Text: Guardian of emotions
Use the simplest words to write about the warmth and cold of the world and heal the lonely heart.
The more you care about a person, the more you will take into account that person's emotions, and the more afraid you are of leaving a bad impression.
When getting along with the sexes, it is very careful, whether it is said or done, it will be considered in many ways, and things that may bring harm to the other party will not be done.
Worried that the other party has discomfort, deliberately pulling the distance, so the most important thing is what the other party has experienced.
Really like, not fresh, a moment of liking, will not be just superficial concern, in other words, not only with the mouth, there is practical action.
I have determined that I like each other the most, I want to live with each other the most, and everything I do for each other is willing, and I will not often talk about these things.
People who like you will always pay attention to you, but not necessarily pursue you like crazy and do a lot of things you can't think of.
You must know that the reason why he does not stalk you and say that he likes you and will not give up on you is that he does not want to affect your life.
It is precisely because you have thought about empathy, so you will not confess frequently, and it will not make you feel bored.
When a man gives you care, security, and gives you the courage to keep moving forward, never wanting to stay where you are, or taking a step backwards, it means that you have met someone who likes you and is being protected by him.
In real life, whether you are remembered and cared for, and whose mood will be affected by your every move, the details will tell you the answer.
Be good at observation, pay more attention to details, understand and tolerate, there will be no misunderstanding, will not miss the people who treat you sincerely and have planned the future.
When dealing with the opposite sex, you will find that men are emotional about you, but they will not look for you frequently.
Because I like it, I am afraid of disturbing you
People who open their mouths and shut up and say "I like you" don't necessarily really like you, and they don't necessarily be loyal to you after determining a relationship.
In this world, there are many people who are like this: when they meet for the first time, they have a good feeling, but they are not interested after contact, and they do not plan to come together.
That is to say, there will be many people who will say to you, "You are my ideal type, and I would like to develop further with you", but only a few people can always accompany you.
Without liking to a certain extent, it is impossible not to leave, leaving is sooner or later.
A person who is full of eyes full of you will never leave you easily, has secretly vowed to guard you for a lifetime, and will care more about you and take more care of you.
The more you like it, the more you want to be emotionally stable, the more you will not confess to you more often, and you will not tell the people next to you that you will soon be together or are in love.
Like you, afraid of actions, words to cause you to resent, do not want to communicate with him again, so most of the time is silently accompanied, rather than pressure on you, so that you must make a choice.
Because I like it, I am afraid of being rejected
People who don't really look at you are often very selfish, don't think about you before speaking, don't think of you before doing anything, and in short, won't protect you thoroughly.
With someone who has never been in love with you, there are these feelings: very little presence, not real happiness, just a pastime.
Miyazaki once said: "Happiness is as long as you hold hands with the right hand, even if you lose your sense of direction, you still won't be afraid." ”
Not loved, not noticed, insecure, not feeling like you've found the right person, not confident in the way ahead, always feeling like it won't last.
Not having feelings for you, and someone who loves you deeply, will make you feel that their attitude towards you is significantly different.
How important you are, how much you care about your evaluation, before doing something, you will first test, rather than how you want to do.
Because I like it, I keep it silent
As the saying goes: "The real can't be fake, the fake can't be true." ”
I don't like you, I won't be responsible for you, I don't want to give you precious things, and when I get along with him, I can clearly see that he is very reluctant to you.
Stinginess and calculation are typical signs of no interest.
And the person who treats you wholeheartedly, completely treats you as his own person, wants to give you happiness, and shares a small family with you, and is together all his life.
When the opposite sex is getting along, the man is hot and cold to you, and many things are not willing to give you, so you have to realize that he doesn't like you at all, and contacting you is just a pastime.
No matter when, the moment you turn around, you can see the other person's appearance, you can hear the sentence "I have been", you can be sure that he is sincere to you, not a joke.
The fact that a man doesn't look for you much doesn't mean he doesn't have an idea about you, and every time you're helpless you can find him and be protected by him, it means he's identified with you.
Emotional Message:
Crazy pursuit, not necessarily the heart and lungs.
People who only pursue you for a while and give up on you quickly do not feel the truth about you, and those love words said before are false, in order to deceive you.
If you don't insist on it, you don't like it enough, and you don't plan in your own life.
You have to be clear that a person who likes you may not act so strongly, but he will always be at your side and give you a lot of warmth.
Infrequent pursuit, infrequent appearance, does not mean that you do not really like.
When a person has too much contact with you and feels that the relationship is a little delicate, it is necessary to think that he may like you, and pay more attention to him when getting along.
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Author: A senior mentor who accompanies books, writes for fun, freelance writer, and helps countless people get out of emotional difficulties.