In this world, no one's life can leave another person, so many people "hide their feelings" in the name of love. Even if the other party hurts himself, he will also comfort himself with how much sincerity and effort he has paid to get along, which is a "selfless" and "kind" attitude, but he has never thought about whether the other party has got a little sweetness, even if in the other party's mind, when he is no longer important, can he continue to get along "regardless of the previous suspicions"? Everyone has a set of "comfort zone" in their hearts, if a person takes love as the only light in life, then she will constantly think about the "hurt" that the other party has brought to herself, and eventually fall into a "resentment" and "pain" emotion.
The depth of two people's feelings does not completely depend on the truth of the partner's attitude towards themselves, but if there is a problem with an "emotion" and the partner still does not care, it is easy for two people to start "accusing each other and quarreling", and the level of emotions is often equal to the strength of your feelings, as long as your mood is a little higher, the partner is likely to "give snub", then you will have a deep "sense of loss". When a person falls into a "sense of loss", it is possible to start to seek security elsewhere, if the other half is likely to continue to "give" and ignore the feelings of the people around you, then your emotions will definitely go to break. When a person feels that his partner does not have a little "shortcoming", then it means that he does not like you enough, that is, he does not like you in the eyes of the other party, no matter how much the other party loves this "silly girl", it will also give you negative energy, so that you have a strong "sense of guilt" and "loss".
Everyone needs a "self-space", which is also a very important "secret" for the maintenance of the relationship between two people to some extent. Just like Ms. Li (pseudonym), the two people who originally had a good relationship, after 10 years of marriage, there was a "divorce", and at the beginning, Ms. Li was very eager to keep the marriage. Because she still loves her husband, but one thing is intolerable, that is, the other party's "snub". This status quo makes Ms. Li lose "a little" sense of security, she realizes the feelings between herself and her husband, there is a big problem: her husband is a "cold person", she loves him a little more, but not enough.
After marrying the husband, he has always been "cold" to the husband, no matter how busy he is working outside, there is no "communication" between the two, even if it is a "cold" couple, there will be a certain opportunity for "exchange". Ms. Li grew up in a "family environment", she has become accustomed to "cold", the right to speak at home is almost zero, and everything she has to rely on "parents". And once this situation occurs in married life, it will be very "hurt" feelings, Ms. Li feels that the feelings of the two are no longer equal", she will feel panic because she feels "empty" and "lost".