Recently, Azure became obsessed with the TV series "Little Minjia".
There are several main reasons for liking it:
First, it tells about the marriage and life of middle-aged people. Moreover, as always, it continues the real pyrotechnic smell of Huang Lei in the "small series". Whether it is acting or plot, it is remarkable, very grounded, making people feel fresh and beautiful, but not far away.
Compared with those painstaking, hard-pulling and pulling beautiful girls to fall in love with uncles, arranging overbearing presidents to fall in love with small fresh meat, or full of bizarre, dreamy, and crossed bubble dramas, it can give people a sense of reality walking in the depths of life, let people have more sense of substitution, and harvest full of life experience.
Second, the drama almost perfectly integrates the current series of socially sensitive hot topics. Such as: divorce, remarriage, middle age, flash marriage, spare tire, ex-husband, ex-wife, entrepreneurship, north drift, pension, ma bao male, PUA, original family, extramarital children, etc.
Third, every man in the play has a prominent personality, typical roles, and distinct personalities, which can be said to be several cases of men in modern marriage.
So, in today's article, I want to focus on these men, strictly speaking, the 5 men of "Xiao MinJia": Chen Zhuo, Jin Bo, Tong Bing, Xu Zheng and Qian Feng. Even, in its typical sense, these 5 men are enough to be enough for men in the encyclopedia of modern marriage.
1. Liu Xiaomin's current: Chen Zhuo
First of all, let's talk about the male number one in the play, Chen Zhuo, starring my wife's favorite male star Huang Lei.
Chen Zhuo, although he is divorced in middle age and has not achieved great achievements in his career, is a very good man in the comprehensive evaluation, and he is also the kind of man that countless modern urban women can easily like.
Why? Because, as his name suggests, lao cheng (Chen), but not losing excellence.
There is no doubt that he is a particularly intelligent man. First of all, after divorcing his ex-wife, he never denigrated his mother in front of his daughter, raised her daughter to be very sound, and the parent-child relationship was not greatly affected by the divorce.
Secondly, in dealing with the relationship between his ex-wife and Liu Xiaomin, as well as his own relationship with Liu Xiaomin, including his daughter's relationship with Jin Jiajun, although he was a little panicked, he could always take advantage of the situation, go with the flow, and never force it.
But if we taste it in detail, it is not difficult to find that he is not so much smart as he has a pattern and grounding.
However, the reason why women like men like Chen Zhuo is certainly not only this one reason. Because, in this world, there has never been a shortage of smart men, but the difficulty is difficult, how can we make such a smart, let people feel real, grounded, and can be directly transformed into a small joy, a small freshness and a small happiness in life?
Here, Chen Zhuo gave the answers that women wanted. That is, a man's intelligence, only based on truthfulness, warmth, open-mindedness, humor, thought and sense of responsibility, can bring women the sense of security and belonging they really want.
It is precisely because Chen Zhuo has this series of particularly valuable advantages, so he can reach middle age, fat but not greasy, always maintain enthusiasm for life, and has the enthusiasm for entrepreneurship and intimate buddies, and smart and healthy love for his girlfriend.
Even Liu Xiaomin, who has suffered great emotional injuries, has a particularly rational and calm personality, and at the same time has some cleanliness, also regards him as a savior, and even can't stop him.
Therefore, a man like Chen Zhuo, although his age, appearance and wealth are not online, he will become the white moonlight in the hearts of countless married women and middle-aged women because of his true and grounded intelligence, warmth and pattern.
2. Liu Xiaomin's ex-husband: Jin Bo
If Chen Zhuo is the representative of a good ex-husband, a good father, a good son, and a good boyfriend, then Xiaomin's ex-husband, Jin Bo, is definitely a representative of a bad ex-husband, a bad father, a contrarian son, and a bad man.
Because, every time he appears, almost every time he appears, almost everyone around him will instantly fall into "panic", only Chen Tianfu, Chen Zhuo's father, who is similar to his smell, three marriages and three divorces, regards him as a fragrant feast.
So, what kind of man is he? He, drunk, in debt, rogue, good to eat and lazy, self-cooked, low self-esteem personality, the first half of his life to pit his parents, and then to pit his son to pit his ex-wife.
Therefore, Jin Bo, who has slagged out of a new height, in order to escape foreign debts, especially sent daily necessities to his son from Jiujiang. After settling down in Beijing, he continued to use various low-level routines to make up endless excuses to let his son, who was about to take the college entrance examination, help him work to pay off his debts.
Then, after paying off his debts, he made all kinds of troubles, the lights were dark under his feet, he wanted to get close to and please his ex-wife and his ex-mother-in-law, and he did not leave his ex-wife's house, and even sought to reunite with his ex-wife by any means.
