Especially two people have been together for a long time, sometimes there is an inevitable lack of freshness between each other, in this case, it is easier to lose curiosity and freshness to each other, and gradually become bored and tired. But in fact, two people have been together for a long time, and those points and bumps between two people are actually some experiences and lessons accumulated, but many times, we often pay too much attention to these experiences and lessons, thinking that these are the past things, so we will ignore a lot of more beautiful things. Two people who have been together for a long time, will they really lose love for each other because of more and more things? Obviously not. Two people have been together for a long time, not that the love for each other will inevitably disappear, but that over time, the mode of getting along between the two parties will have a gradual change, and these changes are actually from the initial same to the final difference.
And when we see these changes, we may also lose enthusiasm for each other. Two people are too tired to be separated but difficult to leave, such a state is actually not conducive to the development of long-term relationships between two people. We can also ask ourselves: the two people who can really get along for a long time have enough mode of getting along to maintain this relationship, and there is also a certain mode of getting along to regulate the development of this relationship. If two people have been together for a long time, they have lost enthusiasm, so if this is really the case, then the relationship should not be tried, because it is difficult to return to the state of first love after trying, so the best way is to stop the loss in time. So, how to avoid such a situation?
In fact, the best way is to keep a distance after being together for a long time, and you may wish to maintain a certain sense of security and let each other know each other better. And when a person knows too much about a person, they will lose their enthusiasm and become more critical. In this way, two people will be together for a long time and will begin to dislike each other. If a person knows a person too well, he will not be full of freshness to the other party, and will feel that the other party is not as good as he thinks. When two people fall into the enthusiasm for each other, the feelings begin to fade, it is necessary to do some measures in time to make the feelings between each other warm again.
In this way, two people will not be unhappy because the heat of their feelings has decreased, nor will they be sad because the temperature of their feelings has weakened. In fact, in our intimate relationship, we often hear these "you know my feelings" from each other. When we hear these "your feelings" from the other person, we become very easy to "do." At this time, we will lose a lot of enthusiasm, and we will feel that the other party does not know ourselves as much as we imagined, so it is easy to lose our enthusiasm. Once the other party has this situation, we must reflect on ourselves well, so as to slowly adjust in our daily lives, to change some of our own problems, and to be more attentive to each other's feelings.