The back of the photo written to Hu Lancheng is written Zhang Ailing's words, which has touched many people, especially women in love, often comparing themselves and comforting themselves, talented women are also the same as ordinary women
"When I met him, she became very, very low, low to the dust
But her heart was fond of it, blossoming from the dust
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Zhang Xiaoxian: Like a person, very happy together; Love someone
Even if you are not happy, you want to be together
But women, if a love can't make you climb high, if the man you love will hurt you, suppress you, make you humble and have no dignity then, no matter how much you love, if there are the following points, I still recommend you stop the loss in time
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Men who don't respect your family are not going to respect you
When her cousin Peach was 21 years old, she brought her boyfriend from out of town to work
It was also Peach's boss at that time, we saw that her boyfriend was good-looking, well-dressed, and he drove a good car, so I was happy for Peach
However, at the dinner table, Peach's boyfriend seems to look down on Peach's parents a little, and even shows disgust for Peach's grandmother
I admit that we rural people are not so particular and their hygiene habits are not very good
But Peach's parents killed the best chicken in the family and bought the most expensive liquor in the shops in town
But Peach's boyfriend just took a sip, said that the taste was not right, unceremoniously poured the cup, peach's mother moved her hands and feet on her boyfriend, the boyfriend also looked displeased with Peach's boyfriend hated her runny nose
Later, Peach's mother objected to Peach being with the man, but Peach felt that he was really good to himself, married and lived with him, and it was just a New Year's Eve when he came home, which was no big deal
Peach and the man divorced less than three years later learned that the man looked down on Peach's family and Peaches had low education, grew up in the countryside (men are also in the country), and suspected that the dowry was small
In short, a man who looks down on his family cannot make people look up to him
When you meet such a man, it is better to leave quickly
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Men who borrow money from women can't come up with better skills
Colleague Xiao Li is 34 years old this year, although the salary is not bad, but he can earn about 10,000 yuan a month, but because of the compulsory savings for several years, and he is very good at financial management, he has hundreds of thousands of large deposits on hand
Last year, Xiao Li Jingren introduced Zhao Sheng, who was doing business, to say that Zhao Sheng's conditions in all aspects were still good, he bought a house in the city, the car he drove at hand was at least 500,000 or more, and he dressed up five or six people, and the shot was also very luxurious, and Sister Li soon fell in love
It should be said that Zhao Sheng was very kind to Sister Li at the beginning and invited Miss Li to eat steak in a high-end restaurant, buy her shoes and jewelry, surprise her from time to time, send flowers and gifts Soon after, Sister Li fell and lived with Zhao Sheng
It was not until the two lived together that Sister Li found that although Zhao Sheng had a large hand, he did not have any money in hand, and after often overdrawing the credit card, the expenses of the family were paid by Sister Li and Zhao Sheng sometimes asked Sister Li to take money, and every time he said "borrow", but he never repaid it once
After living together for half a year, Zhao Sheng asked Sister Li to "borrow" 350,000 yuan, because there was no IOU, and Sister Li could only suffer losses in the end
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The funny thing is that less than a month after Sister Li and Zhao Sheng broke up, they actually saw Zhao Sheng holding a beautiful girl in the mall and picking out necklaces for others
Shimizu Conclusion: The really beautiful feeling is that two people respect each other and recognize each other, rather than one party is on top and the other party is wronged and perfect
Two people together should always be equal, rely on each other, need each other, and keep an appropriate distance
As Jane Eiri said, love is a game, and if you don't often equalize with each other, you can't last long because too strong opponents will be tired, and too weak opponents will be tired
Remember, no matter how much a woman loves the man in love, as long as the other party does not respect your family, she will immediately say that you will stop in time to lend you money, stop the loss in time, love is not a matter of course for one party to pay, the other party to take for granted, but two people have a business to discuss together, work together to live a good life
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