parties well, resulting in the end of divorce.
Although the two divorced, Tong Bing's mother did not intend to "let go" of Liu Xiaojie.
Tong Bing's mother, who is meticulous, "fights" for various expenses for her son, just to prevent Liu Xiaojie from taking advantage of half a point.
Tong Bing, who has no opinion, everything is at the mercy of his mother, and the marriage is not happy.
From the beginning when Tong Bing's mother taught her son not to trust her daughter-in-law, the "trust" between husband and wife has collapsed.
After the divorce, Tong Bing also pestered Liu Xiaojie in various ways, and all kinds of absurd reasons were simply suffocating.
Therefore, Liu Xiaojie's mother, Wang Sumin, hopes that Liu Xiaojie can get along with each other and understand each other before marriage in the future, and then make a decision.
04 Theme
As a popular drama of family ethics, "Xiao Min Jia" actually has a lot to learn from the audience.
We are always urged to marry by our parents, but we are not willing to settle down, so in the vast sea of people, we are still alone.
Isn't Liu Xiaojie's "flash marriage" not understanding each other and eventually falling to the point of divorce?
What the audience likes more is that a mother like Wang Sumin, although good-looking but open-minded, did not let Liu Xiaojie hurry to remarry.
Who says TV dramas don't have educational significance? "Little Minjia" seems to be a TV series, but it is actually a real mirror that reflects the state of the world.
If you want to get married and enter the palace of marriage, couples still have to polish their eyes.
Marriage has never been a matter of two people, but of two families.
Before getting married, it is very necessary to understand the families of both parties.
Because what you don't know is whether you will meet an in-laws like "Tong Bing" after marriage.