When I was a child, I knew nothing, but I was honest with each other; when I grew up, I practiced both in Germany and the United States, but I was pregnant with a ghost fetus.
In a good relationship, the most important thing is to be honest with each other. Explain their own experiences and situations in a timely manner, and extinguish the fuse of contradictions so as not to cause greater consequences.
Changsha takeaway brother wants to have a home, have a wife who shares happiness and hardships, and desperately delivers takeaways to earn money. The wedding night, which should have been happy and happy, did not expect to discover a shocking secret.
1. Save money to get married
The children of the poor have long been in charge, and three generations of Jiang Wei's (pseudonym) family have lived in a house of less than 60 square meters, and the quality of life is not very good.
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After graduating from high school, Jiang Wei came out to work, not afraid of hardship, willing to do any dirty work, and do whatever he earns more money. Every day, I get up early to deliver takeaways, and the money I earn is not willing to spend a penny, so I save it with thrift, just to marry a wife.
Knowing that it would be difficult to attract girls based on his family's financial means, he bought a new car to improve his competitiveness.
This trick really worked, and soon, he met Xiao Yan, a kindergarten teacher working in the kindergarten, a young and beautiful woman, and slowly walked into his life and into his heart.
In his view, Xiao Yan, whether it is appearance, character, or work, is very in line with her own requirements and aesthetic points.
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And Xiao Yan also had a strong good feeling for this mature and stable person who drove a new car, and the two hit it off and talked about love.
Not long after, the two talked about marriage and got married.
Jiang Wei thought in his heart that he was 12 years older than Xiao Yan, and he had wronged her, and he could not let her suffer losses in terms of dowry, so when Xiao Yan proposed to ask for a dowry of 330,000 yuan, he did not hesitate to agree.
I thought that a happy life would begin, but one thing discovered on the wedding night made Jiang Wei feel like a fish in his throat.
2, home "crack"
The surface of the water that seems to be calm and calm, but there are hidden waves.
The wedding night should have been happy and happy, but the beautiful scene was shattered by a striking knife scar.
Looking at the girl he cherished and loved in front of him, staring at the long knife scar and crooked stretch marks on his stomach, Mr. Jiang's heart collapsed.
He couldn't believe that this was the wife he had spent half his life savings on and marrying back to spend his life with. She has always claimed to be single before, how many secrets are hidden under the appearance of kindness and innocence?
He didn't want to think of his wife too badly, but the truth was so cruelly laid out before him. The hardships of life from childhood and the difficulties he experienced in society never crushed him, and this woman who held himself in the palm of his hand and hoped to care for and take care of her all her life had crushed his dreams hard.
Returning to God, he could not accept this fact, and coordinated with Xiao Yan's family to demand that all the dowry of 338,000 yuan be returned, and this matter ended here.
For the divorce, Xiao Yan's family agreed. However, when it comes to returning all the dowry money, it means that only 28,000 can be refunded.
The two began to argue about the dowry money, Xiao Yan felt that in this era, who still begged was the perfect body, and his youth could not be given to him in vain, Mr. Jiang said that he really did not change his true heart, and his heart was deceived, which was not conducive to marrying and having children later.
The argument did not reach a satisfactory result, and the two broke up unhappily.
In fact, the root cause of the marriage of two people to perish is that they have not completely confessed their past experiences, followed by one who maintains the most beautiful expectations and expectations for marriage, believes in each other's loyalty, and the other feels that marriage is just that, and the conditions of both parties match.
Write at the end:
In today's romantic relationships, when we pay attention to the external appearance of others, we must also pay more attention to people's internal qualities and past experiences. You can't follow the five senses with three views, and if you think that this person looks good, you will think that it is him, so you must be with him.
Be rational, put aside filters, and polish your eyes to see if the person is reliable.
In addition, in the process of changing from a romantic relationship to a marriage relationship, both parties should be honest about their experiences and past, understand each other more deeply, and then consider whether to go to marriage.
Do you have anything to say to Xiao Yan, who concealed the fact that she was pregnant?