Recently, a report of a Hubei girl running away from marriage and running away from home for four years to sleep in the cemetery has been on the hot search, and netizens have ridiculed marriage as more terrible than the cemetery.
Someone said: "The marriage arranged by parents for their daughters often only values the bride price." As for the happiness of the daughter? It's a matter of opinion. ”
In Dongguan City, Guangdong Province, a young woman from Hubei Province wanders the streets and sleeps by the cemetery. According to volunteers, the Hubei woman refused the marriage arranged by her parents and ran away from home for more than four years, unwilling to recognize her father.
After four years away from home, he was still grumpy about his parents and was unwilling to recognize them, which shows the depth of prejudices and contradictions between father and daughter. But on the other hand, when parents hear the news of their children, they work tirelessly and travel thousands of miles to recognize each other, and during the period when the children are missing, they spend a lot of money to find them, indicating that the parents' love for their children is from the heart and from the heart.
The gray-haired man burst into tears and excitedly said to his daughter: "Dad has been looking for you, but there has been no news of you. ”
Listening to her father's words, the woman lowered her head and stared at the ground, her hands clutching her thighs tightly, and her body trembled slightly. The woman's heart longs to recognize her father, whom she has not seen for many years, but her body resists hugging her father.
Unwilling to accept the marriage arranged by the parents, this can be understood, how to know that the parents will not be happy if they find it. If you find it yourself, you must guarantee 100% happiness, marry away, once gave up everything for love, and finally end up failing.
Marriage itself is a gamble, after all, parents have experienced, dare not say how much experience, at least the basic criteria for distinguishing between good and bad and happy or unhappy, but children, unless experienced, do not know right and wrong, understand the trade-offs.
On the other hand, whether it is arranged by the parents or talked about by themselves, as long as there is no smoothness, the first thing to worry about is definitely the parents, and the children can talk to the parents, or even complain, but the parents can only accept silently, find a way to deal with it well, and handle it properly.
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