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The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is always a very difficult problem to deal with, because two people always look down on each other, and the mother-in-law has always had a hostility to her daughter-in-law, so after marriage, they will often embarrass their daughter-in-law in life. And such an idea has also created a deteriorating relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In the minds of mothers-in-law, after their sons and daughters-in-law marry, they will always regard their daughters-in-law as enemies, so they will not have a good attitude towards their relatives. So when they live with their own relatives, they will have some hostility towards their own relatives. Because they always treat their relatives as outsiders in their lives, they will feel very unhappy when their sons honor their fathers-in-law and mother-in-law. But in doing so, they may ruin their son's marriage.
Recently, in the course of life, at the time of the full moon feast, Wang Baixiang saved his family with a slap.
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Wang Baixiang was born in a poor family, his father died when he was very young, so he has always lived with his mother, in this life, Wang Baixiang's mother has always been very dependent on her son. Therefore, even after Wang Baixiang got married, Wang Baixiang's mother did not distance herself from her son because of this.
Wang Baixiang and his girlfriend Fan Jiajia are classmates in college, so the relationship between the two people has always been very good after they are together. However, the family conditions between the two people have always been very different, because Wang Baixiang's family conditions are very poor, but Fan Jiajia has lived in a wealthy family since she was a child, and her parents have always been very kind to her, so Fan Jiajia has never worried about money.
Since the two people were together, in order to be able to match his girlfriend, Wang Baixiang has been working very hard in life, and his efforts have all been seen by Fan Jiajia, so it is said that after the two graduated a year later, Fan Jiajia and Wang Baixiang married. Because Wang Baixiang's family conditions are not good, so even if the two people want to get married, Wang Baixiang still can't afford to buy a house, although Fan Jiajia's parents are not satisfied with the family conditions of their son-in-law, but because they feel that Wang Baixiang's good for their daughter can not be fake, so they finally agreed to the marriage of the two people.
In order to let her daughter not be wronged after marriage, and in order to make the life of the two people better, Fan Jiajia's parents also prepared a dowry room for their daughter. After the two people got married, they lived in the dowry room brought by Fan Jiajia.
But after getting married, Fan Jiajia learned that Wang Baixiang's mother was also coming to live with them. Because Wang Baixiang's mother's thinking is very feudal, Fan Jiajia actually does not want to live with her mother-in-law, because she is also afraid that the two people will have some contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but her opposition has no effect. So in the end, Wang Baixiang's mother also lived in.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are frequently conflicted
Wang Baixiang's mother has lived in the countryside since she was a child, so she actually has some patriarchal ideas, and her life is relatively rough and not so exquisite, but Fan Jiajia is different, she grew up under the love of her parents since she was a child, so life has always been very exquisite. After two people live together, the contradiction between the two people is also continuous.
Soon after Wang Baixiang and Fan Jiajia got married, Fan Jiajia became pregnant, and after knowing that her daughter-in-law was pregnant, although Wang Baixiang's mother also felt very happy, she did not feel anything, so whether it was eating or her usual life, there was no change because of her daughter-in-law's pregnancy. However, this also makes Fan Jiajia very unaccustomed. Because pregnant women always suddenly want to eat something, but the mother-in-law never listens to her own requirements, which also makes Fan Jiajia feel very helpless. Therefore, in the case of unappetizing meals, Fan Jiajia soon lost weight significantly.
Therefore, under such circumstances, Fan Jiajia couldn't help but talk to Wang Baixiang about this matter. Wang Baixiang also felt very distressed about the change of his wife, so after consulting with his wife, he also decided to take his mother-in-law and serve his pregnant wife. However, Wang Baixiang's mother was very opposed after learning about this matter, but no matter what she said, Fan Jiajia's mother still lived here.
Full Moon Feast Storm
Since Fan Jiajia's mother lived here, she often made food for her daughter in a different way, and under the care of her mother, Fan Jiajia quickly gained weight. However, this also made Wang Baixiang's mother very dissatisfied, so she often sneered at her daughter-in-law for being more and more squeamish, and often insulted Fan Jiajia in front of Fan Jiajia's mother. Although Fan Jiajia's mother was very difficult to accept such a statement as her own mother, she still chose to be patient for her daughter.
Soon Fan Jiajia gave birth to a daughter smoothly, but this also made the patriarchal mother-in-law dislike Fan Jiajia even more. So she didn't care about her granddaughter, but at the full moon feast, she felt very angry when she saw all the guests hugging the child's relatives, so she also directly said to Fan Jiajia's mother, even if you have any use in taking care of it, it is also my granddaughter.
Because Fan Jiajia's mother did not want to quarrel with her relatives, she did not pay attention to Wang Baixiang's mother. However, Wang Baixiang's mother continued: "The face is full of underwhelming" After saying that, she directly said to Wang Baixiang: Son, I have long seen that she is not pleasing to the eye, you slap him for me.
Listening to his mother's words, Wang Baixiang directly turned back to give her a slap, and this also made Wang Baixiang's mother completely confused, she could not believe that her son would beat herself. Wang Baixiang looked at his mother in front of him and said directly: Have you made enough trouble? You are neither waiting for your daughter-in-law to confinement nor childcare. It's always been my mother-in-law who's helping, and now I'm doing it, and I can't stand it, I'll rent you a house and you move out.
After seeing her husband's approach, the anger in Fan Jiajia's heart also eased a lot. The next day, Wang Baixiang also directly let his mother move out, and since his mother-in-law moved away, the life of the two people has become better and better.
In life, we often see a lot of various mother-in-law contradictions, and the premise of these mother-in-law contradictions is generally that the two mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live under the same roof, and because the growth environment and ideological realm of the two people are different. This also makes two people have different views when they face the same thing in life. Under such a different view, it will also cause a very serious conflict between two people.
There are many mothers-in-law who, in their lives, after their sons and daughters-in-law marry, will always have some dissatisfaction with their daughters-in-law because of some patriarchal ideas. Therefore, after their daughter-in-law gives birth to a daughter, they will do everything possible to their daughter-in-law in life. They even refuse to take care of their daughter-in-law after they give birth to it. And this kind of practice will also make the daughter-in-law have some emotions for them.
Although they did not take care of their daughters-in-law in life, they still wanted to be praised by others in their lives. So they will be hostile to their own relatives who are praised by others, and in this state, they will clash with their own relatives, and in this case, the feelings between the two families will also be estranged.
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In life, have you ever encountered such a mother-in-law contradiction?
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