After talking about college entrance examination students, today I want to talk about another group, the emotional problems of the 80s, in my astrology for so long, the proportion of emotional counseling problems, generally divided like this, the 00s are consulting peach blossoms, often wish to talk about a vigorous love to not waste this life, the 90s are consulting the right relationship, because many of them have run to three, are the age to get married, can not find a too suitable spouse, so they and their families are very anxious, and the post-80s people, often in the consultation for divorce, They are tired of this kind of chicken and dog life, and hope that through counseling they can find a new direction for their chicken feather.
Recently, there was such a case consultation, the protagonist is called Elsa, she has been married for 5 years now, raised two children, and the current husband has known each other for about 10 years, but she is not consulting her husband, but another boy, this boy is about 6 years younger than Elsa, the two people know each other, quite similar, so they chatted, he knows her hobbies, knows the stars she likes, the dances she likes, and she understands his ball game, understands the trendy shoe culture he likes, and understands that he loves sports stars , both of them felt that they had met their soul mate, and soon the boy confessed to her, she told her that he already had a family and was married, the boy was shocked, and after thinking carefully for a week, he confessed to her cautiously, saying that he still wanted to try it and asked her if she agreed.
Aisha is very afraid, she feels happy on the one hand, but also afraid of being known by her current being, she repeatedly stressed to me, she just feels that in the boring life, he is very happy to have a friend who understands him, maybe in the process of getting along, she has done something wrong to cross the line, she doesn't know if she likes him, but she clearly knows that she can't like him. Her current husband, no great achievements, no great deals, just as ordinary as hundreds of millions of families in the world, and because of the ordinary for a long time, her heart jumped to try, thinking that she could also try love. So she found me and wanted to see her [getting along] with this boy, to see if she really needed it, she could try, if the combination was not good, she broke her mind.
I showed them [Get along and get along], carefully compared the long-term relationship line of the two people, unexpectedly, this boy really has a bit of her follow-up partner, the relationship between the two is very stretched, it can be said that as long as she agrees to this boy dating, the two sides are involved for a few years is no problem, as for whether to get married, it also depends on how the two people run in later.
So, the problem came, Elsa didn't know how to choose. She and the current husband, also acquaintance and acquaintance all the way, the two are husband and wife, but also friends, sometimes relatives, sometimes partners, but she has always felt that between the two people, there is no love, she feels that there is no passion, nor the sense of impulse that is heartbeat, which is why she is so excited when she meets this boy.
Elsa's situation is also the situation of many post-80s girls (Aisha is also a post-80s girl), to say that the post-80s era, is really a very chaotic era, this era is just in the tail of the 70s, and in front of the 90s, and the post-80s era, they accepted the ideas of the post-70s and even the post-60s, and received some relatively trendy views of the post-90s, in the era when the post-80s became the main force, the information alternation was very chaotic, and the computer was just popularized, Sudden new information is constantly impacting old information, so many post-80s in the matter of marriage and love, many people are confused,
At the age of about to get married, parents began to urge marriage, instilling "marrying a man and marrying a man dressing and eating", "women are not easy to find after they are 25 years old, so they should get married quickly before the age of 25", "those who do not marry at the age of 25 are leftover women" and so on, at the same time the information age is coming, the rise of computers, a large amount of new information mixed in these old concepts, so the current situation is formed---- they obey their parents to get married, but they are not willing to get married
And when the time is pushed to the present, there is the group of "Elsa", the flame they converge in married life, easily ignited by a person who knows her and understands her, some can't withstand the temptation, some choose the family, and some are caught in the middle.
So what should these people do?
From an astrological point of view, my suggestion is more to look at her own emotional development in the future, whether she will have a marriage in the future, will there be a long-term relationship line, and how many marriages will there be in her life? What is the recent marriage situation, if she only has one marriage luck in her life, then this person should be a passerby, don't disrupt the main line of your life, if there is still a marriage, and you really like this person, then I think you might as well give it a try. This is what the [Marriage Natal Chart] can read.
And I finally suggested that Elsa read this content
Eggshell said: Everyone is an independent individual, and how to choose this road of life will have regrets, in this case, to experience different things, meet different people, is also a good choice, provided that you yourself are willing, to be willing.