It can be said that the role of Jin Bo, in addition to not cheating and no domestic violence, almost covers the modern women in the current era, who are in marital anxiety, and even have more imaginations about ex-husbands and exs.
3. Liu Xiaojie's ex-husband: Tong Bing
Frankly, the role of Tong Bing made my family leader sick for a long time, and the Internet was also a crusade. Why is this man so annoying?
The reason is very simple, on the surface a docile, but in fact is a proper Ma Bao male, but also "Ma Bao" out of a new height, "Ma Bao" especially do not face, have to let people three views destroyed!
According to the agreement between the two sides, the house where they got married was originally owned by Liu Xiaojie, but one day, Tong Bing suddenly took his mother to Liu Xiaojie's house and claimed to get his things back. Liu Xiaojie was blindfolded, thinking that he could finally take things away, but he didn't think that Tong Bing was churning, and he really found a lot of "his own things" - the renminbi hidden in the corner and falling to count.
Moreover, what is particularly comedic is that Tong Bing is still looking for it, and his mother is still proudly showing off: "Fortunately, I taught him to keep a hand."
Moreover, there is even more excessive, after finding out all the private money, Tong Bing's mother asked Liu Xiaojie for the ring she gave her when she got married, on the grounds that "the ring is passed down from home to the daughter-in-law."
Thus, the stem about the ring when they were married also surfaced. It turned out that when he got married, Tong Bing did not want to buy a new ring for Liu Xiaojie, so he took an old gold ring from his mother and gave it to her. Now divorced, on the grounds of family heirloom, he asked Liu Xiaojie to go back. In fact, it is just an ordinary gold ring.
In addition, what is even more bizarre is that after their divorce, Tong Bing also came to Liu Xiaojie to ask for money, on the grounds that the price of the house had risen, and Liu Xiaojie wanted to make up the difference in price for him! Nakedly, treat divorce as financial management!
In short, the role of Tong Bing, almost the legendary role of the mother, the search, and the man who is not honest about marriage, can also be regarded as a new height, which greatly satisfies the emotional needs of female compatriots who have to "hate" their ex-wives and ex-mothers-in-law.
4, Liu Xiaojie's side of the PUA man: Xu Zheng
Frankly, in the whole play, what makes me feel the most embarrassed is this character.
Because, he is a typical PUA man. Not only is it more embarrassing than Jinbo, but it is also more embarrassing than Jinbo.
In addition, he is also scheming, frivolous, narrow-minded, controlling, poor self-control, and even domestic violence, which is almost a copy of "not talking to strangers".
It can be said that Liu Xiaojie's hasty second marriage is tantamount to sharing a bed with the "devil"!
But when watching this TV series, I don't think that the role of Xu Zheng is exaggerated. Because, in our real life, a man like Xu Zheng can be described as a big catch.
After a little analysis, it is not difficult for us to find out, what makes a scumbag like Xu Zheng? I think it was his parents, his original family, the superior life of his family that had been dressed for a long time to stretch out his hands and eat, the smooth sailing of his previous twenty years, the bottomless pampering and tolerance of his parents, and his appearance and Kochi.
At the same time, he is also a freak caused by the bad atmosphere of modern society, people worship gold and judge people by appearance, and react frivolously to marriage.
For such a man, I only have one sentence: who meets, who is unlucky, and will pour eight lifetimes of blood mold!
5, Liu Xiaojie's spare tire: Qian Feng
I have to say that in the whole drama, in addition to Chen Zhuo, Qian Feng is one of my favorite characters. And, I believe my feelings are basically representative of the vast majority of men and almost all women.
Why? Because Qian Feng has the following characteristics:
First, warm and considerate and dedicated;
Second, shy humor and talent;
Third, there is a popularity for people who are down-to-earth and hardworking;
Fourth, home is practical and affordable.
Even, in my personal words with a little personal emotional color, this child, in addition to his average appearance (a broadband face), has no money for the time being, how do I see how he is pleasing to the eye.
Or, if I were a woman, I would still prefer this kind of affordable man.
Why? Because, when a woman marries such a man, her future life will certainly not be bad. You think, Qian Feng, is a down-to-earth and warm, both financial and talented Taurus man. Such a man, not to say that he has made a fortune, is absolutely well-off.
And more crucially, he is particularly dedicated and can't hold his breath, otherwise he can't do the golden spare tire behind Liu Xiaojie that has been like a day for more than ten years.
Who will be the one who will accompany you to the end? Qian Feng did it! Although he was scarred and even a little silly, this was the best manifestation of a man's deep love for a woman.
Because marriage is not to change each other, but to accept, tolerate and wait, is to hope to bring happiness and happiness to each other, this is the greatest meaning of loving someone and getting married.