Yishu wrote in "City Story", men, when you ask a woman to be like a woman, ask yourself how many images of men there are.
In a marriage, if the man is not like a man and the woman is not like a woman, then the relationship will be completely messed up. Because the husband and wife do not perform their respective duties, then there will inevitably be many contradictions and disputes between each other.
This is especially true in second-year marriages. Both parties are pregnant with ghosts and have their own selfish intentions, so the chances of husband and wife being able to concentrically are even lower.
01. The second-married husband refuses to get a salary card
Mo Ting, who has only been divorced for more than a year, has to agree to a blind date with the object introduced by her parents under the threat of her parents' tears. The object is also divorced, with a son. When Mo Ting divorced, the child was snatched away by her ex-husband, and she was given a house.
Mo Ting once thought about not getting married again, and it was good to guard a house alone. However, her parents could not see her decadent and lonely appearance all day, and insisted that Mo Ting find a suitable partner to marry.
Mo Ting had no choice but to hurry up and marry her second husband, who had a slight liking. Before getting married, the husband promised to take good care of the child, and the child did not need Mo Ting's belt and handed it over to his parents to bring. Mo Ting believed it to be true and agreed to the marriage.
As a result, only three months after remarrying, the husband made an excuse to take his son back, saying that his parents were old and could not move a 6-year-old boy. The husband said so, And Mo Ting had no choice but to accept her stepson.
Just one more stepson, Mo Ting's life, there are still great changes. Three meals a day, she had to take care of her stepson's tastes and preferences. The stepson is the only son in the family, spoiled by her husband and his ex-wife and in-laws, and is particularly picky about eating, not expensive, not expensive.
Therefore, the stepson only returned for a month, and Mo Ting's salary was spent most of it. Mo Ting was anxious, so she asked her husband to hand in her salary card, and she came to arrange the family's expenses in a unified way, but she was rejected by her husband.
02, the wife only cooks a meal for one person
The husband's reason for refusal was strong: he had to adopt his parents to raise his son, and this salary was handed over to Mo Ting, and he could not adopt his parents. However, he is willing to take out 1,000 yuan a month as living expenses, and as for the rest of the living expenses, he has to share it equally with Mo Ting.
Mo Ting listened to her husband's reasoning and felt angry and funny. It turns out that men's pre-marital commitments cannot be counted. Mo Ting did not argue with her husband and forced him to hand over his salary card, but from that day on, she consciously or unconsciously made AA with her husband.
The husband gave 1,000 yuan for living expenses that month, she made 1,000 yuan of food, the stepson loved to eat or not to eat, and the husband loved to eat or not to eat. The number of times was more, and the stepson couldn't stand it, shouting that Mo Ting's stepmother abused him and complained to his mother.
Mo Ting did not pity him, and sued him, and there was no place to vent his mother's grievances. As a result, the husband listened but was very angry, thinking that Mo Ting was too open to money, they were all family, and they were still calculating, who paid more and who paid less, and even the children's food was deducted.
Her husband's rebuke made Mo Ting a little angry, and she simply did not do two things endlessly, and then directly cooked her own meals. As for her husband's 1,000 yuan living expenses, she did not bother to ask for it. Love to give or not to give, not to give her is just a matter of convenience.
03, wife: paid nanny, waiting for the family, where there is such a cheap thing
Mo Ting's attitude made her husband very angry, in his opinion, he married his second wife for his son. If Mo Ting can't even do a good job of being a good wife and mother, what qualifications does she have to enjoy the benefits he brings?
Seeing that her husband was arguing according to reason, it was bound to force her to compromise, and Mo Ting was cold. She intimidated her husband: paid nannies, waiting for the family, where is this cheap thing? Whoever raises the son, I have no obligation, I can't even take care of my own child.
Mo Ting was tough and did not compromise, so that her husband almost slapped her. If it wasn't for Mo Ting walking fast, this slap would have really hit her face. The stepson was still crying next to him, saying that his stepmother had deliberately not given himself food and drink. The in-laws who rushed to support their grandson heard this and immediately wanted their son to divorce.
Although the child is innocent and the child is unscrupulous, the words of the stepson have set off waves in the heart of the husband. He thinks that Mo Ting has no love and can even bully his children, let alone his parents. Originally, he just wanted to marry a nanny and come back to take care of his parents and children, but now it seems that Mo Ting can't do it at all.
Mo Ting couldn't stay any longer and directly filed for divorce with her husband. It is not that she does not have the grace of tolerance, nor is it that she is preoccupied, but that this second-married man is not looking for a wife at all, but is looking for a paid nanny, who can help him raise his son and serve his parents, killing two birds with one stone.
Today's Topic:
How do you think a woman should get along with her stepchildren after remarrying?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!